For our special Christmas episode we delve into the many DMs we receive at @SexpotsPod on Twitter and Instagram to talk about whatever you want us to discuss. Topics include clit piercings, orgasm denial, nails, self consent and foot fetishes.

We discuss: everyone looking good under fairy lights, pulling at a Christmas party, finding the right angle for video sex, cream pies, going gentler the first time you have sex.

Topics: Festive fucks, Skype sex, sexiest present, have you ever shocked a partner with a request?

We discuss: coming up with a better name for prostate massage; wearing a sex toy in public; sexy Christmas presents; the difficulties in finding a fuck buddy; what we can learn from strippers.

Topics: prostate massage, incognito sex toys, fuck buddies, stripping.

We discuss: the importance of getting the right angle for anal; what we’re thinking about when you’re strumming a guitar; finding new places on your partner to kiss; laughing during sex; the difficulty of continuing your kinks when you lose a partner; worrying about not living up to expectations; body confidence when sending nudes.

Topics: your favourite position for anal, something non-sexual that turns you on, the funniest thing you’ve heard or said during sex, the first time you sent a nude.

We discuss: the times we’ve had sex when we didn’t want to; why you may benefit from relationship counselling; the little things we do to feel sexy; why we like porn stars with nice nails; the joys of ElectraStim; the pleasures of cross dressing; sex cinemas.

Topics: obligation sex, nails, ElectraStim, being wanked on.

We discuss: the simple pleasures of dry humping; the things we wouldn’t do; listener experiences of sex clubs; feeling guilty about our fantasies.

Topics: dry humping, hard limits, the first time you were rimmed, consensual non-consent.

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It’s a Halloween Special! We discuss: why you have to be careful with nipple clamps; how much pressure to apply to balls; getting aroused on public transport; being horny when on your period; crying after an orgasm.

Topics: the first time you were made to scream, CBT, period sex, crying.

We discuss: showing off your love bite; the excitement of knowing it’s the last time you’re going to have sex with someone; adding whipped cream and sprinkles to a blowjob; having a relationship with your sex toys; the many varieties of pegging.

Topics: your first love bite, last times, food, pegging.

We discuss: why angle is so important for deep throating; why you should experiment with not ejaculating; being owned within a BDSM relationship; why feeling vulnerable can turn you on; introducing a toy into the play with your partner; why we love the way you smell.

Topics: deep throat, the first time a partner didn’t cum, CMNF, smell.