Happy Christmas Eve Eve Eve Eve Eve Eve (we think?!) 

We’re catching you up on some of our recent awkwards… we’re actually kind of mortified by all of them. 

But don’t worry - you’re sharing our awkward pain because we’re also reading out YOUR submissions. Do you have one for us? Email us on [email protected] 

We also dive into our Google search histories… and it’s *very* revealing. 

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Today, we’re going to talk about Alex’s IVF story. 

After watching the new Netflix film JOY - Al was inspired to speak about her journey to having IVF, after having felt like it wasn’t something she was able to discuss online. 

We go through the entire journey that has led to Tommy being with us here today - and we hope this conversation is helpful for anyone else who is experiencing something similar or who might not understand the complexity of IVF - and how amazing that it is that science enables us to do this.

JOY - The Birth of IVF

HERTILITY: At home hormone and fertility tests

LAURA ADLINGTON ON SIDT: Bake off and body acceptance

THE INFERTILE MIDWIFE ON SIDT

EMMA THE EMBRYOLOGIST ON SIDT: Demystifying Fertility

ED JACKSON 

KERRI NORTHCOTT: Life with Ivy Coco 

GLASS BY MICHELLE ANDREWS

GAIA FAMILY

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After Al revealed she has *romantic feelings* for Shrek - we decided to ask you guys about your cartoon crushes… and be warned - they get a little freaky. 

Can you have a crush on a candle? Could you be in a long term relationship with Aladdin? Is the Beast as Beastly as he seems? 

We also segue into hypothetical wishes, a hilarious childhood prank and Hugh Grant’s hatred of backpacks. 

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Faye Winter appeared on Love Island in 2021 and when she left the villa she was faced with a lot of noise and a lot of criticism. In this episode, Faye chats candidly about seeing herself in a different light, admitting she was wrong, and how she apologised and is working towards becoming a better person. 

Faye tells us about her desire to live a normal life after appearing on the show - but how some people can perceive that as a failure, and how the choices that influencers make are dictated and driven by their audience engagement. 

We also have a candid chat about Faye’s experience with filler - and how it is unregulated in the UK. Faye shares a horror story about botox and explains why she’s so vocal about the topic now. 

Thanks so much to Hinge for sponsoring this episode. The dating app, which is designed to be deleted, inspires daters to take it slow this holiday season and reflect on the learnings from the past year. As we near the end of 2024, it’s the perfect time for a profile refresh demonstrating the person you’ve grown into this year and creating New Year’s intentions #HingePartner AD

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Lucky you - it’s another episode featuring husky Alex! 

It’s all been A LOT lately, so in this week's IIJM we lift the lid onto how much we’re literally hanging on by a thread.

We’ve been working hard getting our body image series ready for the new year - so today we have a chat about putting pressure on ourselves, our organisational styles and how we cope working so closely together. It turns into a bit of a therapy session...

We have an awkward all the way from Cape Town, a deep chat about animal hybrids and we ponder how far the human species would have got if it was made up of only Als and Ems (spoiler alert: probably not far)

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Silly season is upon us - and a lot of us associate Christmas with drinking. But it doesn’t necessarily have to be that way. 

Today - we’re speaking to Millie Gooch, the founder of Sober Girl Society - the largest community for sober and sober curious women on the planet. Millie tells us the story of how and why she stopped drinking and gives us some practical advice on how we can navigate Christmas if we’re trying to stay sober, become sober or even just explore more sober experiences. 

Find out more about The Sober Girl Society’s events and workshops here: https://sobergirlsociety.com/

Millie's new book, Booze Less, provides a mindful guide to sobriety and personal growth, designed to help readers rethink their relationship with alcohol while practicing self-compassion. Millie would love to share insights from Booze Less with your audience, discussing practical ways to approach sobriety and mindfulness, and offering her perspective on wellness trends and the cultural shift around drinking habits. You can buy your copy here!

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Al has a sore throat so this week’s Is It Just Me gets a little sexy… you have been warned! 

Today, we discuss why people might fancy Shrek - and we're also going to break down some movie magic for you.

Then, things get a little more serious because we also dive in to our personal reasoning for not sharing our children online and we discuss some of the judgement placed on parents and how we find out what works for us personally.

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Ellie was a 21 year old university student in a long term relationship - then she found out she was HIV positive after taking a home STI test - and her life changed… and in her opinion, it might have been for the better. 

Ellie is incredibly inspiring and she is a force for change - she tells us her story and how it drove her to become an activist, raising awareness and breaking the harmful misconceptions a lot of us hold about HIV. 

Be prepared to be blown away - Ellie is an amazing person and you are going to love this interview. 

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World Aids Day is on Sunday 1st December 2024 - https://worldaidsday.org/ 

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It’s time to get topical! 

The highly anticipated Wicked film came out this week and guess what… we weren’t invited to the premiere (unlike the rest of Instagram!) We also get serious about the body shaming we’ve seen in the media around Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo. Why do people feel like it’s okay to talk about their bodies and why are we so reductive when it comes to women?

We also discuss camel anatomy, I’m A Celeb and the love of Em’s life… Hugh Jackman. 

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Payzee Mahmod is an activist, campaigner and public speaker who advocates for women and children’s rights. She is campaigner at the KWRO women’s rights organisation and an Obama Leader.

She tells us the incredibly moving story of how she became a victim of child marriage at the age of sixteen. After her sister Banaz was murdered in of an ‘honour’ killing - Payzee bravely left her marriage and started a new life. She now campaigns for women and girls around the world - working to end harmful practices including child marriage and female genital mutilation. 

Payzee tells us about the successful campaign to criminalise child marriage in the UK, what it was like to see her sister’s story told in an ITV drama and her journey to healing. 

As a content warning, this episode contains some content some people may find distressing - including discussion of violence against women and murder.

IKROW is a charity supporting women & girls in the UK at risk of ‘honour’ based abuse, domestic violence, FGM and forced marriage. You can find more information about their work here.

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