Single On Purpose

It’s no secret that we are in a loneliness epidemic. “What is loneliness, and how do I know if this is the feeling I’m experiencing?” In this episode we validate the increase in loneliness post-pandemic, and how as a society we are attempting to find our way back to connection, both inward and with others. We deconstruct the definition of loneliness, the difference between loneliness and social isolation, loneliness and singlehood, the ACT approach to coping with loneliness, what gets in the way of healthy connection, and methods to overcome these barriers. Dr. Nina and Dr. Carissa reflect on their friendship at the beginning of the episode, which began in graduate school, as well as their take on life-purpose work.  

Dr. Carissa Gustafson is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist based in Los Angeles, CA, as well as an Adjunct Professor and Adjunct Clinical Supervisor at Pepperdine University. She specializes in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Her mission is to help people find liberation from suffering and reclaim their lives.

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Single on Purpose is created by The Angry Therapist, John Kim, who will also be in the rotation of experts. We are starting the podcast with 20 experts across the wellness space.

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Lindsay interviews the incredible Mauri Konell, Founder of The Girls 

Empowerment Experience, who vulnerably shares her own journey of overcoming an eating disorder, substance abuse, codependency, and perfectionism to building her own business, meeting the love of her life, and becoming a mother. Turning her pain into purpose, she now empowers young girls and women to take hold of their mental health by teaching them self-compassion and love, confidence, and how to listen to themselves. In this episode she dives into her journey out of rock bottom to finding herself, discovering self-love, her passions, and her worth, and setting up for a new, stronger healthier version of herself when love did come knocking at her door. 

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When we “practice being ourselves” on a date, we’re more likely to be vulnerable, to have fun, and to take the encounter with a new person for what it is–an opportunity to connect–instead of carrying a bagful of expectations into the date. Sex/love addiction coach Sean Cardinalli bullshits about being present and authentic while dating with his best friend and fellow traveler in 12 Step recovery, Allen Herring 3, who has a Masters in Cultural Studies from the University of New Mexico and is loquacious af.

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Many of us have forgotten how to fall, take chances and live out loud. We make excuses and say that we are too old, too busy, and don’t have enough time or money to fulfill our dreams but often what we are is afraid. Unfulfilled dreams lead to a stale and stagnant existence. In this episode, Ashley and Lair Torrent share personal stories about their relationship with fear and what happened when each of them dared to try. 

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Lindsay interviews the incredible Mauri Konell, Founder of The Girls 

Empowerment Experience, who vulnerably shares her own journey of overcoming an eating disorder, substance abuse, codependency, and perfectionism to building her own business, meeting the love of her life, and becoming a mother. Turning her pain into purpose, she now empowers young girls and women to take hold of their mental health by teaching them self-compassion and love, confidence, and how to listen to themselves. In this episode, she shares about the early days of trauma and self-destruction that hit a painful rock bottom.

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How many headlines in the new year read “set resolutions” or “stay on track with your progress.” In this episode, we are going to take the opposite approach to achieve our 2023 goals. Dr. Nina explores the barrier to achieving our goals, and the pressure we feel to do what everyone else is doing, and offers some tips on how to listen to our inner compass instead, in order to take our power back. Topics covered: clearing your physical space, welcoming “in-the-moment” experiences, staying open to wonder, editing and reviewing close relationships, and the importance of celebrating your 2022 accomplishments. 

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In this first episode of a short series led by Lindsay Burke, she deconstructs relationship dynamics with more challenging, covertly abusive personalities that include narcissistic and character-disturbed traits. She dives into how we get sucked in, why we stay, how the dynamics are more nuanced and tricky than other forms of “abuse” and the overwhelm and hopelessness that can take over when in a relationship with someone like this, whether it’s a boss, intimate partner, parent or friend.

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If you’re feeling stuck or frustrated with your love life, chances are you are stuck in 1 (or more) of the 5 Dating Loops. In this episode, Damona gives the signs and symptoms of each dating loop and actionable advice on how to break the cycle of dating loops and find your person.

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Damona Hoffman is a certified dating coach & media personality. She’s a regular contributor to The Drew Barrymore Show, NPR, The Washington Post, The LA Times and more. Plus, she is the Official U.S. Dating Expert of OkCupid. Damona’s podcast Dates & Mates just launched its 10th season and recently received the award for The Best Podcast of the Year at The Black Podcasting Awards.

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In this episode, sex & kink educator/coach/intimacy coordinator Maria Two-Straps, and Erin Tillman, also fellow sex educator/coach/intimacy coordinator, chat about how being single can be the best time for you to explore your kinks! And how it can actually be a beautiful, explorative space for you to learn about yourself and learn how to confidently state your wants, needs, and deepest desires. Step into the podcast dungeon and explore your curiosities with Two-Straps and The Dating Advice Girl!

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Maria Two-Straps (she/her) is a firm believer that we can all change the world by simply strengthening our intimacy, our relationships, and having more orgasms. She is a Certified Sex/Kink educator, Certified Sex & Relationships Coach, and Certified Intimacy Coordinator who teaches courses online and at local LA dungeons + events. At the core of her work is an intersectional approach to bringing the “taboo” topics of life to the forefront and stirring the pot of our bullshit societal expectations. Catch her at www.sexandsquats.org and on IG @_sexandsquats.

Erin Tillman, CSE (she/her) is a Certified Intimacy Coordinator, Certified Sex Educator, inclusive Dating & Consent Empowerment Coach, Consultant, Author, Speaker, and TV/Radio/Podcast Host based in LA. She is also the current Executive Director of sexuality nonprofit Sex-Positive Los Angeles. She is currently serving on the SAG-AFTRA Sexual Harassment committee. In 2021, Erin’s book, The Consent Guidebook was selected by AASECT (The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) to receive their 2021 General Audience Book Award. In 2018, Erin was awarded the Gender Equity Champion Award presented by the California National Organization for Women (California NOW). For over 10 years, she has been dedicated to empowering singles in all lifestyle and identity categories to have enjoyable dating lives, relationships, and partnerships through personal development and boundary-setting techniques.

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In today's episode, John explains his reframe of "break up" to "expired relationship" and why it's helpful. He tried to explain on Dax Shepard's Armchair Expert Podcast but John mentioned the time he had sex with a plum when he was twelve, and of course, that topic got sidetracked. He assures that he will not talk about plums in this episode. Instead, go deeper into the reframing and how to get to acceptance, the first step in starting the healing journey after an expired relationship.  

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