The encouragement is to just observe, which is difficult to do in our everyday lives where things are moving around. I’m not saying just observe by stopping anything. Whatever arises, see of you can get to the inclusion of it before you laminate it with your thought patterns, your judgements, your ideas, your evaluations. If you are doing this correctly you won’t know you are doing it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szxOtvLu6P8&t=1s