She Wears the Pants

If you’ve ever found yourself exhausted by the chase, performing instead of leading, or stuck in the cycle of doing more just to prove your worth, this conversation is for you. 

Ashley shares the mindset shifts that moved her from hustling to holding, from proving to embodying, and from performance to presence.

Inside this episode:

• Why chasing the “next thing” keeps you disconnected from who you already are
• How to shift from insecure to integrated so your energy matches your message
• The difference between performance and presence, and why presence creates sustainability
• What it really means to “hold” success without burning out or disappearing in the process

Because it isn’t about doing more. It’s about becoming more of yourself; anchored, integrated, present, and powerful.

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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What if wealth wasn’t just about money, but about being rich in every area of life?

On this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley sits down with Jasmin Manke, Forbes 30 Under 30 entrepreneur, 8-figure mentor, international bestselling author, and the visionary behind the HypnoDance Method.

Jasmin has built an eight-figure empire in her twenties, manifested a multimillion-dollar home in just three weeks, and helps women around the world create multiple six-figure cash months, all while staying unplugged, aligned, and deeply in flow. She’s not just building wealth, she’s redefining it.

In this episode, we dive into:

• Jasmin’s early entrepreneurial roots and the lessons she learned watching her mother “wear the pants” in business
• Why saying no to misaligned opportunities is the fastest path to authentic success
• The power of building wealth from alignment rather than pressure
• How the HypnoDance Method combines music, movement, and mentorship to create transformational results
• Jasmin’s “relaxed rich” philosophy, and why sustainable wealth is about joy, not sacrifice
• Her top three takeaways for becoming the woman who can hold the success you’re calling in

This conversation is a powerful reminder that you get to have it all—and that success built on alignment, fun, and flow is not only possible, but inevitable.

Learn more about our guest:

Jasmin Manke is a 8 Figure Mentor, Forbes 30 u 30 Lister, 1# International Best Selling Author, Speaker. Jasmin helps entrepreneurs get rich in all areas of their life inside the Wealth Being Members Club.

Website: https://jasminmanke.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasminmankecoaching/ (DM her the word Ashley for a special gift)

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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The real reason you’re not hitting your goals? It’s not discipline. It’s not motivation. It’s foundation.

In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley pulls back the curtain on why so many ambitious women stay stuck in the gap between vision and results. You’ve made the vision board. You’ve bought the planner. You’ve mapped out the steps. And yet, the needle isn’t moving.

The truth? No one ever taught you how to actually anchor your goals into a structure that can hold them. That’s where this episode comes in.

Ashley shares the exact five-layer framework she used to scale businesses, restructure time, and build systems that don’t just look good on paper, but actually work in real life.

Inside this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why simplicity is the overlooked strategy that creates clarity and focus
• How to build a strategy that aligns with your pace, resources, and season, not what’s trending online
• The role of structure in turning shaky belief into consistent progress
• Why specificity matters if you want your goals to actually land
• How scheduling transforms “someday” into a non-negotiable reality

This isn’t about doing more, it’s about doing better. It’s about giving your goals a place to land so you can stop spinning your wheels and start moving with momentum.

If you’ve been craving a way to bridge the gap between intention and execution, this episode is your permission slip to rewrite the rules of goal-setting and build a foundation that lasts.

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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What if the real secret to success isn’t strategy, but radical self-expression?

On today’s episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley is joined by Jennifer Spivak, CEO and founder of The Ad Girls, an all-female Facebook and Instagram advertising agency that’s unapologetically mission-driven and fiercely results-focused. Known as the “Conversion Queen” by Forbes, Jennifer has managed over $25M in ad spend and generated more than $90M in revenue for her clients, all while building a movement rooted in putting more money into the hands of women.

From surviving an abusive relationship in her early 20s to becoming one of the most sought-after voices in digital advertising, Jennifer’s story is one of resilience, authenticity, and courage to break every rule that doesn’t serve you.

In this powerful conversation, we dive into:

• How Jennifer turned a painful chapter into her life’s mission of economic empowerment for women
• Why authenticity is her ultimate secret sauce in business
• The evolving landscape of ads and why freebies are no longer the gold standard
• Leadership lessons from building and scaling an all-female team of 24
• How to cultivate self-trust, navigate challenges, and create systems that put you in control of your business growth
• What it really takes to hold success, visibility, and impact as a high-performing CEO

Jennifer’s journey proves there are no rules—only the ones we choose to make.

This episode is equal parts strategy and soul. Whether you’re ready to scale with ads or simply need a reminder that you’re allowed to do business your own way, Jennifer’s wisdom will light the fire under you.

Learn more about our guest:

Jennifer Spivak is the CEO and Founder of The Ad Girls: An all-female Facebook & Instagram advertising agency dedicated to putting more money into the hands of more women. 

Website: www.theadgirls.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennspivak/

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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You don’t scale by doing more.

You scale by becoming more.

In this powerful third installment of her recent solo series, this episode is all about building your CEO Operating System, a personalized framework of routines, rhythms, and rituals that scale with your life and leadership.

Ashley shares how to:

• Align your schedule with your energy, not just your to-do list
• Create rituals that regulate and refocus your power
• Structure your week like a portfolio CEO
• Protect your priorities with weekly CEO time
• Integrate your evolving identity into your monthly planning
• Build a flexible, seasonal structure that supports your soul

This isn’t about productivity hacks, it’s about leadership design. If you’re ready to stop reacting and start creating, this episode will help you build a rhythm that reflects your reality and supports your next level.

What part of your life or business needs rhythm more than hustle? What’s one ritual you can add, or remove, this week to support that?

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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On this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley sits down with Olivia Marie Pecqueur, a resilient entrepreneur and coach who knows firsthand that healing is more than just fixing what’s broken—it’s about transforming every layer of your life. After facing a devastating injury that left her navigating physical, mental, and emotional recovery, Olivia rebuilt her health, her confidence, and her business from the ground up.

Tune in as Ashley and Olivia explore:

• How trauma and adversity can become catalysts for radical self-discovery
• The role mindset and emotional healing play in long-term recovery
• Why listening to your body is essential for preventing burnout and relapse
• Tools and daily practices that support both physical and mental resilience
• How Olivia turned her personal healing into a platform for helping others thrive

Olivia’s story is proof that healing isn’t linear—it’s layered, complex, and deeply personal. If you’ve ever faced a setback that shook your identity, this conversation will give you the hope, strategies, and fire to rise again.

Learn more about our guest:

Olivia Marie Pecqueur is a powerhouse mentor and speaker who helps high-performing entrepreneurs scale to seven- and eight-figure revenue with grace—not grit. Known as the "Nervous System Queen," she offers a transformative methodology that blends nervous system regulation, quantum strategy, and soul-aligned leadership.

As the founder of Rich & Regulated CEO™, Olivia guides visionary leaders toward building wealth that feels luxurious both internally and externally—with ease as the new standard. Her clients go beyond cash flow; they cultivate calm confidence, magnetic presence, and sustainable momentum. She's also an angel investor and co-host of The Beyond Limits Show. 

Connect with Olivia:

https://www.keepupwithliv.com/aboutliv

https://www.instagram.com/keepupwithliv/

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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Building a multimillion-dollar business while raising six kids? Julie Cole shows how it’s done.

In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley is joined by Julie Cole — recovered lawyer, mom of six, and co-founder of Mabel’s Labels, a wildly successful brand built from a basement 22 years ago. Julie shares her journey from legal aid to entrepreneurship, balancing motherhood with building a legacy, and rewriting the rules of success and family life.

Tune in to hear Julie break down:

• How a missing product and a need for flexibility sparked an unexpected entrepreneurial journey
• The hard truths and humor of raising six kids while scaling a business
• Why saying “no” and setting strong boundaries saved her sanity
• The secret to balancing productivity with motherhood without perfectionism
• How her leadership style fosters empathy, independence, and trust at home and work
• The highs and lows of co-founding a business with multiple partners—and lessons learned
• How building a family-friendly, flexible company culture became a game changer

If you’ve ever felt like you have to choose between being a great mom or a successful entrepreneur, Julie’s story will challenge that narrative—and show you how to have both.

Learn more about our guest:

Julie Cole is a recovered lawyer, mom of six and co-founder of Mabel's Labels. Julie is an award-winning entrepreneur, best-selling and award-winning author and media personality. Having appeared on NBC's The Today Show, CNN, HLN's Raising America, Breakfast Television, The Marilyn Denis Show, CP24, and CityLine, among many others. Her articles have appeared in The Huffington Post, Today's Parent, The Globe and Mail, Profit Magazine, Working Mother Magazine, and numerous websites.

Connect with Julie:

https://mabelslabels.ca/en-CA/juliecole

https://www.instagram.com/juliecoleinc/

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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If you’ve ever set a big goal, sprinted toward it, and burned out halfway through, this episode will show you a better way.

Ashley breaks down backwards goal building—a step-by-step method for starting with your future vision and reverse-engineering the steps, systems, structure, and stacked promises that make it inevitable.

Tune in to hear Ashley break down:

• Why most goals fail (and how to make yours sustainable)
• The 5-step backwards goal building framework
• How to define a vision so clear you can’t help but create it
• Turning vague ideas into specific, repeatable action
• Building systems and structure that hold your success
• How stacked promises transform intention into identity

This isn’t about doing more—it’s about building smarter, aligning deeper, and leading stronger. Your next level isn’t waiting for a “someday.” It’s waiting for you to start behaving like her today.

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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Forget the chaos of constant reinvention—true momentum is created through small, intentional shifts that compound over time.

Tune in to hear Ashley break down:

• Why sustainable success is built in calm, not chaos
• The stacked promises method for building self-trust
• How micro-systems create massive results in business
• A client case study: 5 tiny changes that led to $100K/month
• The power of alignment over urgency (and how to find it)

You don’t need to overhaul everything to see real transformation. You just need to start stacking small wins that build the version of you who’s already ready for her next level.

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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Mentioned in this episode:

VIP Weekend Experience

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What if your wardrobe held the key to becoming the woman you’re meant to be?

On today’s episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley is joined by Chellie Carlson—a transformational stylist, founder of The Method, and the visionary behind the Style Society membership. With over 25 years in the fashion industry, Chellie is redefining what it means to “get dressed” by helping women align their style with their next-level identity.

Tune in to hear Ashley & Chellie break down:

• Why your closet might be the biggest thing holding you back
• How investing in your image leads to quantum leaps in confidence
• The emotional connection between self-worth and style
• Why becoming her starts with putting on the damn pants

If you’re ready to stop hiding in clothes that don’t feel like you—and start showing up as the woman you’re meant to be—this episode is for you.

Learn more about our guest:

Chellie Carlson is a transformational stylist, speaker, and founder of The Method—a signature 30-day style experience designed to help women shift their identity and align their wardrobe with the life they’re stepping into. With a luxe studio in West Hollywood and a thriving global community inside The Style Society, Chellie has worked with top-tier brands and been featured in The New York Times and Sports Illustrated. Her mission? To help women stop playing small—and start dressing like the woman they were born to be.

Connect with Chellie:

Instagram: @chelliecarlson

Website: www.chelliecarlson.com

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire 

Mentioned in this episode:

VIP Weekend Experience

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