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Today we're going to revisit the topic of “incongruence.” You know that thing that happens when information, reality and behaviors just aren’t lining up? That’s incongruence. When this happens, it leaves the body in a state of confusion, anxiety, and even depression.

It can be difficult to ask for clarity when you find yourself in an incongruent situation. Oftentimes, trying to have an honest conversation to get to the truth can result in confrontation and gaslighting. Being told to “let it go”, that you’re being “too sensitive”, or that that “you’re taking things personally” are all manipulative tactics used to avoid providing clarity and plush blame back on you. Trust your gut. Don’t let anyone talk you out of it when you know someone is being dishonest, and love yourself enough to step away from situations or people that are unhealthy for you.

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A lot of you have asked how to find a therapist, so I decided to come back to this episode answering that question question. There are so many factors to consider that it can be overwhelming. Along with the information in this episode, I’ve created a downloadable PDF that details how to find yourself a therapist. 

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Welcome back, loves! In this rebroadcast, we’re talking about what it means to “eat the crumbs”.

This episode builds on the “situationship” theme from last week and introduces you to next week’s topic of “boundaries”. If you like the show please rate and review - it really helps the podcast!

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If you want to work with me and you live in the state of Washington, Georgia, or DC visit SoireesInTherapy.com/book-now to book a free 15 minute consultation.

Breakups are hard as shit. I may not be feeling my best, but I’m still here to share the raw truth about my recent breakup, processing the pain, sitting with uncomfortable emotions, and finding support. Today we’re talking about grieving, masking your true feelings, and leaning on your loved ones—I promise they’ll be ready to hold space for you. If you’re stuck in old patterns or struggling to let go, remember, healing takes time—be kind to yourself.

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You're going to love this throwback episode with Anwar White! Anwar is a certified dating and relationship coach and host of the “Get Your Guy Coaching” podcast.  Believe it or not, he focuses on coaching smart and successful women - which means YOU, dear listener! Anwar has a unique perspective that he brings to his coaching and to the podcast today and I know you’re going to learn a lot from this interview.

Get in touch with Anwar:

Link for Free Consultation: https://www.getyourguycoaching.com/apply

Website: https://www.getyourguycoaching.com

IG: @getyourguy_coaching

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Hello my sweet babies! Today we’re reaching back into the archives and talking about the emotional fallout from ending a situationship.

In this episode I share three tips to regain your self-trust after it all ends - letting go of the fear that you will make the same choice, again, with future partners. I hope this makes you feel that undeniable confidence I know you deserve!

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Please enjoy this re-release my interview with Allison Ramsey. Allison is a licensed psychotherapist and fertility survivor with a background in environmental education. Her calling is to help women realign with the rhythms of nature to reclaim their peace. Today she’s going to show us all how to understand the seasons of our lives and how we can grow starting today.

Get in touch with Allison and learn more on her website

The Seasonal Soul has lots of useful information

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Sometimes situationships span years without resolution. Believe me - I’ve been there! Today, I’m sharing a personal story of a decade-long situationship and reflecting on the blurred lines between nostalgia, fantasy, and reality. Let’s stop romanticizing one-sided relationships and start recognizing red flags. Tune in for a candid conversation on choosing yourself and finding clarity in relationships.

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In this episode, we’re talking about the confusion and emotional toll of situationships. We’ve probably all ween Pop the Balloon - inspired by the addictive dating show, we’re reflecting on how to honor our boundaries and make swift decisions when partners don’t match our needs. Let’s explore the importance of recognizing deal breakers and avoiding unhealthy situations. Join us as we unpack how to prioritize our happiness and walk away from relationships that don’t align with what we truly want. Let’s pop those emotional balloons together!

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Tired of situationships? Take the quiz to find out how to get unstuck at Dontea.co/Quiz

To enroll in the Worth Everything program visit Dontea.co

I’m answering a listener question today: What should you do when your ex asks for space but still wants to be friends? Let’s talk about what this ‘waiting period’ could look like and how to set boundaries while staying true to yourself. Are you waiting on him to work on himself, or are you living your life? Listen in as I offer advice on navigating this tricky situation and why respecting space is key.

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Follow me on Instagram at  @SoireesInTherapy

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If you want to work with me, visit SoireesInTherapy.com/Book-Now to book a free 15 minute consultation.

Tired of situationships? Take the quiz to find out how to get unstuck at Dontea.co/Quiz

To enroll in the Worth Everything program visit Dontea.co