Sex in Spanglish

56 | [Re-Release] A Mí No Me Pides Nada: How It Still Shows Up (And What I Do Now)

Summary:

In this re-release of one of our most listened-to episodes, I revisit A Mí No Me Pides Nada. I share how this dicho still rears its ugly head and how I handle it years later.

From staying quiet during painful pelvic floor therapy to letting $40 charges slide, this episode is all about how this cultural messaging still sneaks into our everyday decisions—and what it looks like to actually do something about it.

Whether you’ve heard it before or are brand new to this convo, this episode is a must listen.

What You’ll Learn:

How the dicho “A Mí No Me Pides Nada” shows up long after childhood

55 | Why You Don’t Ask for What You Want During Sex—And How to Start

If asking for what you want in bed feels awkward even with a supportive partner, you’re not alone. 

In this episode, I break down exactly why it feels so awkward. Hint: it has to do with dichos like “A mí no me pidas nada” and “Just don’t get pregnant.”

I’m reading from my free ebook Just Don’t Get Pregnant and Other Dichos, sharing TikTok comments that share experiences from women just like you, and giving you coaching tools to start shifting the way you show up - in and out of the bedroom.

What You'll Learn:

How childhood dichos shaped your relationship with giving and receiving - in and out of the bedroom

Why you feel weird/awkward asking for what you want and asking for help

Simple mindset shifts to help you feel more comfortable asking for what you want

The one question to ask yourself that starts to break generational shame for good

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Resources & Links:

Just Don't Get Pregnant & Other Dichos: subscribepage.io/LatinaGuide

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Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.

How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

Let's Connect:

Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza

Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

54 | Why Sex Should Never Be Painful: Causes & Solutions You Need to Know

Sex should never be painful—period. In this episode, I break down the most common causes of painful sex and how to solve for it.

Whether it’s pelvic floor tension, vaginal dryness, trauma, or hormonal changes, we’re getting to the root of what’s going on and what you can do about it.

PLUS: I’m sharing all the juicy details of my Golden Birthday Special—including 5 private calls, a 90-minute orgasm technique intensive, and lifetime access to Operation Orgasm, all for just $555.

What You'll Learn:

Why painful sex is never “just part of the deal”

What your body is really trying to tell you through pain

How pelvic floor tension affects your sex life—and how to release it

Why Kegels might actually be making things worse

How to know if your vaginal dryness is hormonal, emotional, or hydration-related

When to see a pelvic floor therapist (and how to make it affordable)

How trauma shows up in the bedroom—and what kind of support actually helps

Why hydration, arousal, and lube are your besties

Celebrate my Golden Birthday with Me: https://sexinspanglish.hbportal.co/public/67f2e9843d210000258ccdad

Resources & Links:

Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here

Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.

How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

Let’s Connect:Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza

Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

53 | Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance Pt. 2: What You’re Putting On Your Body Matters

Episode Summary:

In this second part of the vulva hygiene and vaginal maintenance series, we’re diving into what you’re putting on your body—and how it impacts your vulva and vaginal health.

From leggings and panties to lotions and laundry detergent, I’m breaking down the everyday things that could be throwing off your balance.

If you’ve ever dealt with BV, yeast infections, irritation, or just wanna take better care of your body, this episode has everything you need to know.

What You’ll Learn:

Why tight-ass leggings and non-breathable fabrics might be messing with your pH

What to look for in panties, swimsuits, and PJs so your vulva can actually breathe

Why 100% cotton matters 

How your laundry detergent might be contributing to BV, yeast infections, or irritation

Where you shouldn’t be putting scented lotions, oils, or creams—even if they smell bomb

How to wash and dry your vulva in a way that actually supports your health

Why reusing the same towel isn’t the best idea (especially if you're prone to infections)

My favorite affordable vulva-safe brands 

Resources & Links:

Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here

Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.

How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

Let's Connect:

Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza

Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

52 | Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance: Your No-BS Guide to Feeling Good Down There

Episode Summary:

If you’ve ever felt confused about how to care for your vulva or vagina (or didn’t even know there was a difference), this episode is for you. 

I'm breaking down exactly what you should and shouldn’t be doing when it comes to vaginal and vulva hygiene—without shame, fear, or the medical gaslighting that so many of us are used to. 

Whether you're dealing with chronic yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, or just want to feel more confident in your body, this is your no-BS guide to vulva and vaginal maintenance.

What You'll Learn:

The difference between the vulva and the vagina—and why it matters

What actually goes inside your vagina (and what absolutely shouldn’t)

How to safely use sex toys, menstrual products, and body parts

The link between chronic infections and everyday habits (like what your partner eats 😳)

How to support your vaginal health with food and live cultures
Tips for preventing infections before they start

Resources & Links:

Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here

Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here

Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.

How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

Let’s Connect:

Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza

Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

51 | Podcast Notes: Rejuvenation for Mind-Blowing Sex – The Key to Lasting Energy and Pleasure

Episode Summary:

If you’re constantly exhausted, running on fumes, and struggling to feel present during intimacy, you might be missing a key ingredient: rejuvenation.

In this episode, I dive deep into what rejuvenation actually means, why it’s essential for sustaining pleasure and energy, and how to build the skill of rejuvenation into your daily life.

You’ll learn how to assess your energy levels, identify what your body actually needs, and implement small but powerful changes that will help you show up fully – in and out of the bedroom.

What You'll Learn:

✅ The difference between rest and rejuvenation – and why you need both
✅ How to assess your energy levels using the Rejuvenation Radar
✅ The four essential categories of rejuvenation: sleep, food, hydration, and hygiene
✅ Why most people are running on empty without realizing it – and how to fix it
✅ How to create your own Rejuvenation Recipe to feel more energized, connected, and ready for pleasure
✅ The surprising connection between self-care, energy levels, and libido

Resources & Links:

Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here

Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here

Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.

How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

Let’s Connect:

Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza

Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

50 | Rest for Better Sex: How Rest Affects Your Libido and Desire

Short Summary:

In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between rest and your sex life.

We dive into how relaxation can directly impact your libido, desire, and overall sexual well-being. Learn why relaxation isn't just about sitting on the couch but a skill that can be cultivated to enhance your intimacy.

If you've struggled with turning your mind off during sex or feel disconnected, this episode is for you.

What You'll Learn:

The importance of relaxation in your overall well-being and its effect on your sex drive

How the ability to relax can transform your sexual experiences and intimacy

Why many women struggle to relax, especially if they were raised in culturally demanding households

Practical tips to help you build the skill of rest and integrate it into your daily life

How relaxation can help you overcome common sex-related struggles like low libido, infrequent orgasms, and dryness

Resources & Links:

Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here

Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here

Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.

How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

Let’s Connect:

Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza

Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

49 | How to Embrace Rest and Rejuvenation for the Best Sex of Your Life

Short Summary:

In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between rest and rejuvenation and the quality of your sex life.

Learn how prioritizing rest can increase your sexual energy, improve your mood, and enhance intimacy.

We dive into strategies to rest your body and mind for better sex, both in the bedroom and beyond.

What You’ll Learn:

Resources & Links:

Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here

Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here

Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.

Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand

How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

Let’s Connect:

Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza.

Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

48 | Beyond the Bedroom: Navigating the Intersection of Holistic Health and Sexuality

Short Summary:

In this episode, we dive deep into the intersection of holistic health and sexuality. Discover how understanding your body on a deeper level, including your energy, cycle, nutrition, and mental health, directly impacts your sexual well-being.

Learn how to nurture your body to create a strong foundation for mind-blowing sex, and why it's crucial to view your body holistically. This episode offers valuable insights for embracing a balanced approach to both your sexual and overall health.

What You'll Learn:

Let’s Connect:

Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

47 | Mastering Your Body: The Key to Sexual Confidence and Satisfaction

Episode Summary:

In this episode, we uncover how mastering your body is the foundation of sexual confidence and satisfaction. By understanding your body sexually and holistically, you'll learn to identify your preferences, expand your pleasure options, and build a deeper connection with yourself.

What You’ll Learn:

The importance of mastering your body for sexual confidence.

How to identify and expand your sexual preferences.

Practical exercises to connect with your body and elevate your pleasure.

Why self-awareness is essential for satisfaction in and out of the bedroom.

Links & Resources:

Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here

Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here

Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.

Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand

How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

Let’s Connect:

Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!

Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!