Single Momcast

The words we speak to our children matter more than we realize. In this episode, Mel and Pam talk about how our words shape the way our children see themselves, influence their inner voice, and impact the choices they make. We’ll explore how to correct behavior without attacking identity, why our words carry so much weight, and how we can speak life and truth into our children even in the hard moments. Our words can stay with our children long after the conversation ends, so let’s be intentional about making sure they hear words that build them up, remind them of their worth, and help them grow. This is a must-listen for every single mom. 

The way we talk to ourselves matters more than we realize. In this episode, Mel and Pam talk about the internal voice we carry with us every day and how those words can shape the way we see ourselves, make decisions, and even interact with the people we love. We’ll talk about why we’re often much harder on ourselves than we would ever be on someone else, how negative thoughts can become so familiar that we mistake them for truth, and how we can begin changing that conversation. If you’ve spent years being hard on yourself, this is a reminder that you are still growing, your mistakes don’t define you, and you don’t have to be a perfect mom to be a good mom.

When the Day Feels Too Heavy // Pam Kanaly & Mel Hiett

Every single mom has those days when everything feels too heavy and strength seems out of reach. In this episode, Pam & Mel talk about what to do on the hard days: how to give yourself grace, find small moments of hope, and let others step in when you need support. You’ll be reminded that hard days don’t define you. They can shape your resilience, deepen your faith, and lead to unexpected strength.

What happens when your kids start growing up and the house gets a little quieter? In this episode, Mel and Pam sit down with Lakresha Fergeson to talk honestly about navigating the transition to an empty nest as a single mom. Lakresha shares what it was like to anticipate this new season, what she wanted to do with her newfound time, and how she discovered what interests and pursuits were worth investing in. They talk about the unexpected things she tried, how her priorities and passions evolved over time, and what she has learned about herself now that her children are no longer at home. Whether you’re excited about an empty nest, nervous about it, or wondering what life will look like when your kids leave, this conversation offers encouragement to see the empty nest not as an ending, but as an opportunity to embrace a new chapter.

"The Loneliness Battle" is really a conversation about what loneliness looks like for single moms and what we can do when it starts to creep in. Pam Kanaly and Mel Hiett talk honestly about the challenges of feeling alone, finding meaningful connection, and being intentional about building relationships. Whether you're in a season of deep loneliness or simply want to feel more connected to the people around you, this episode offers practical encouragement and a reminder that you don't have to navigate motherhood alone.

Making friends as an adult can be hard, and being a single mom can make it even harder. In this episode, Mel and Pam talk honestly about why building friendships can feel so difficult as a single mom, what keeps us from putting ourselves out there, and how we move from simply knowing people to developing meaningful friendships. Most importantly, this conversation is for the mom who feels lonely, wonders where her people are, and isn't sure how to find them. You don't have to do this season alone, and finding your people is worth the effort.

I’m Tired of Being the Strong One // Pam Kanaly & Mel Hiett

In this honest conversation, Mel and Pam unpack what it really means to be "the strong one" and why single moms often feel like they have no choice but to keep pushing. They also explore what healthy vulnerability looks like with your children and how to build an "army" of people who can walk alongside you. Most importantly, this episode is a reminder that being strong doesn't mean doing everything alone.

Your Child Is Not Your Therapist // Pam Kanaly & Mel Hiett

In this honest and heartfelt conversation, Pam and Mel talk about an important boundary every parent, especially single moms, needs to understand. Your child is not your therapist. Together, they explore how to share life with your kids in age-appropriate ways while still being authentic and emotionally present. They discuss what healthy vulnerability looks like, how to find safe outlets for your adult struggles, and ways to protect your child’s heart without pretending everything is perfect. This episode is full of wisdom, grace, and practical advice for moms learning to balance openness and protection in their parenting journey.

Homeownership: You May Be Closer Than You Think // Nancy Herringdine 

Homeownership can feel like an impossible dream for a single mom but what if it’s more attainable than you think? In this episode, we’re talking with Nancy Herringdine, a real estate professional, about what single moms need to know before taking that first step toward buying a home. She breaks down the home-buying process, shares three things every mom should know about real estate, and explains some of the common mistakes that can turn the process into a headache. If homeownership has felt out of reach, this conversation may be the encouragement you need to start dreaming and exploring what might actually be possible.

Dreaming Big When Life Looks Different // Nancy Herringdine

What happens when the life you imagined doesn't look anything like the life you're living? In this episode, Nancy Herringdine shares her powerful story of rebuilding after divorce while raising a son with special needs. She opens up about the fears, challenges, and unexpected lessons that have shaped her journey and the coping strategies that have helped her keep moving forward. This is an honest and encouraging conversation for any single mom who needs a reminder that her current circumstances don't have to define her future.