We discuss: how much we choose to share about our sex lives; visiting strip clubs as a couple; why you can give the clit too much attention; stories from men who have been with other men; period sex; boob play; why kissing is important.

Topics: how much do you tell your friends? How much do you like your clit touched? Sex when someone else was in the room. Your favourite part of foreplay.

We discuss: the damage we’ve caused during sex; being attracted to a person’s scent; being safe during casual sex; learning to kiss well; our first kisses; getting fingered in nightclubs.

Topics: what have you broken during sex? Sweat, what makes a great kiss? What have you got up to in a nightclub?

We discuss: when you can’t even wait to get your clothes off; the pleasures of dry humping; the animalistic sex that can follow an argument; the emotions you can experience during a BDSM scene; how to find a third person for a threesome; knowing when someone is pressuring you for sex; using the tip of a penis to tease you; the power of a compliment.

Topics: sex with clothes on, angry sex, just the tip, the nicest thing someone has said about your body.

We discuss: the times when we’ve needed to masturbate no matter where we were; how a buttplug can transform your sexual experience; Zoom sex clubs; choosing to abstain from sex; self slut-shaming; feeling under pressure to get in a relationship.

Plus we hear from Sexpots listeners about their sex lives during lockdown.

Topics: the strangest place you’ve had a wank, buttplugs, your driest spell.

We discuss: the value of an electric toothbrush as a vibrator; getting satisfaction from giving pleasure; how you don’t need penetration to have an amazing experience; eating creampies; an explanation of docking from someone with experience.

Plus we’re joined by Cate from the Swinging Downunder podcast to tell us about her first-hand experience at hotwifing.

Topics: a great experience that didn’t involve penetration, morning sex, hotwifing.

We discuss: why you should try a footjob even if you’re not into feet; why aftercare goes hand in hand with BDSM; throwing yourself into meaningless sex after a breakup; why it’s important to talk about your fantasies even if you don’t want to act them out; making a list of places you want to have sex in.

Topics: footjobs, aftercare, sharing fantasies.

We discuss: why we think 69s are overrated; how power play can work outside of your sex life; being scared by your own fantasies around consensual non-consent; sleep sex; the importance of communication when exploring your more extreme fantasies; the amount of places you can have sex in a pub; sex in the rain.

Topics: 69, power play, quickies.

We discuss: why stockings and suspenders are a faff; finding sexy underwear for a plus-size body; grieving the end of a relationship; being attracted to a person irrespective of their gender; the (short term) case for an arrogant prick; how the weather can affect your level of horn; when porn consumption gets to unhealthy levels.

Topics: stockings and suspenders, sex with someone of the same gender, porn consumption.

We discuss: the attraction of having sex in a cemetary; car sex; nightclub fingering; having the confidence to share your partner with another; our admiration for ethical non-monogamists; being (consensually) made to stay silent during sex; sex at work; butt plugs.

Topics: most unusual location, licking balls, how loud do you get?

We discuss: where we like to be touched, other than the obvious; the different types of sex swing; the first porn we watched; getting balls inside a pussy; couples visiting lap dancing clubs together; male strippers; what it’s like to work in a peep show.

Topics: unusual erogenous zones, did the porn you watched when younger shape your taste? Lap dancing clubs.