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January 25, 2024 The 411 On Finances with Robin Patin
About Our Guest:
Robin Patin is a wealth manager and financial advisor with a passion for helping everyday people build wealth. She has extensive experience in the industry and is dedicated to providing sound financial advice to her clients. Robin is also a public speaker and is committed to educating others about the importance of financial literacy and wealth building.
Summary:
In this episode, Lexi B interviews Robin Patin, a wealth manager and financial advisor, about the importance of financial literacy and wealth building. They discuss Robin's background and how her family's history of entrepreneurship and land ownership in Louisiana has influenced her career. They also delve into the unique culture and cuisine of New Orleans, as well as the challenges faced by Black individuals in building wealth. Robin emphasizes the need for financial education and the impact of complex financial instruments on everyday people. She shares tips for young adults, professionals living paycheck to paycheck, and those looking to grow their wealth. Robin also highlights the importance of living below your means and making strategic financial decisions.
Key Takeaways:
Financial education is crucial, as many people are not taught about money and lack knowledge about complex financial instruments.
It is important to be strategic when choosing a major in college, considering future earning potential and return on investment.
Living below your means is essential for building wealth, regardless of your income level.
Cars and overbought homes can be major financial drains, and it is important to be mindful of these expenses.
Family financial obligations can hinder wealth building, and it is important to set boundaries and prioritize your own financial well-being.
Quotes:
"Wealth is always built in excess. You have to have something left over at the end of each month to build wealth." - Robin Patin
"There's no fantastic reward without a fantastic request attached to it." - Robin Patin
"Save your money, save your money as a first step, get the savings together. I've never met a rich person who didn't have some form of savings." - Robin Patin
Important Links
Linkedin
Transcription

52 min
January 23, 2024Taking The L with Ash Coleman
About Our Guest:
Ash Coleman is a coach and mentor in the tech industry. She has a background in engineering and has worked in various roles, including as a chef and in HR. Ash is known for her honesty and vulnerability in sharing her experiences and insights.
Summary:
Ash Coleman discusses the concept of taking the L (losing) in professional settings. She shares her personal experiences of taking the L and how it has shaped her career. Ash emphasizes the importance of being comfortable with failure and learning from it. She also highlights the need for a support system and finding your people in the workplace. Ash encourages listeners to build a strong foundation and be prepared for career changes or unexpected situations.
Key Takeaways:
Taking the L is a normal part of a non-linear career path.

Building a strong support system and finding your people in the workplace is crucial.

It is important to be comfortable with failure and learn from it.

Having a financial safety net, or a "fuck it fund," can provide more options and flexibility in career decisions.

Quiet quitting is a valid response to a job that no longer aligns with your values or goals.
Quotes:
"If other people don't see you as an asset, that does not mean that you're not a contributor." - Ash Coleman

"No matter how prepared you are to walk out the door, being pushed at your last step is never a good feeling." - Ash Coleman

"Taking the L quickly is better than prolonging a situation that is not right for you." - Ash Coleman

"Some people just like their jobs, and that's okay too." -Ash Coleman

"It is better to deal with the repercussions of leaving a job than to stay in a toxic environment." - Ash Coleman
Important Links
Website

Linkedin

Instagram

Transcriptions
49 min
January 18, 2024Identifying Your True Worth with Dr. Adia Gooden
About Our Guest
Adia Gooden is a clinical psychologist, speaker, and coach who specializes in helping high-achieving individuals reconnect with their inherent worthiness. She is the creator of the Unconditionally Worthy Group Coaching Program and works with corporate audiences to promote self-worth and well-being.
Summary
Adia Gooden joins the podcast to discuss the concept of self-worth and how it is often tied to external accomplishments. She shares her personal experience of feeling empty and unworthy even after achieving her goals, and emphasizes that accomplishments alone cannot provide a deep sense of worthiness. Adia explores the societal and cultural factors that contribute to this mindset and explains how individuals can free themselves from the need for external validation. She offers practical tips for shifting the focus from achievement to self-compassion and self-love, and highlights the importance of redefining one's worth based on intrinsic qualities rather than external achievements. Adia also addresses the challenges faced in a corporate setting and provides strategies for maintaining a healthy sense of self-worth while pursuing professional goals.
Key Takeaways:
Achievements alone cannot provide a deep sense of worthiness.

Self-worth is often tied to external accomplishments due to societal and cultural conditioning.

Reconnecting with one's inherent worthiness involves freeing oneself from external validation and embracing self-compassion and self-love.

It is possible to pursue professional goals while maintaining a healthy sense of self-worth by prioritizing self-care and setting boundaries.
Quotes:
"We all long for unconditional love, but we don't necessarily offer it to ourselves very often."

"Reconnecting to this truth of who we are, because I don't believe that anything you could have done and anything you could have gone through can take away that inherent worthiness."

"You can still have goals, but how do you go about them? Do you go about these goals by not letting yourself sleep, treating your body poorly, not making time for movement, eating food that doesn't really nourish you, beating yourself up over every mistake?"

"Decoupling oneself from labor and capitalism is revolutionary, especially for black people who have a history of being enslaved and forced into labor."

"We have to shift our nervous system regulation. We have to be willing to be uncomfortable in the space and the rest until it gets comfortable because it will."
Links:
Adia Gooden's Website

Unconditionally Worthy Group Coaching Program

Adia Gooden on Instagram

Adia Gooden on LinkedIn

Transcription
30 min
January 16, 2024Navigating Conflict In The Workplace with Jeanette Jordan
About Our Guest:
Jeanette C. Jordan is a strategic business consultant and coach with a passion for advising C-suite leaders and founders as they grow, scale, and pivot their businesses. She has over a decade of experience in the technology industry and has worked in various marketing positions at companies such as Nextel, Factual, New Star, Verizon, Millennium Media, and PayPal. Jeanette holds a dual bachelor's degree in Mathematics and Civil Engineering from Spelman College and Columbia University, as well as an MBA from the University of Maryland, College Park.
Episode Summary:
Jeanette C. Jordan, a strategic business consultant and coach, joins the podcast to discuss the importance of navigating hard conversations at work. She shares her personal experiences and insights on how to approach difficult conversations with authenticity and grace. Jeanette emphasizes the need to understand one's value in the workplace and how it impacts the way these conversations are approached. She also highlights the changing dynamics in the workplace, particularly with the rise of Gen Z, and how it is reshaping the way we communicate and address conflicts.
Key Takeaways:
Hard conversations at work require a balance of authenticity and professionalism.

Understanding one's value in the workplace is crucial when navigating difficult conversations.

Different individuals have different communication preferences, and it is important to respect and adapt to those preferences.

Building relationships and trust is essential for effective communication and conflict resolution.

The younger generation, particularly Gen Z, is challenging traditional workplace dynamics and demanding more transparency and authenticity.
Quotes:
"Candor can be kind. Truth is love, and candor can be kind." - Jeanette C. Jordan

"Power doesn't always have to be loud and assertive. There is power in quiet confidence and strategic decision-making." - Jeanette C. Jordan

"Hard conversations can lead to better outcomes and stronger relationships if approached with thoughtfulness and grace." - Jeanette C. Jordan
Important Links
Website

Linkedin

Instagram

Transcription
42 min
January 11, 2024Career Transitions with Ime Umoh
About Our Guest(s):
Ime Umoh is a Nigerian-American entrepreneur, photographer, and drone pilot. He is the founder of Push the Button, a drone agency that specializes in aerial videography and photography for travel brands. Ime left his corporate job at Facebook to pursue his passion for travel and storytelling through visual content creation. He has traveled to various countries around the world, capturing stunning footage and sharing his experiences with his audience.
Summary:
Ime Umoh shares his journey from working at Facebook to starting his own drone agency and traveling the world. He emphasizes the importance of taking strategic risks and pushing the button to pursue your dreams. Ime discusses the impact of his Nigerian and American background on his identity and how it shaped his perspective on travel and culture. He also highlights the vibrant colors and diversity of African cultures and the sense of belonging he feels when he visits Nigeria. Ime's story is a testament to the power of following your passion and creating a life that aligns with your values.
Key Takeaways:
Taking strategic risks and pushing the button can lead to incredible opportunities and personal growth.

Embracing your cultural background and heritage can provide a sense of belonging and shape your perspective on the world.

Traveling to countries where you see people who look like you can be a transformative experience.

Building a strong support network and leveraging your skills can open doors to new opportunities.
Quotes:
"Push the button and just know that you can do it." - Ime Umoh

"I'm Nigerian and I'm born and raised in Baltimore. So I'm gonna make it happen some way." - Ime Umoh

"Don't sit on it, man. You know, time is... you just gotta say, F it." - Ime Umoh
Important Links
Push The Button

Linkedin

Instagram

Transcription
40 min
January 09, 2024Do Dreams Really Come True with Ace Patterson
About Our Guest:
Ace Patterson is a hip-hop artist, entrepreneur, and creative visionary. He has a background in the music industry and has worked at major tech companies like Facebook and YouTube. Ace is the founder of Five Mic Studios, a game development company that combines hip-hop and gaming to create a unique and immersive experience.
Episode Summary:
In this episode, Lexi B interviews Ace Patterson about the power of dreams and the importance of staying true to your vision. They discuss the role of delusion in pursuing your dreams, the impact of societal expectations, and the value of surrounding yourself with a supportive community. Ace shares his personal journey as a hip-hop artist and entrepreneur, and emphasizes the importance of hard work and perseverance in making dreams come true.
Key Takeaways:
Dreams require belief and action to become a reality.

Surrounding yourself with a supportive community is crucial for staying motivated and overcoming obstacles.

Hard work and perseverance are essential for achieving your dreams.

The value of your work lies in its impact on others and the value it provides to the world.
Quotes:
"No one can see your dream better than you can. You have to believe in it first." - Ace Patterson

"Dreams really come true when you connect what you see with reality through hard work." - Ace Patterson

"Delusion is just someone else's inability to see and believe in your dream." - Ace Patterson
Important Links
Website
Top of the Zinc Roof: poems observed from behind the veil with a glimpse of the light
Linkedin
Instagram
49 min
October 19, 2023 Multiple Streams of Income with Wahab Owolabi
About Our Guest:
Wahab Owolabi is a Nigerian-American entrepreneur and the Head of Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging (DEIB) at Duolingo. He has a background in admissions counseling and has worked at prestigious institutions such as Carnegie Mellon University and Stanford University. Wahab is also the founder of a successful conference and community-focused business that brings together tech-based university recruiters and professionals in the education industry.
Summary:
In this episode, Wahab discusses the importance of having multiple streams of income and how it can lead to financial security and freedom. He shares personal stories and experiences of balancing a nine-to-five job with side hustles and entrepreneurial ventures. Wahab emphasizes the need to be good at your day job and build trust with your employer before exploring other income-generating opportunities. Wahab also highlights the significance of investing in time management and building a supportive team to achieve success in multiple areas.
Key Takeaways:
Having multiple streams of income provides financial security and the ability to support future generations.
Balancing a nine-to-five job with side hustles requires dedication, time management, and prioritization.
Being good at your day job is crucial to maintain trust and credibility with your employer.
Investing in time management and hiring a virtual assistant can help optimize productivity and efficiency.
Building a supportive team and surrounding yourself with inspiring individuals can lead to scaled success.
Quotes:
"I want to build generational wealth for my family and have a choice in how I spend my time." - Wahab Owolabi
"If you do have the nine-to-five, nothing else really works if you are not being focused in that role and doing a great job." - Wahab Owolabi
"Invest in your time management and build a supportive team to achieve success in multiple areas." - Wahab Owolabi
Further Learnings:
OneReq
Transcriptions
45 min
October 17, 2023Building A Career That Aligns To Your Personal Goals with Sarah Johnson
About Our Guest
Sarah Johnson is a seasoned traveler and career strategist who has built a career that aligns with her happiness and allows her to travel the world. She is the creator of the blog "The Wandering Side Eye," where she shares her travel experiences and offers tips on maximizing travel using credit card points.
Summary
Sarah Johnson shares her journey of recognizing her love for travel and how she built a career that aligns with her happiness. She emphasizes the importance of finding a job that provides flexibility and time off, and shares strategies for maximizing travel experiences using credit card points. Sarah also discusses the need to prioritize personal values and happiness over chasing more money.
Key Takeaways
Travel can be done inexpensively with the right opportunities and strategies.

Finding a job that aligns with your values and provides flexibility and time off is crucial for a fulfilling career.

Credit card points can be a valuable tool for saving money on travel expenses and maximizing travel experiences.
Quotes:
"Travel is not this unattainable thing. You can actually do it pretty inexpensively and with the right opportunities." - Sarah Johnson

"It's important to be able to know what's important to you and either go out to find it or find a way to craft it within what you have access to." - Sarah Johnson

"No one's being paid enough. You're not getting paid enough. It's just like, F it. You're not getting paid enough." - Sarah Johnson

"Adulting is a scam. You might as well figure out a way to do what you want to do that actually intrinsically makes your soul happy." - Sarah Johnson

Transcription
48 min
October 12, 2023Master Networking with Jodi Brockington
About Our Guest:
Jodi Brockington is a networking expert and the founder of BLENDiD, a lifestyle community for the biracial and multiracial community. She is also the founder of NIARA Consulting, where she provides executive coaching and diversity sourcing services. Jodi has a background in external affairs and has worked in the nonprofit sector, focusing on fundraising and sponsorship. She is passionate about helping others build relationships and navigate the complexities of identity and race.
Summary:
Jodi Brockington joins the podcast to discuss her mastery of networking and the importance of building relationships. She shares her personal experiences as a biracial woman and how her diverse background has shaped her approach to networking. Jodi emphasizes the power of being intentional in networking and offers tips for introverts to navigate social situations.
Key Takeaways:
Networking is about building relationships and being open to connecting with all types of people.

Introverts can excel at networking by being intentional, doing research, and setting specific goals.

Building relationships with people at all levels of an organization can lead to unexpected opportunities.

Leveraging virtual platforms and chat spaces can be an effective way to network in a remote environment.

Representation and access are crucial for creating a sense of belonging and understanding in a diverse society.
Quotes:
"Networking is really relationship building." - Jodi Brockington

"Introverts tend to be more intentional. They have a plan and they never want to stay the whole time." - Jodi Brockington

"The assistants, the interns, the security guards... they know all the tea at the company." - Jodi Brockington

"Representation and access are still back to the power, back to the socioeconomics and the information." - Jodi Brockington
Important Links
Who is Pauli Murray?

BLENDiD

NIARA Consulting

Transcription
50 min
October 10, 2023Venture Capitalism: What is it and How do you get access to it? with Charles Hudson
About Our Guest:
Charles Hudson is a well-known figure in the Silicon Valley venture capital space. He is the founder and managing partner of Precursor Ventures, an early-stage venture capital firm. With over 26 years of experience in the industry, Charles has made a name for himself as a trusted investor and advisor to numerous successful startups.
Summary:
Charles Hudson, founder and managing partner of Precursor Ventures, shares his insights on venture capital and the process of investing in high-growth companies. He emphasizes the importance of investing in the right people and the challenges of evaluating early-stage startups. Charles also discusses the role of the board of directors and the impact of acquisitions on venture capitalists.
Key Takeaways:
Venture capital is a sub-branch of finance that aims to fund high-growth companies and help them achieve their full potential.

The most important factor in investing is the founder's ability to turn their idea into reality.

Venture capitalists aim to find outlier companies that can become worth hundreds of millions or billions of dollars.

The role of the board of directors is to evaluate the performance of the CEO and provide guidance and support.

The venture capital industry is slowly evolving to be more open and inclusive, but there is still progress to be made.
Quotes:
"I'm investing mostly in things that don't yet exist." - Charles Hudson

"The more money you raise, the less fixated I am on the idea because money equals time." - Charles Hudson

"Good boards can make you a better leader, a better CEO." - Charles Hudson

"Sometimes good people pick bad ideas." - Charles Hudson

"I want invest in companies that I think can become IPO candidates." - Charles Hudson

Transcripton
40 min

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