Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

Well, this is it, folks! Adam and Cole deliver the final episode of Sorry For Asking, in which they reflect on the past four years of bringing you frank discussions and a diverse group of guests, the laughs and the stories, and the overall mission statement behind this project - to humanize and destigmatize your favorite adult content creators, and share the ins and outs, the whys and hows. We're sorry, but... when you know, you know, and it's time for other things. Thanks, everyone, for four fantastic seasons, and stay tuned for what's next!

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And this time, Adam and Cole welcome the whirlwind that is the very studly Hayden Harding to the pod. Hayden jumped into the scene via a steady stream of scenes with the renowned Sean Cody studio, breaking expectations by bringing some meat and fuzz to the mix, as Sean Cody is usually known for its smooth boy next door aesthetic. He tells stories of growing up in Southern California in a very conservative Catholic family, and finding ways to charm his way toward his authentic self by moving to Australia and working in the wine industry, and eventually making it to Los Angeles, working all kinds of jobs before landing in the gay adult film industry as Hayden Harding. Whether our boundaries are rigid or porous, Hayden’s story is just further proof that there’s so much more going on in the lives and minds of our favorite sexy content creators.

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Make yourself decent and get the sling ready, folks, we’ve got company. This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by their good friend James, known to the gay adult film world as the Inked Pig (sometimes as Jimmy Ink). James gives us a deep download of his upbringing in the Bronx growing up with macho Italian values and breaking free from them his own unique way.

Sometimes being shamed is a perfect recipe for becoming an uninhibited sex god, and James is proof. After making his way to LA and becoming a tattoo artist, a traumatic head injury left him in a deep recovery state that got him thinking about a new path. Before he knew it, the Inked Pig made a very quick splash in the content creator world and has kept the man quite busy ever since. Sorry for asking, James!

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Welcome back, y’all! Just the boys again this time. Adam and Cole have a little catch up about what they’re up to as summer comes to a close, including creative endeavors, recent shoots, and upcoming travels, plans, and hopes for the fall. They also speak on some moments of folly that we all could learn from (you’re welcome!)

Also, before resuming having guests, Adam and Cole try another hand at last episode’s format of reviewing each other’s scenes, except this time they speak on some recent uploads to their spicy pages, this time with the scenes having some very different things in common - namely being filmed out of the country, and not one but two simultaneous scene partners. You can guess what that might entail, sorry about it…

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In this episode, Adam and Cole go deep into their memory banks to give you the full experience by reliving the first time either of them did a studio scene. The assignment: Each of them will watch the other's scene, comment and review, and ask questions. What it was like, what happened, how it happened, and all surrounding circumstances. Simple, right? Of course, nothing is ever simple on set, especially when you've never done it before! First, Cole gives us a run down of Adam's debut in Hole 2, Adam completes the picture, and then Adam returns the favor by getting into Cole's introduction to the studio world in Scrum. Both Raging Stallion productions, both directed by the legendary Tony Dimarco. Every day in the industry is a story. Here are two pretty hot ones. Enjoy!

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Welcome back, listeners. We have a guest this week, so get ready for some chaos because Adam and Cole are paid a visit by none other than Michael Boston! He’s won multiple awards, including the XBiz Gay Performer of the Year, and the Grabby for Best Butt, and Michael reminisces with the boys about winning the latter in the presence of his mother. He grew up Mormon in Utah, and shares what it was like growing up very much himself while also grappling with the rules of the church. Learning to break those rules slowly but surely is what led him toward a career in the gay adult industry, where he’s thrived. It hasn’t all been roses though, as he spills some tea about his take on what studio business has been like lately. But he takes it all in stride and sorry, this conversation is very funny. Enjoy!

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Harrumph! Welcome to the summer grumps! In this episode, Adam and Cole do their best Waldorf and Statler as they catch up about recent things they’ve been up to in the heat of these summer days. Adam shares about his wild experience in Germany, from the techno stages of Whole Festival to Pride weekend at the legendary Berlin nightclub scene. Cole tells stories of a recent visitor at his home that didn’t go quite according to plan. Just shooting the breeze on a hot summer day. Sorry about it!

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We love a multi-hyphenate in the industry. And boy, do we have a good one today. Adam and Cole welcome Taylor Stilson to the show, who has so many qualifications under his belt that it’s hard to keep track. Having worked with Taylor on respective collabs, using his adult content moniker Jameson Taylor, Adam and Cole have seen Taylor around town at the parties rocking some fierce looks blending all sorts of fashion trends that play with the masculine ideal. Slowly getting to know him over time, the boys realized there’s a lot more to this fella than we get at first glance at his very sexy social media presence. A singer, musician, and professor, with a background in kinesiology and body work, Taylor utilizes all his talents for various income streams - when he gave Adam a game changing massage, the boys knew it was time to ask him some deeper questions and share his answers with the world. And where better than here on this show, right? Get a load of Taylor over here!!

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Right on the heels of a busy 4th of July weekend, Adam and Cole dive head first into a brand new studio set up for the podcast! It’s summer 2025, things are changing everywhere, and the boys have a one on one catch up about the various things this season that are keeping them on their toes. From improv shows to party venue pivots, upcoming trips and festivals, recent Pride festivities to reasons for nostalgia, the boys even have time to share about some recent intimate experiences that got them thinking about some potential moral dilemmas. Sorryyyyyy.

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Summer is here officially, and to ring it in, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by LA nightlife fixture and sexy content creator, Judas King. Having made a connection while working the Hot Dog Sunday parties in LA together, Adam invited Judas to share his origin story of growing up in Northern California with an adoptive Mormon family, and the bumpy road that lead to his unique place in the queer zeitgeist. From the early days of Guys in Sweatpants, to stripping, to go-go dancing, to the delicate dance of handling sugar daddies, Judas has paved his way in the industry in a manner all his own, shooting scenes with thicker boys and even a snaky split tongue to add to his signature. There's nobody like Judas King, and we barely scratch the surface. Sorry!

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