Let’s talk about The List. This is the mental (or literal) checklist of things we want in the person we marry. In this episode, we’re unpacking our old lists and asking questions like:

- What are the most unrealistic or ridiculous things we’ve had on our lists?

- What happens when someone checks every box… but still isn’t the one?

- What does our list say about what we value or fear?

- Now that we’re dating in our 30s, what would we tell young people about making a list?

Whether you have 3 non-negotiables or a full-on spreadsheet, this one’s for you.