When I asked this question on Facebook a woman left me a comment saying "well my motto is don't date and you'll never be hurt" ... I cringe at that motto. I also have empathy because I know it's coming from a place of pain.

For those that still desire a husband (my clients) - for me, it’s beyond the bitterness and the pain men left behind for me to crawl out of. Now, I’m looking more and more at my fruit and how my learnings are executing in my life. I moved past just being inspired. 

Sis. The moment I realized that confidence had to show up in my actions. Everything with men changed for me.

We collectively HAVE got to stop running around trying to BE in a relationship. So blindly and violently failing at being single and then in relationships.

“Some people are with people because they don't like themselves enough". - Pastor Dharius Daniels

So how will you make your singleness better? Side effect; making your relationship with a man better!

Single You merch. available now; www.SingleYou.Shop

Let's talk...

So who am I? ⁣ ⁣

Hi 🙋🏽‍♀️ I’m Reka the founder of Single You the Podcast and creator of Single You Academy. ⁣ ⁣

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼? I empower the frustrated loyal woman who is TIRED of settling and SICK of giving 2nd chances, stop that cycle by helping you learn how to keep boundaries and feel confident about being single. ⁣ ⁣    ⁣

If you want to learn more about how I can support you… check out Single You Academy here or DM me and I’ll send you more details. ⁣

My DM is always open! XO Reka

TODAY WE will touch on; 

Why My Clients Made the Investment and joined Single You Academy (I'll share testimonials).

Let's talk...

So who am I? ⁣ ⁣

Hi 🙋🏽‍♀️ I’m Reka the founder of Single You the Podcast and creator of Single You Academy. ⁣ ⁣

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼? I empower the frustrated loyal woman who is TIRED of settling and SICK of giving 2nd chances, stop that cycle by helping you learn how to keep boundaries and feel confident about being single. ⁣ ⁣    ⁣

If you want to learn more about how I can support you… check out Single You Academy here or DM me and I’ll send you more details. ⁣

My DM is always open! XO Reka

If I were ta ask you "do you know you worth" while you're allowing a man to treat you like trash... you would say ...YES!

This episode is why you'd say yes. Here is why that doesn't make sense.

Think about it; in THAT situation-ship, marriage or some dude you're dealing with... you're so good at

Because no one wants to be the girl that isn't happy in her relationship.... so instead you perform happy and confident. How well is that working out for you? 

So who am I? ⁣ ⁣

Hi 🙋🏽‍♀️ I’m Reka the founder of Single You the Podcast and creator of Single You Academy. ⁣ ⁣

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼? I empower the frustrated loyal woman who is TIRED of settling and SICK of giving 2nd chances, stop that cycle by helping you learn how to keep boundaries and feel confident about being single. ⁣ ⁣    ⁣

If you want to learn more about how I can support you… check out Single You Academy here or DM me and I’ll send you more details. ⁣

My DM is always open! XO Reka

The cycle of dating I was in was; we meet, it's "wonderful" ...I pass up red flags and start day dreaming on how great we could be. Then 2 years later it ends in disaster because I passed up red flags... THAT IS OVER FOR ME!! That was hard. That’s what I describe as hard. 

I’d much rather be doing what I’m doing now when it comes to ‘dating’... it's easy for me. This what I learned on my real true journey of self love... self actualization. My strategy moving forward is building on a solid foundation. 

If you need support on ☝🏽all of the above… then I know that I can help you!⁣ ⁣ 

Single You merch. available now; www.SingleYou.Shop

So who am I? ⁣ ⁣

 Hi 🙋🏽‍♀️ I’m Reka the founder of Single You the Podcast and creator of Single You Academy. ⁣ ⁣ 

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼? I empower the frustrated loyal woman who is TIRED of settling and SICK of giving 2nd chances, stop that cycle by helping you learn how to keep boundaries and feel confident about being single. ⁣ ⁣    ⁣

 If you want to learn more about how I can support you… check out Single You Academy here or DM me and I’ll send you more details. ⁣

My DM is always open! XO Reka

Nah but the real flex is when you can walk away from a man who "looks good on paper" but your gut is telling you "he ain't for you sis." ⁣

So who am I? ⁣ ⁣

Hi 🙋🏽‍♀️ I’m Reka the founder of Single You the Podcast and creator of Single You Academy. ⁣ ⁣

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼? I empower the frustrated loyal woman who is TIRED of settling and SICK of giving 2nd chances, stop that cycle by helping you learn how to keep boundaries and feel confident about being single. ⁣ ⁣    ⁣

If you want to learn more about how I can support you… check out Single You Academy here or DM me and I’ll send you more details. ⁣

My DM is always open! XO Reka

Bold statement I know. So let's talk...

I know most of you will say harder but what was the 'easier' about relationships when you were younger? The ignorance? 

Plus what is a self love journey? What does it actually do/look like and what I've learned about dating from my self love journey!  

questions for you; who do you think it is harder for you? Why do you think crying over a man is bad? 

Let's talk... 

My DM is always open! XO Reka

You're a faith based woman and you're career is together. However you desire marriage and kids. You're dealing (or have dealt) with men longer than you should have.

Let me offer you a new perspective ... it's probably because you have a lot of shame around sex and you don't want another body, so here you are... settling.

Who gave you education on faith based relationship intelligence?

Let's talk...

Question; What do you think you put so much pressure on yourself to get married?

My DM is always open! XO Reka

When I did this live on FB, I got the following message; It was a godsend that I happened upon this conversation!! Such the message I need.

I hope it does the same for you. 

The problem is you don’t trust yourself because when you trust yourself you will take clear, definitive action the moment you feel an inkling or see a sign that something is off. - Iyanla Vanzant

Question; Why do you think a break up is a failure? Why do you feel like history means he’ll change for you?

My DM is always open! XO Reka

I won’t find another one like him (fears that are holding you back in getting the relationship you actually want).

The problem is you don’t know who you are.

You don’t understand how to have a relationship with yourself or relationships. Especially with men. Especially when it comes to getting the relationship you want…. So you settle sis. Cause God forbid you be single. Single feels like a stain to you.

Let's talk...

Question; Why do you think he’s it for you? Is he God's best for you? 

My DM is always open! XO Reka