What to listen for so you pick the right people to hang with, work with and grow into long term recovery with.

“Sponsorship” is an antiquated term that is deeply rooted in recovery programs......... it just means you need a mentor / coach to show you the ropes and walk you through the 12 Steps and hopefully the 12 Traditions (at least 1, 5 &12 ....... he’s your Sherpa - you need that guidance to get you into long term recovery.

The Good, The Bad and The Ugly .....in reverse order ..... change is good once you finally straighten out.

Fear is a subtle foe, There are two acronyms for it - one that you DO and one you SHOULD do ..... and I have some reeeeeally horrifying news for your drunk ass at the end.

Some people are unique .... allies & addicts are TERMINALLY unique - we isolate, we get desperate and we cannot see a way out of our shit ...... I’ll show you a way out ........ chill for a day baby! We got this 😅

I’ve just left a meeting where a woman with 5 days had a traumatic family event that led her back into the rooms.

A deep dive into your relationship with YOU as a father, your family (blended or extended) and what you could be thinking about as you observe your daily life from 10,000 feet above.

Here’s what goes on in a typical 12 Step meeting . Most newcomers are still shaky and don’t understand what’s going on so here’s a blueprint. I’ll expand on this in the future

Please join me every week for help staying or getting clean and sober. My guests are from Yale and Jail, Park Ave and Park Benches. This is the real deal if you’re “on the fence” inside or outside of 12 Step recovery . RELATE don’t COMPARE man, just listen...... you might just screw up and learn something !