Shottini d'Autostima

“Why the heck do I feel like crying my eyes out right in the middle of this meeting?” “Can I please kill my boss and get away with it?” “Where can I buy a magic wand to just switch ON or OFF my feelings on demand?”

Emotions are one of the most misunderstood parts of us that, however, we can’t live without. Indeed, they are electrochemical signals that are produced in the hypothalamus and get spread through our body within 6 seconds in a never-ending cycle. They operate in a neutral way simply to deliver a message in order to catch our attention on something we should be aware of, or, on the contrary to make us thrive and do more of that very thing. As a consequence, the way we react to them is our choice and can be reviewed each time one emotion comes to the surface. An additional good reason to review them is that they are more contagious to those around us than the Coronavirus epidemy we’re currently living in Italy! :)

Well, that’s exactly why in today’s episode we’ll learn how fundamental it is to understand and embrace them in order to use them at our advantage rather than continue being used by them.

To go deeper into the topic of Emotional Intelligence and learn to recognize better the 5 basic emotions that are Joy, Sadness, Fear, Disgust and Anger, I recommend watching the animated movie “Inside Out”: You’ll not only broaden your knowledge about the n°1 differentiating factor between an inspiring leader and a tyrant manager, but also get to enjoy quality time with your kids! (you can thank me later! :)

Access the full transcription of the episode here: https://rebirthcoaching.it/episode-3-part-2-learning-to-understand-and-embrace-all-types-of-emotions-read-the-episode/

Ever felt completely overwhelmed with emotion? Not knowing how to react to a bad news or unexpected challenge that Life threw at you? Unable to decide whether you should express, repress, or even suppress what you are feeling?

Like any coaching session, the first and absolutely fundamental step to getting out of a rut is to become aware of your starting point, understanding what is it exactly that you are going through, getting super familiar with the problem at hand that you can define it, label it, almost become an expert at it.

Well, this is exactly what we’ll be doing in today’s episode by getting crystal clear on how emotions work, and thus starting working on improving your emotional intelligence taking yourself as your own guinea pig! :)

Your journey to REbirth podcast will be dedicating a mini-series of 3 episodes dedicated to dealing with your own emotions, and the one from today focuses on how emotions work.

We’ll start by understanding their usefulness.

Then, we’ll dive into the consequences of not dealing with them properly.

Before focusing on why it’s crucial to embrace both the positive and negative ones.

Access the full transcription of the episode here: https://rebirthcoaching.it/episode-3-part-1-how-emotions-work-read-the-episode/

The only way to outgrow the current version of yourself is to dare to take risks and unlock a new level of YOU, just like in videogames. In general, remember that you probably wouldn’t want to listen to people you aren’t where you’d like to be in life or higher.

So why let them crush your ambitions together with theirs?? Like I always repeat, YOU are the captain of you ship and you can’t possibly let others navigate your life and think you’ll end up with one you’ll be perfectly fulfilled with! So take responsibility of your choices, take ownership of your life, dare to take the risks that are standing between you and your dreamed life and career.

Because only the most precious things and people in life are worth taking real risks for. Conversely, if it’s too easy or everyone has it, you probably shouldn’t put energy in it or WANT it altogether!! Your journey to REbirth podcast will be dedicating a mini-series of 3 episodes dedicated to fear, and the one from today focuses on the fear of risk. We’ll start by talking about what the fear of risk actually is.

Then, we’ll dive deeper into how it works. Before getting to practical ways to beat it.

Access the full transcription of the episode here: https://rebirthcoaching.it/episode-2-part-3-fear-of-risk-read-the-episode/

The only way to outgrow the current version of yourself is to dare to take risks and unlock a new level of YOU, just like in videogames. In general, remember that you probably wouldn’t want to listen to people you aren’t where you’d like to be in life or higher.

So why let them crush your ambitions together with theirs?? Like I always repeat, YOU are the captain of you ship and you can’t possibly let others navigate your life and think you’ll end up with one you’ll be perfectly fulfilled with! So take responsibility of your choices, take ownership of your life, dare to take the risks that are standing between you and your dreamed life and career.

Because only the most precious things and people in life are worth taking real risks for. Conversely, if it’s too easy or everyone has it, you probably shouldn’t put energy in it or WANT it altogether!! Your journey to REbirth podcast will be dedicating a mini-series of 3 episodes dedicated to fear, and the one from today focuses on the fear of risk. We’ll start by talking about what the fear of risk actually is.

Then, we’ll dive deeper into how it works. Before getting to practical ways to beat it.

Access the full transcription of the episode here: https://rebirthcoaching.it/episode-2-part-3-fear-of-risk-read-the-episode/

When it comes to trying new things and thus probably not succeeding on your very first attempt, YOU choose what you want to do with your fear of failure:

-either to get trapped into the so-called “analysis paralysis” because you tend to overthink everything to make “sure” you won’t fail (even if it’s virtually impossible to make sure of that unless you actually try, trust me) and you procrastinate on your dreams

-or you decide to be “the captain of your ship” like I like to call it and boldly decide to navigate your life as you wish, through the highs and the lows and accept to take each life experience as a lesson to grow from and even are HUNGRY for continuous trial and error to perform best the next time.

This way, you make sure your mind stays away from considerations like the Unknown U, the risk to Fail F, and being preoccupied by the Opinion of others O we just talked about, right?

A great way to switch off the “monkey mind” as we call it and prevent it from jumping from an interpretation to the next is to apply the 5sec rule (5 4 3 2 1 GO) and when fearing the worst case scenario, just ask yourself “so what?” “is it true that it’s a life or death type of situation I can’t survive to”?

We’ll start by defining your past heritage because if you don’t clearly define your fears and don’t acknowledge and accept the negative impacts they have on your life, you cannot possibly act forward by solving them and moving past them

Then, we’ll let our imagination go wild by identifying what would be the worst case scenario.

Finally, I will give you my two quick fixes to get past the fear of failure and just TAKE ACTION.

Access the full transcription of the episode here: https://rebirthcoaching.it/episode-2part2

“The only constant in life is change”. - Heraclitus

Fear of change, like most things when it comes to personal development, can be looked at in two very different ways: an amazing opportunity for growth and building up our decision-making and risk-taking muscles. OR, a scary challenge for the suffering it might hold, but mostly avoid it because of our ancestral survival mode craving for security and things known (even if not always enjoyable).

Your journey to REbirth podcast will be dedicating a mini-series of 3 episodes dedicated to fear, starting with this one focusing on the fear of change.

Given that fear is incompatible with self-confidence, we’ll make sure we won’t give it any chance to get at us by immediately being able to recognize it and understanding its original usefulness. Then we’ll apply that to YOUR current situation. And, ultimately, with a powerful NLP exercise, we will blow up your fear of change and moderate the impacts it had on you.

Access the full transcription of the episode here: https://rebirthcoaching.it/episode-2-fears-are-your-compass-in-life-read-the-episode/

Have you ever consciously thought about the way you communicate with others (both verbally and through your body language)?

When it comes to the way we are perceived by others, non-verbal communication counts for 65% to 93% more than the actual words we’re using. In short, the HOW is much more important than the WHAT when expressing ourselves.

That’s why in this first episode of Your journey to REbirth, we’ll talk about “Finding your signature communication style”: meaning, discovering the power of communication as an interpersonal currency, how to adapt it to people and situations, and why we should care.

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