As a life coach, I often ask questions you don’t consider to ask yourself & in today’s episode, I’m asking you a question that is critical to your success in 2025 & beyond. 

What are you preparing for? 

Are you preparing to fail or are you preparing to succeed? Your mindset and actions related to each are drastically different so it’s important for you to check in with yourself & see what you’re really preparing for. 

Are you prepared to receive what you’re asking for? 

Listen to this full pep-talk style episode for more inspiration. 

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It’s the time of year again when so many people are sitting new intentions and goals for the year ahead & if you want a jumpstart on crush your goals in 2025 & beyond…this is the episode for you.

There are 4 things you absolutely need in order to achieve your goals with more ease & grace than ever before & the first one might just surprise you. 

Listen in to find out more about how to align your mindset, identity & actions to make big moves in 2025. 

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If you’re looking for some new ways to say goodbye to 2024 & welcome in the new for 2025, this is for you. But first, know that January 1st doesn’t come with any particular magic other than it offers a clean slate for the new year. Whether you choose to do these exercises before the start of the new year or a new week, new month or new quarter…it all works. 

Also, you don’t have to do all the things to be successful. Find the ones that feel particularly exciting or fun & leave the rest. Keep it simple. 

Now, before you get into the planning & dreaming phase for 2025, make sure you take some time to reflect on what it is you learned, accomplished, achieved & what you made it through. It’s been a hard year for a lot of people…but you’re still here. What can you celebrate?

Some other practices you might try are:

-A letter to your future self

-Creating a vision board

-Decluttering your physical/digital/mental spaces

-Creating a Bingo card for your goals

-Doing a releasing practice to let go of the old & welcome the new

Or something else entirely.

Choose what feels fun & good for YOU. Got something else you recommend? Feel free to post it in the comments below. 

That’s a wrap for 2024! See you in 2025!

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If sometimes it feels hard to believe that things are working out for you, this is for you! 

In this episode, Lamisha shares a new belief to choose as well as an exercise to help you lean in & see just how many things are in fact working out for you. 

She shares that looking for the ‘evidence’ is what will inevitably help you find it and help solidify the belief that things are always working out for you. What constitutes “working”? Whatever feels like evidence to you!

You want to build momentum this week & beyond? Look for the evidence that your “thing” is working & then keep track of the little moments so you can look back on them later if needed. 

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If you’re finding it hard to believe that your situation/circumstance/thing can work out when it looks hopeless, this episode is for you. 

Today, Lamisha shares a few true & truly magical manifesting stories to show you just how things can happen out of the blue as if by magic. If the magic can happen for these women, it can happen for you too. 

Whether you need a bit of magic in your health, wealth, career, relationships or something else entirely, know that a miracle is available for you too. 

Listen, be inspired & then step back into the belief around miracles being available for you too. 

Got a magical manifesting story you want to share? Post it in the comments below this episode. We’d love to hear it!

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If you’re finding yourself losing steam as we approach the end of the year and you’re thinking that it’s too late to hit the goals & intentions you set for the year, this is the episode for you.

In this episode, Lamisha shares a question she asks herself & her community around this time of year, every year. (It’s also a good question to ask any time it looks like it’s not working, it’s too late or you’re not going to hit a certain goal or intention.)

The question…What else is possible? 

What else is possible for you this year, this month, this day?

What else can happen, unfold and manifest for you?

What often happens this time of year for a lot of people is if they can’t see “how” it can happen, they don’t believe it can. And that creates a massive limitation & block around what could still unfold for you.

So, ask the question & then see what comes up for your this week. And if you want to take it to the next level, Lamisha shares a little “What if” game to help you tap into a world of magic & miracles. 

Give it a try & then report back on what magic/miracles you experience. 

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You know that you need to be consistent in order to see the results you want in your life...but what if it’s less about your actions & more about your energy?

In today’s episode, Lamisha dives into why yes you should still do the damn thing, but before you do, pay attention to the mindset & energy you embody when you take the action. 

She shares multiple examples of how this looks & feels & how your energetic state actually impacts the outcomes you have from said actions. 

Have you ever considered the energy you’re passing on within certain actions you’re taking? The thoughts/feelings you’re infusing into your writing as you write? Or the energy you’re embodying and infusing into your relationship with money or anything else as you take action? It’s time to consider that.

Start thinking about how to get your energy & mindset behind the action you’re taking & if nothing else, work on getting it back to neutral. (Neutral is enough- there’s no mind drama there.)

What might happen if you started showing up in the energy of the person you are when you’re already on the other side of your desire when it’s done? 

Remember, the journey to getting there is the feeling/energy/mindset of being there. 

That is the work. 

Interested in doing the work together to create the best experience in 2025? Check out the details below & let’s chat!

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Today’s pep-talk is a quick question to help you get into the mindset to do the damn thing. In this episode, Lamisha asks you a simple question to help unlock the very thoughts & beliefs to get you moving to do the damn thing….write the book, expand the biz, sign a new client etc.

The question: What do you need to believe in order to do the damn thing? Because if you didn’t know already, you get to actually *choose* your beliefs. 

Then, ask yourself-“What’s it going to take for you to believe that?”

She also shares a handful of beliefs you can adopt right now including “It’s possible for me to do XYZ.”, “What I am doing is working & worthwhile.”

Take some time this week to think about what beliefs you’re choosing & what it’s going to take to believe them. Then get out there & DO THE THING.

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What are you making it mean?

If you feel like you’re sick & tired of your circumstances never shifting no matter how badly you want them to change, this episode is for you.

In this episode, Lamisha explains why you’re feeling stuck & why you might be feeling like your situation is never going to change. And it all comes back to this…what you’re making the circumstance or situation mean to or about you.

She also shares…

-How the thoughts you have about a situation actually become your identity & why that’s keeping you stuck.

-How your beliefs about your circumstance create more or less of said circumstance.

-Another question to ask yourself to shift the story which is..”How else can I see this?”

-What happens when you don’t believe things can change & what happens when you actually believe.

-A challenge for you to explore the meaning you are giving your circumstances & changing those that are no longer serving you.

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In this week’s pep-talk, I just want to remind you of who you are. No matter what you face this week….remember who you are. Remember your power & what you’re capable of.

Your mind is the single greatest power you have & it’s what not only creates your reality, but it’s what shifts your reality when things look different from how you thought they would. In this episode, we dive into how to use that power to influence your thoughts, feeling & actions.

Check it out.

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