In this episode of Slightly Off Script, we dive into the controversial topic of purity culture and the True Love Waits movement. Join hosts Bethany and Andrew David Needham as they reflect on the good intentions, the problematic aspects, and the lasting impact of purity messages they encountered as teenagers in the 90s and early 2000s. From the teaching of biblical sexual ethics to the harmful overemphasis on virginity, we explore our personal experiences and share insights on what we've learned. We also discuss how to approach these topics with grace, truth, and a balanced perspective for the next generation. Thank you for your questions that sparked this meaningful and complex conversation!
ARTICLES WE REFERENCED
The FAQs: What You Should Know About Purity Culture
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/faqs-know-purity-culture/
Critique Purity Culture, but Teach Sexual Ethics to Teens
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/purity-culture-sexual-ethics-teens
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00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script
00:33 Bethany's Middle Name Story
02:19 Hair Pampering Weekend
03:50 Compliments and Insecurities
06:13 Introduction to Purity Culture
08:13 Defining Purity Culture
16:10 Critiques and Reflections
19:10 Personal Experiences with Purity Culture
25:02 The Grip of Pornography in Teenage Years
26:09 True Love Waits and Technical Virginity
26:47 The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly of Purity Culture
26:57 Positive Aspects of Purity Culture
30:52 Critiquing Purity Culture: The Focus on Virginity
36:46 Modesty and Judgment in Purity Culture
43:38 The Sexual Prosperity Gospel
47:56 Concluding Thoughts and Future Conversations