Young love…all fresh and new and shit. This episode we share our thoughts on the 7 Big Mistakes Gay Couples Make During the First Year by the folks at Couples Counseling Chicago. In our listener letters, we tackle whether to reclaim an ex and how to drink all the milk without marrying the handsome cow.

The guys get into the politics of dating within and outside of your league. Is there such a thing as a “league” or is it all in our heads? Perhaps it comes down to dating people with whom we connect regardless of the window dressing. Sometimes it is best to know and appreciate yourself. The right guy will let you know what draws him to you and keeps him coming back.

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The guys explore self-care with a leisurely stroll through the 8 Dimensions of Sef-Care Model from the folks at LivingUpp.com. Darkboy taking pretty good care of himself; whereas Dr. Pouquie believes that his self-care is a hot ass mess. Is the good doctor being too hard on himself?

Visit Stacy and her team at LivingUpp.com to complete the assessment and identify the areas of self-care that need your attention.

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When is it time to walk away? From intimate relationships that have grown stale. From friendships that are no longer so friendly. Or from business relationships that offer anything but quality products and good service. This week the guys tackle the when, the how, and the whys with a sampling of their personal experiences.

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Intimate relationships involving more than two people at one time are not new. Gay men have often been at the forefront of sexual experimentation, freedom, and innovation. Despite our tendency to occasionally land on the conservative side, Black LGBTQ folks have been sexual and relationship pioneers as well. Unlike in past generations, our conversations about non-monogamous relationships go beyond swinging and key parties. We now have as many catchy names for these different types of relationships as we have academic and clinical names. This week, the guys hit up Uncle Wikipedia for a list of non-monogamous relationship forms to begin Part 1 of a larger discussion of the forms that intimate relationships can take.  How open can you be in your romantic relationships and marriage? Could you share your partner? Is having a little piece (or several pieces) on the side part of how you're wired?

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This week the guys explore the Blackest shit they experienced during the past 7 days, then they get into a discussion about perfectionism. While the ills of perfectionism go beyond Black LGBTQ folks, it seems more evident and damaging among our folks. What happens when you realize that you aren’t perfect.

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We’re back like crackheads on payday.  

Following a short holiday break, the guys are back to discuss Hollywood fantasy and ugly realities. The unsavory aspects of the iconic actors who’ve brought iconic characters to life continue to be exposed. The guys begin their discussion of the image of these characters and the reality of the people who play them.

Control issues run wild in the listener letters this week as folks attempt to exercise control over minds and genitals that have their own ideas.

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We’re back like crackheads on payday.  

Following a short holiday break, the guys are back to discuss Hollywood fantasy and ugly realities. The unsavory aspects of the iconic actors who’ve brought iconic characters to life continue to be exposed. The guys begin their discussion of the image of these characters and the reality of the people who play them.

Control issues run wild in the listener letters this week as folks attempt to exercise control over minds and genitals that have their own ideas.

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Hindsight being 20/20, we often have the right answers to correct past decisions that did not work out as we'd hoped. The begin a discussion of some past experiences and how they would have responded then with the knowledge they possess now. The conversation is at times lighthearted and a touch on the heavy side at other times.

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Resources for Theo

* Jacks of Color hosted by Lidell Jackson

* The Joy of Solo Sex by Harold Litten

* Coach Wank on Apple Podcast, Twitter, Tumblr, and YouTube

* A quick Google search "male masturbation movies" will keep you busy for a while.

 

What would you do for Daddy?

This episode the guys discuss their attraction to the more seasoned man. Whether he is a statuesque military veteran with a comforting lap or a cat daddy that can still command a room with his fedora and swag, the guys get into the things that they’ve done for Daddy over the years.

Darkboy stayed the course and got a great husband along the way. He’s an old married guy now, but he ain’t dead.

Dr. Pouquie routinely defies his mother’s “10 years up to 10 years down” dating advice. He hasn’t claimed that band of gold (or platinum, yeah, platinum) yet, but each breath is opportunity.

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