Single Momcast

When Things Don't Go Your Way // Chiquita Miller Johnson

What do you do when your faith is tested by things beyond your control? How do you overcome disappointments and also help your children find stable ground? Chiquita shares firsthand that the best plans have a way of going awry, especially when life is "life-ing." By listening you will discover how to keep your sanity and faith while providing a safe place for your family to do the same. Single mom, hold on. 

In this episode, Pam and Mel sit down with guest Athena Captain for an honest conversation about resilience. Athena opens up about what it looks like to keep showing up in the middle of hard seasons, how to stay grounded when life feels overwhelming, and the truth about resiliency that often gets overlooked. Together, we explore practical ways to protect your mindset, decide what matters most when everything feels like it’s falling apart, and find the strength to keep moving forward. If you’ve ever felt like you’ve been strong for too long, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone and give you the encouragement you need for the road ahead. This is for every single mom out there. 

Pack Light for the Guilt Trip // Kim Heinecke

In this episode of "Pack Light for the Mom Guilt Trip," we dive into the pervasive feeling of guilt that so many single moms experience, whether it's balancing work and family, taking time for self-care, or setting boundaries. Kim Keinecke uses personal stories and practical advice to explore the realities of mom guilt with Pam Kanaly and Mel Hiett.

Kim Heinecke, a former single mother, loves talking about the ups and downs of parenting. She uses her testimony of God’s provision, healing, and restoration to encourage women to keep putting one foot in front of the other. From raising young children to being the parent of adult children, Kim has picked up bits of wisdom along the way to bring encouragement to your adventures in motherhood. She and her husband live in Edmond where they have finally reached the halfway point of raising four sons.

In this heartfelt episode of Getting Through the Tough Stuff, Mel Hiett is joined by special guests Kenya Ulmer and her daughter, Sydney, for a powerful conversation about navigating life’s hardest seasons. Kenya shares what the wilderness looks and feels like, how to recognize when you’re in it, and what it means to trust God when nothing makes sense. Together, they explore how God speaks in the quiet and the chaos, and how we can help our children listen for His voice too. Whether you’re deep in your own wilderness or just stepping out of it, this episode offers encouragement, wisdom, and hope for every single mom walking through uncertain times.

How to Handle High-Conflict People // Kelly Evans

Kelly Evans and Mel Hiett explore strategies for managing relationships with individuals who thrive on conflict. Whether it's a difficult coworker, a challenging family member, or a contentious ex-partner, we provide practical advice on navigating these turbulent interactions. Tune in to learn how to protect your well-being as a single mom and find peace amidst the chaos of high-conflict relationships. 

In this episode, Pam Kanaly and Mel Hiett sit down with Doug and Stacee Goetzinger for a heartfelt conversation about what happens when mental illness impacts a family. Doug shares his personal journey of learning how to support his wife through her mental health struggles, including what he got wrong, what he got right, and how he’s grown along the way. If you’re a single mom walking alongside a child or loved one battling mental illness, this episode offers hope, honesty, and practical wisdom for the road ahead.

The Blessing of Brokenness // Rebecca Brito-Bayne 

In this episode called "The Blessing of Brokenness," we explore the profound strength that can emerge from life's most challenging moments. Rebecca Brito-Bayne shares her personal story of overcoming adversity and finding purpose in the midst of pain. Pam Kanaly & Mel Hiett discover how embracing our brokenness can lead to growth, resilience, and a deeper understanding of ourselves and our faith. Join us for an inspiring conversation that offers hope and insight for all single moms. 

In this raw and powerful episode, we sit down with a Tracy Zserdin who has walked a road few can imagine—raising her son through years of behavioral challenges, emotional hardship, and ultimately, his incarceration. Speaking candidly to single moms, Tracy shares with Pam Kanaly & Mel Hiett about what it was like to face the reality that love alone couldn't “fix” her child’s struggles, and how she discovered strength she didn’t know she had. We explore the limits of parenting instincts, the role of faith in holding steady during chaos, and what it means to keep loving—even when your child is behind bars. Whether you're in the thick of parenting challenges or simply looking for a story of resilience and real motherhood, single mom, this episode is for you.

Find more info on Tracy and her book HERE. 

The Weight We Carried: A Conversation on Letting Go

In this episode, we look into the transformative journey of overcoming past experiences. From acknowledging the weight of our histories to embracing the power of those experiences, we explore practical strategies for navigating your past. Pam Kanaly & Mel Hiett have a candid conversation full of insightful reflections, as they unravel the intricacies of forgiveness, self-compassion, and letting go. Listen as we navigate the terrain of healing and empowerment, offering single moms a roadmap toward liberation from the burdens of the past and a path toward a more fulfilling future.

In this honest and hope-filled episode, Mel and Pam sit down with Doug and Stacee Goetzinger to talk about the realities of living with and loving someone through mental illness. Together, they unpack what it means to “suffer well,” the myth of linear recovery, and the purpose we can find in the fight for mental health. Stacee courageously shares about her diagnosis, the darkest moments of her journey, and how Scripture has anchored her along the way. The conversation is raw, faith-filled, and filled with practical wisdom for anyone walking through mental illness or supporting a loved one who is. If you’re a single mom navigating hard seasons, this episode will remind you that you are not alone — and that there’s hope, purpose, and beauty to be found, even in the struggle.