If you are in an argument:
Can you help me understand why you are so upset? I want to understand and solve this problem together.
Can you help me understand why you did that? I want to know what happened so we can solve this together.
Can you tell me more about how I made you feel? I want to understand how you felt.
What can I do to make it right?
What needs to change for next time?
If you just want to engage in better conversation on an average day:
What was one thing that brought you joy today?
What was a low point in your day? What made it low?
Where did you see God move today?
What is something you are hopeful for?
What gave you energy today?
Did anything drain your energy today?
James 3:5-6, Ephesians 4:29, Matthew 12:36-37, Proverbs 18:21
Songs of the Week:
Holly: Send me, Jenn Johnson
Mallory: Trouble, The Chosen