She Finds Joy

Ep 36 | Changing Yourself By 1% Part 2

The reason you can’t create behavior change or habit change in your life has nothing to do with you or your willpower. It has to do with your system. Having a goal isn’t enough to achieve the result. And the size of your goal doesn’t correlate with the size of your results.

Instead, put your energy into building a system to support your success in your habits. You might have a system for reading each night before you go to bed. A system for when, how long, and where you exercise. Creating systems is the foundation to you implementing new behaviors and habits in your life. This is where you need to spend your energy—in the system.

In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, learn why:

• It’s not about goals, it’s about systems.

“You don’t rise to the level of your goals, you fall to the level of your systems.” James Clear, Atomic Habits

Helpful Links

• Here’s the link to Atomic Habits, by James Clear.

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

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Ep 35 | Changing Yourself By 1%

When it comes to change, you don’t need to take massive, gigantic action. You only need to implement tiny, 1% shifts in your life to grow yourself.

Tiny habits are the compound interest of the self-improvement world. Human beings struggle to develop and maintain habits. We do things like work out like crazy for a week or so, and then stop completely. We go on a super strict diet where we eat like rabbits only, to find ourselves engulfing a chocolate cake by the weekend. We get so overwhelmed and “go all in” that we don’t realize the power of consistency and 1% changes. If you consistently do something, even in small things, it acts as compounding interest in your life.

Tune in to hear Kim share:

• What money and compound interest have to do with your personal development goals.

“The difference a tiny improvement can make over time is astounding. Here's how the math works out: if you can get 1% better each day for one year, you'll end up thirty-seven times better by the time you're done.” - James Clear

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.

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Ep 34 | The Value of Self-Loyalty with Nancy Jane Smith

In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim has the distinct pleasure of talking with Nancy Jane Smith. Nancy is a Licensed Professional Counselor with thirteen years in private practice, and has spent an impressive 20-plus years working as a counselor and coach. She has written three books on living happier, most notably The Happier Approach: Be Kind to Yourself, Feel Happier and Still Accomplish Your Goals. Nancy is also a certified Myers-Briggs®, Strong Career Assessments®, and Daring Way™ Facilitator.

In this episode, Nancy explains the term “self-loyalty.” In her work, she finds that loyalty is one of her clients’ highest core values. “We know how to be loyal to our mothers, fathers, spouses, children, friends, work, organizations, etc. We can give loyalty to other people, but we struggle to give it to ourselves.”

Nancy breaks down this term and helps us understand how to practice more self-compassion while giving us strategies for dealing with our inner critic so we can begin to choose self-loyalty.

Tune in to hear Nancy share:

• How self-love and self-loyalty go hand-in-hand.

“Self loyalty is not turning your back on yourself.” - Nancy Jane Smith

Helpful Links:

• Nancy’s Website

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.

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Ep 33 | Renea Fieck: Overcoming Overwhelm as a Mother

In today’s episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim speaks with Renae Fieck. Renae is a shameless mom of three, an occupational therapist, and an advocate for moms who desire more grace, space, and rest within their lives. She has found strength beyond her own to navigate life’s struggles—multiple miscarriages, life with three kids, working mom life, stay-at-home mom life, and a husband suffering a brain tumor and seizures.

Renae is the founder of the Rising Moms Club. It’s a community for moms who are ready to RISE ABOVE the chaos and overwhelm of life and busy days, and trade exhaustion and the never-ending to do list for a life with more joy! She is also the host of the annual More than Mom Summit, The Great Clutter Clear Out Challenge, and the Rising Moms Podcast.

In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, listen to Renae share:

• Her rockbottom moment as a mother.

“Taking care of yourself as a mother matters.” - Renae Fieck

Helpful Links

• Connect with Renae

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.

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Ep 32 | Using a Poison Pen Letter to Heal Hurts

When we hold on to negative energy, it saps us of our creativity, health, and well-being. We let it steal our joy. We become so wrapped up in the wrong that was done to us that we can’t enjoy the present. When we hold onto unforgiveness, it can bring bitterness and anger into our experiences and relationships with others.

“Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Buddha

In this episode, Kim discusses the effects of holding onto grudges when they are, in fact, quite painful to maintain:

• Why do we keep wounds open and active, living in past experiences of pain which prevent new experiences?

Helpful Links

• Many Lives, Many Masters: The True Story of a Prominent Psychiatrist, His Young Patient, and the Past-Life Therapy That Changed Both Their Lives Paperback by Brian Weiss

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.

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Ep 31 | My Journey to Become Anti-Racist

In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim takes on the difficult topic of racism. This episode is different and hard, but necessary.

Kim states her core values and support for the Black Lives Matter movement. She explains a few ways we can show up for people of color and do the work that is necessary to dismantle systemic racism. Kim believes we all must stand up and protect Black lives and human rights.

This episode is an invitation to join Kim in open conversation about the state of existence in America and the reignited revolutionary action that’s taking place. America was built on enslavement and it’s up to us to make the necessary changes that will protect Black lives in communities across the country. Racism is not an individual concept, but a deeply-embedded institution of power that seeps into every corner of this country and we must acknowledge it and fight for change.

Inside This Week’s Episode

In today’s episode, Kim discusses...

• How white people benefit from a system built by and for other white people.

“...Individuals might be against racism, but they still benefit from a system that privileges whites as a group.” Robin Diangelo

Helpful Links

Go download one of these audiobooks or podcasts and listen & learn:

• Me & White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, Become a Good Ancestor by Layla Saad

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.

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Ep 30 | Dream, Fears, & Uncomfortableness

In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim discusses having a vision for your life and the importance of following your dreams.

Kim discusses how, as women, we need to build our confidence and begin to really listen to the part of our soul that is begging to come forth. We can all take little actions towards our dreams, even if it means we feel uncomfortable or fearful. In this episode, she explains how to stop playing the “if/when” game and two steps that will light your soul on fire. Kim adamantly believes that you must have a vision for your life, but must not tie your happiness to the results of that vision.

In today’s episode, Kim talks about…

• Why we must step into uncomfortability and walk through fear.

“We must listen to the whisper of our soul and follow our dreams.” - Kim Strobel

Helpful Links

This is the Steve Harvey book, Act Like A Success Think Like a Success, which Kim mentions.

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.

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Ep 29 | Leaning Into Emotional Disruption with Shannon Jamail

In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim has a conversation with Shannon Jamail—the founder and creator of Mind & Body Complete. She is a best-selling author, podcast host, and therapist turned performance coach on a mission to elevate women in mind and body in order to connect, grow, and thrive.

Shannon found traditional therapy to be extremely helpful, but realized that when we treat the person from a holistic standpoint, that significant changes can happen.

In this episode, she explains that we all have emotional disruptions in our life, whether it’s at work, in our relationships, in our thinking, or a trauma we are dealing with. She also explains her three step system for making our way through our emotional disruptions that can lead to happiness and more fulfillment.

In today’s episode, Kim and Shannon talk about…

• The reasons we get triggered by others’ actions and behaviors.

“...the only reason we get triggered by others is because it’s an insecurity within us…” - Shannon Jamail

Helpful Links

Check out www.mindbodycomplete.com to learn about Shannon’s retreats and coaching practice.

About Shannon

Shannon Jamial is the founder and creator of Mind & Body Complete. She is a best-selling author, podcast host, retreat leader, therapist turned performance coach and tequila connoisseur (not really but she does enjoy sipping on a good pour). Shannon has a passion and a mission to elevate women in mind and body in order to connect, grow, and thrive through her programs and intentional products. She lives on her ranch with her family in the Hill Country of Texas. Find out more about her at www.mindbodycomplete.com

She also hosts her podcast, https://mindbodycomplete.com/podcast/. You can follow her on Instagram, Facebook, or check out her book!

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.

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Ep 28 | Building Greatness from Feelings of Unworthiness with Delia Perry

In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim talks with Delia Perry, the host of the weekly podcast Girls 4 Greatness. Her popular podcast aims to build listeners’ personal confidence and belief in their ability to change, grow, and live the life they were truly meant to live.

In the first part of the episode, Delia shares her struggles with self-esteem and worthiness that she’s experienced throughout her life. For much of her life, she felt like the way she looked controlled everything—even her marriage. Today, Delia leads us to rediscover the greatness we have inside of ourselves and helps us bring it into the world. She walks us through how to tune into our authentic selves and find where our strengths lie.

In today’s episode, Kim and Delia talk about…

• Why Delia’s appearance became such a big part of who she is, why it carried into her marriage.

“It’s so important for women to get in touch with the little girls they were and to find those dreams again.” - Delia Perry

Helpful Links

Instagram

Facebook

Website

Podcast

About Delia

Delia Perry has always had a passion for motivating and encouraging others. She was thrilled to bring her strengths to her podcast, Girls 4 Greatness. On this weekly podcast, Delia interviews other women who have overcome their own struggles in order to find success and fulfillment in their life. She highlights how her guests are using their own greatness to make an impact in the world. Girls 4 Greatness exists to build confidence and belief in others ability to change, grow and live the life they were truly meant to live.

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.

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Ep 27 | Finding Purpose in Your Pain with Ashlee Bruggenschmidt

In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim has a conversation with Ashlee Bruggenschmidt, a former teacher turned principal. Ashlee also runs the Play for Kate Foundation in honor of her 11 year old daughter who tragically passed away in July of 2015 from an ATV accident.

Ashlee and Kim talk in-depth about how we can all overcome hard things and still reach for joy in our lives. Ashlee’s actions show that she continues to choose hope every day, even as she navigated some of the darkest times of her life.

In this interview, Ashlee discusses firsthand what the days following the tragedy were like for her as a mother. She also describes the social support system made up of her family, friends, and community and how this helped her heal. This support was exactly what led her to her mission and the Play for Kate Foundation, which honors her daughter through numerous acts of service. Ashlee’s story is one of courage, faith, resilience, and taking darkness and turning it into passion and purpose. She chooses HOPE each and every day.

Inside This Week’s Episode

In today’s episode, Kim and Ashlee talk about…

• Grief—what it looks like, feels like, and how it continues to show up.

“...Once I got a purpose, I could start to see the light from the darkness…” - Ashlee Bruggenschmidt

Helpful Links

Check out Play for Kate. This is the foundation that was founded to honor Ashlee’s daughter Kate and all that she embodied. Kate made such a difference in the lives of those who knew her. She was selfless, caring, energetic, and driven. The foundation built a playground in Kate's memory in Boonville, Indiana, as well as supports student scholarships. The foundation worked to pass HEA 1200—Kate's softball number was 12—into law, which dictates that all ATV riders younger than 18 must wear a helmet, both on public and private land.

About Ashlee

Ashlee is an elementary principal, President of the Play for Kate Foundation and has received many recognitions including Indiana Elementary Principal of the Year and Healthcare Hero in Evansville, IN. She’s also an activist working to ensure children’s safety and is determined to use her tragedy as a way to celebrate the life of her daughter, Kate.

About Kim

Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!

You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.

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