Episode 49: Ever catch yourself scrolling through social media and suddenly feel… less than? You’re not alone. In this episode of Mind Your Midlife, we dig into why so many women over 40 and 50 fall into the comparison trap and how to break free so you can feel more joy, confidence, and fulfillment in your own life.

This is your official permission slip to stop following the accounts that make you feel down or bad.

I share what’s really happening in your brain when you compare yourself to others, why social media makes this so much worse, and the mindset shifts that can help you feel good in your own skin again. You’ll also hear why authentic relationships and intentional choices are key to building the kind of self confidence that no Instagram highlight reel can shake.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:

✔ Why comparison feels so natural for midlife women—and how your brain is wired for it
 ✔ How social media highlights distort your sense of reality
 ✔ The simple questions you can ask yourself to shift out of comparison and into confidence
 ✔ Why community and supportive relationships are the best antidote to comparison
 ✔ How to set powerful intentions before logging onto social media or walking into a group setting

🎯 OMG Moment: Your worth isn’t found in someone else’s highlight reel—it’s built by knowing who you are and what truly matters to you.

Take Action
Notice your triggers. The next time you catch yourself feeling worse after scrolling, jot down what you were looking at and how it made you feel. With awareness comes power—you’ll start to see the patterns and know exactly what to avoid or curate in your feed.

Grab the free Story Cycle resource and start using it.

Why This Episode Matters
Midlife isn’t a time for constant comparison—it’s the time to create your own version of happiness and success. By learning how to spot comparison for what it is, you’ll build the mindset shift that keeps you grounded, joyful, and confident.

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