What happens when a sailor takes his leadership philosophy beyond the quarterdeck and into the podcast studio? Command Master Chief Damo McCullough's story illuminates how authentic conversations can transform military culture.

From his Philadelphia roots to becoming a respected Navy leader, Damo shares the unfiltered journey that led him to create a podcast platform now boasting over 550,000 YouTube views and 100,000 downloads. His approach—speaking the "quiet parts out loud"—has created a unique space where sailors and leadership alike can engage in honest dialogue about military life, leadership challenges, and cultural issues that often remain unaddressed in formal settings.

Damo's early career experiences with exceptional leaders who valued open communication shaped his philosophy that every sailor deserves a voice. When confronted with communication barriers between leadership and junior sailors around sensitive issues, he didn't just identify the problem—he created a solution through podcasting that has evolved into a thriving community over five years.

The conversation explores how maintaining authenticity while advancing through the ranks presents both challenges and opportunities. As Damo notes, his podcast serves as an "integrity test," ensuring he embodies the leadership principles he advocates. What began as a way to help junior sailors see chiefs as relatable humans has expanded to influence leadership across the Navy, proving that speaking honestly doesn't hinder professional growth when done respectfully.

For today's military members navigating service life, Damo's journey offers a compelling blueprint—demonstrating how traditional leadership values can adapt to connect with a new generation through digital platforms while preserving what matters most: mentorship, guidance, and mutual respect.

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What happens when a decorated Army officer discovers her family is being poisoned by contaminated water on a military base – and then faces retaliation for speaking out? Major Mandy Feindt takes us inside one of the largest toxic exposure cases in U.S. military history, revealing how the Red Hill fuel facility in Hawaii contaminated drinking water for over 93,000 military and civilian families.

With raw honesty, Mandy shares the devastating health impacts her family experienced – from her 13-month-old son developing mysterious rashes and respiratory issues to her own unexplained symptoms that left doctors puzzled. When military leadership insisted the water was safe despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary, Mandy made the courageous decision to become a whistleblower, risking her nearly 20-year military career and upcoming promotion to lieutenant colonel.

The institutional betrayal she experienced was profound. Overnight, her standing in her unit plummeted. Her evaluation reports were downgraded. But instead of staying silent, she filed a Department of Defense Inspector General complaint that was ultimately substantiated after a three-and-a-half-year investigation – a remarkable outcome in a system where less than 2% of such complaints favor service members.

Beyond her personal vindication, Mandy's advocacy has driven meaningful change. She spearheaded a landmark federal lawsuit that held the Navy legally responsible for the contamination, helped secure a National Academy study on health impacts, and established a registry for affected families. Now, she's working on transparency legislation to ensure future military families aren't kept in the dark about environmental hazards.

Perhaps most powerfully, Mandy opens up about her journey through PTSD, moral injury, and finding healing through specialized trauma programs and adaptive sports – ultimately becoming a 10-time medalist at the DoD Warrior Games. Her story illuminates not just the fight for justice, but the profound resilience required to transform betrayal into purpose.

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When you're a young service member preparing for your first PCS, finding honest information about where you'll live and eat can be nearly impossible. Military barracks and dining facilities remain one of the most significant blind spots in our support system for junior enlisted personnel.

Rob Evans, an Army veteran and software developer, experienced this firsthand during his 12 years of service. After transitioning to civilian life, he noticed something critical was missing: a platform where service members could openly discuss the conditions of their living quarters and dining facilities. This realization, coupled with a 2023 Government Accountability Office report highlighting widespread problems in military housing, sparked the creation of Hots and Cots – an app that's transforming how we address quality of life issues for our troops.

During our conversation, Rob shares powerful stories of service members living with mold-covered ceilings, broken HVAC systems, and unreliable dining options who found their voices through his platform. The app's anonymity feature has proven crucial, allowing personnel to document conditions without fear of retaliation. What began as a simple idea has now collected over a thousand reviews and caught the attention of military leadership at the highest levels – including the Secretary of the Army.

Perhaps most compelling is how Hots and Cots creates accountability where traditional systems have failed. Rob describes instances where installation commanders reached out directly after seeing negative reviews, resulting in immediate fixes to problems that had lingered for months. His recent addition of a leadership dashboard allows vetted military leaders to engage with reviews and address concerns while maintaining user anonymity.

As someone who's witnessed the transformative power of good leadership and proper resources, Rob's mission extends beyond building an app – he's building a bridge between those who serve and those who lead them. His work reminds us that taking care of our service members isn't just about equipment and training but ensuring they have decent places to live and nutritious food to eat.

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What happens when you refuse to let the world put you in a box? Marine Corps officer Riley Compton reveals the extraordinary journey that unfolded when she decided to pursue every passion without limitation.

Riley's story begins in the Midwest, where she never saw women serving in the military while growing up. After earning a Division I softball scholarship, a chance encounter with a Marine recruiter opened doors she never knew existed. What followed was a remarkable balancing act—commissioning as a Marine officer while simultaneously pursuing a spot on Team USA's bobsled team.

For five years, Riley competed internationally in bobsled, achieving a world ranking of 14th and winning a North American Cup gold medal, all while maintaining her active duty status. When a deployment opportunity to Baghdad arose, she volunteered for a billet typically filled by officers ranking above her. Upon returning from deployment, she went straight from the combat zone to competing on the world's fastest bobsled track in Canada—a testament to her unwavering dedication and resilience.

The conversation explores Riley's difficult decision to step away from bobsledding to focus on her Marine Corps career, her upcoming marriage to a Royal Marine, and her bestselling children's book "If You Can Dream It, Be It." With refreshing candor, she shares the behind-the-scenes struggles of publishing, including countless rejections, while maintaining her "never quit" mentality.

What makes Riley's perspective particularly valuable is her humility. Despite her achievements across multiple domains, she emphasizes that anyone can follow a similar path with enough courage and persistence. As she puts it, "Your job, the things you do, is what you do. It's not who you are." Her definition of wealth—measured in relationships, experiences, and discipline rather than financial gain—offers a refreshing counterpoint to conventional success metrics.

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Military psychiatrist Dr. Robert Moretta exposes the hidden flaws in our armed forces’ mental healthcare system—where administrative convenience often trumps genuine healing. From the overuse of adjustment and personality disorder diagnoses to avoid benefits, to a culture that discourages sailors from seeking help, Dr. Moretta reveals how these practices harm trust and recovery.

He shares firsthand accounts of blurred confidentiality, where providers are told to avoid diagnosing PTSD to keep paperwork simple, and how fragmented records across clinics and agencies leave struggling service members to piece together their own care.

Drawing on experience across multiple branches and the VA, Dr. Moretta outlines how standardizing policies could ensure consistent, recovery-focused care for all who serve.

Listen now, then explore his book Reflections of a Military Psychiatrist for deeper insights and solutions.

Whether you’re a veteran, military family member, or someone interested in the realities of military medicine, this conversation offers an unfiltered and compassionate look at the challenges—and hope—within the field of military psychiatry.

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What happens when a warrior who's dedicated to never leaving anyone behind is forced to witness a fellow airman lost at sea? Aaron Love's journey from elite Air Force Pararescueman to outspoken veterans advocate reveals the profound cost of service and the power of principle-based leadership.

In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Aaron takes us through his 22-year military career, from his post-9/11 enlistment to becoming part of the elite Air Force special warfare community. With remarkable candor, he shares the traumatic events that ultimately led to his medical retirement – including the heartbreaking story of combat controller Cole Condiff's training accident and how military process prevented Aaron's qualified team from attempting recovery.

"I'll be damned if I wasn't there fighting for him until the very end," Aaron reflects, revealing the deep commitment to mission that defined his service and continues to guide his civilian life. This powerful statement encapsulates the core ethos that drove him through five combat deployments and now fuels his work mentoring the next generation through podcasting and in-person training events.

The discussion ventures beyond personal storytelling as we explore the tensions between military hierarchy and operational effectiveness, the evolution of accountability in the digital age, and the crucial need for transparent leadership. Aaron's perspective on military reform balances patriotic reverence with unflinching criticism – a refreshing approach in today's polarized landscape.

Whether you're a veteran seeking connection, an active duty member navigating today's military culture, or simply someone curious about the human experience behind the uniform, this conversation offers rare insight into the mind of someone who's lived at the tip of the spear. Connect with Aaron through his "One's Ready" podcast or at upcoming events like MCON in Las Vegas to continue the conversation about service, leadership, and active citizenship.

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What happens when a system designed to protect our warriors becomes their greatest threat? In this powerful conversation, retired Air Force Colonel Doug James exposes the devastating impact of false allegations in military justice—a crisis he knows firsthand.

As the former President of Save Our Heroes, Colonel James witnessed hundreds of cases where innocent service members faced career destruction from unsubstantiated claims. The patterns were disturbingly consistent: allegations emerging during contentious divorces, after relationship breakups, or when service members sought career advantages. Even more alarming was how the military justice system seemed designed to prevent fair outcomes.

"These general officers are more scared of Congress than they are the bad guys," James reveals, explaining how political pressure created a climate where securing convictions became more important than finding truth. He points to the case of Lieutenant General Susan Helms, whose distinguished career ended after she determined there was insufficient evidence in a sexual assault case—a decision that cost her a fourth star and sent shockwaves through military leadership.

The structural problems are profound. Military courts require only a 75% majority to convict, defense counsel are typically inexperienced compared to prosecution teams, and cases drag on for years before collapsing over basic evidentiary issues. Even after exoneration, many service members face the permanent stigma of "titling," affecting everything from employment opportunities to basic rights.

Colonel James doesn't just identify problems—he offers solutions. Requiring unanimous verdicts, properly resourcing defense counsel, and creating conviction integrity units would restore balance to a system currently failing those it should protect. Until then, his advice to accused service members is clear: "Get a civilian attorney and fight like hell."

This isn't just about individual injustice—it's a national security threat. Talented warriors are being lost to service, others avoid command positions entirely, and the system that should uphold our highest values is undermining trust in the very institutions responsible for our defense. Listen now to understand why military justice reform must become a priority for anyone who values both justice and military readiness.

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The military justice system is failing our warriors through a perfect storm of bias, incompetence, and political pressure. In this eye-opening episode, Mike Konzachi—Army veteran, retired homicide detective, and private investigator—pulls back the curtain on how false allegations destroy military careers.

After nearly three decades in specialized law enforcement units and investigating over 500 military cases, Konzachi delivers a scathing assessment of military investigative practices. "The objective is not to learn the truth of what occurred, but to gather sufficient evidence that will sustain a conviction," he reveals, highlighting a fundamental flaw in the approach to military justice.

We explore the shocking realities behind these cases: investigators who fail to collect basic evidence like cell phone records, prosecutors who suppress exculpatory evidence, and commanding officers whose careers are threatened if they don't push cases to court-martial regardless of merit. Konzachi walks us through how this broken system emerged, from politically-motivated survey manipulation to congressional pressures that prioritize conviction rates over truth and fairness.

What makes this conversation particularly powerful is that it comes from someone who loves the military. Konzachi shares fond memories of his service with the elite 82nd Airborne Division, making it clear his criticism stems from a desire to protect the institution, not tear it down. His advocacy has resulted in over 100 formal complaints to oversight bodies including the Department of Justice, FBI, and United Nations.

For anyone concerned about justice, due process, or the wellbeing of our service members, this episode provides crucial context for understanding one of the most significant issues facing our military today. Subscribe now and share this episode to help bring attention to these warriors who need our support.

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In this powerful episode, Frank Sunius takes us on a remarkable journey—from a difficult childhood in Amsterdam to wrongful imprisonment in Australia, and ultimately, to his rebirth as an inspirational speaker and author.

Born to a mother who survived Japanese concentration camps and a father who valued success over connection, Frank grew up feeling unseen. To cope, he created what he calls his “Shadowland”—an imaginary refuge where he felt safe and valued.

As a highly sensitive child in a world that rewarded toughness, Frank found his footing in sports. He became a skilled basketball player and tennis coach, known for his ability to unlock potential in others. But while he gave endlessly to those around him, his own needs went unmet. Burnout hit hard while working on a methadone research project in Amsterdam, leading to a severe mental health crisis.

Prescribed powerful medications that caused dissociation, Frank was vulnerable. A well-meaning suggestion to take a “timeout” in Australia became a nightmare when he landed in Sydney and discovered his luggage had been tampered with—filled with drugs. Despite reporting the damaged suitcase himself, Frank was arrested, convicted, and sentenced to 11 years in prison.

What followed were four harrowing years behind bars—but paradoxically, it was in prison where Frank began to heal. Writing became his lifeline. His words helped medical professionals realize he had been misdiagnosed and overmedicated.

When he was unexpectedly released, he faced the world homeless, penniless, and disoriented. But a chance meeting with a former tennis student led to a coaching opportunity that sustained him for 17 years. Encouraged by mentors like Nick Vujicic, Frank turned his pain into purpose—sharing his story in his book Trapped in a Dream and inspiring audiences as a motivational speaker.

Frank’s message is clear and unforgettable: “Doubt less, fail more, dream bigger, and find your support team.” His story is a powerful reminder that our darkest chapters can lead to our most meaningful purpose.

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In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, decorated veteran and military justice reform advocate Adam DeRito takes us through his remarkable journey from Air Force Academy cadet to the frontlines of a battle few civilians understand: the fight against military retaliation.

Adam's story begins with his post-9/11 commitment to service, arriving at the Air Force Academy with real-world experience as a firefighter and EMT. After becoming an OSI confidential informant reporting cadet misconduct, his life took a devastating turn when he experienced sexual assault off-campus—and faced dismissal rather than support from his command. What followed was a systematic campaign of retaliation culminating in falsified medical records dated after he'd already left the Academy, an illegal tactic designed to permanently block his military career.

Despite these obstacles, Adam persevered through multiple administrative appeals, federal court battles, and political advocacy while continuing to serve in the National Guard and Army Reserves. His experiences led him to draft the Military Mental Health Protection and Justice Act (known informally as the "DeRito Act"), which would prevent commanders from weaponizing command-directed evaluations against service members who report misconduct.

The conversation exposes critical gaps in military accountability where commanders operate with minimal oversight, creating a chilling effect that damages readiness and unit cohesion. Adam's documentation of his case—including medical records falsified by someone without proper licensing—reveals how military mental health evaluations can be weaponized to silence whistleblowers and assault survivors.

For anyone concerned about veterans' rights, military readiness, or constitutional protections, this episode provides rare insight into how our military justice system actually operates and why reforms like the DeRito Act are desperately needed. Visit adamdorito.com to review the evidence and join the fight for accountability that affects thousands of service members.

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