Sex & Sensuality for the Churchy

We are still blaming women for their abuse and I don't like that!

I get that Da'Naiah is not a sympathetic victim, but let me hip you to something...victims aren't perfect and do not/should not have to perform to get your sympathy or empathy.

Today's episode we go into why the Da'Naiah's of the world need to be shown more grace and how LuzCelenia was personally incensed when a female preacher at her church spewed the same harmful rhetoric that keeps women like Da'Naiah in bondage by telling Black women they are solely responsible for their relationship status and undergirding toxic beliefs that our value is found in being chosen by a man to be his wife.

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The average married couple in the United States has sex once a week and Christian couples are having even less than that. 

In this week's episode, LuzCelenia talks about why Black Christian couples are likely to have less sex, what the benefits are of having more sex, and tips on how to increase the frequency and satisfaction of your sex life.

Click the link below to join LuzCelenia's private group for her session Unleash Your Radiance where she is going to share what she calls "the holy trinity of healing" and more on her personal journey to shining her light radiantly.

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LuzCelenia gets personal in this episode discussing how she grieved the relationship she thought would be her last one and turned pain into gold. 

Join LuzCelenia on Wednesday, December 14th in her private Facebook group (link below to join) for Unleash Your Radiance where she shares more about her journey and what she calls "the holy trinity of healing" that has helped her to heal and overcome from religious trauma, domestic violence, being overweight and insecure to become a confident woman who is living the life she always dreamed of full of joy, love, and pleasure.

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The narrative that we're broken  is old and tired and a lot of the advice given to and from men and women about relationships on the internet and on these red pill podcasts is really just toxic and counterproductive to the goal of experiencing real, healthy love growing up. Our foundation wasn't laid properly. Our parents and their parents did the best they could, but the impact has been severe. The great news is you can lay a new foundation and as important as healing is it doesn't mean you have to become obsessed with it because you're not something that needs to fix.

Listen to today's episode to hear LuzCelenia speak very openly about why this work is important to her and why she encourages everyone who will listen to start their own healing journey as we start off this month's series on relationships.

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Delayed but not denied...we had some tech issues but we close out Kinktober with our special guest, Dee Rae. She was so gracious to record again to get this much needed conversation about her journey as a church girl into kink and polyamory. She also shares helpful tips for beginners and some high-level information about the spectrum that is kink. We even talk about our long and very colorful history together and how our paths have crossed on our respective kink journeys.

To fill out the kink checklist we mentioned in the website you can download or save to your drive by clicking here or visiting https://tinyurl.com/SSFCGkinkchecklist

To connect with De Rae visit her links here 

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We are continuing our conversation on kink with the Erogenous Coach, Dr. LaVonne Shaw who is a licensed minister and certified Dominatrix. 

We talk about how the Erogenous Coach came about from a place of necessity because of how many women were not equipped to give or experience pleasure with their partners or spouses and why she decided to become a dominatrix. 

LuzCelenia also gives you an update on her life and how gym life has become an important part of it. Follow @fittemplebaltimore on Instagram if you're looking for a new trainer. He also has virtual training available as well.

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Back after an unplanned 2-week break and we are diving right into kink since it's National Kink Month

Chapter 1: LuzCelenia shares about why there was a 2 week break and how her sensual practice helped her to clarify and empower herself to be able to realign and inevitably find peace to move forward.

Chapter 2:  A brief introduction to kink. What is kink, why do people participate in it and does it have to be sexual? Plus, a brief tease into next week's guest Dee Rae who is a Black polyamorous pansexual polymath as she tells her journey into kink.

Chapter 3: Church Announcements from Rep. Alexandria Occasio Cortez's speech from 2 years ago indicting on religious liberties.

Chapter 4: Close

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Is sex just for procreation? Was it created simply to be fruitful and to multiply or can we also experience pleasure not as a byproduct but as its focus too?

One way to gauge pleasure in sex is experiencing orgasms and unfortunately, heterosexual women statistically are having fewer orgasms than anyone else with heterosexual men having the most.

This week's church announcements tackles the difference between church girl p*ssy and witchy p*ssy.

We end the episode with an ode to black girls who take their pleasure in their own hands by the watcher.

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Credits:
Sunday Spirit by music by audionautix.com

Sources:
Orgasm Statistics
Where is the clitoris?
24 types of orgasms

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Ever heard that masturbation is a sin or that it invites evil spirits into your life? Let's talk about it along with some of my thoughts (I promise no spoilers) of The Woman King. To close out the episode stay for some useful affirmations that can help you remove shame around self-pleasure and masturbation.

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Credits:
Sunday Spirit by music by audionautix.com
The Lounge by Ben Sound

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The podcast has a new name and renewed mission. You can go to the link below to subscribe to the podcast

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Credits:
Sunday Spirit by music by audionautix.com

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BE AS RADIANT AS THE SUN!