Soul Surgery with Nicky Clinch

We have another episode of the Surrender Series, where I get to sit with the wonderful Jessica Huie.

Jessica is the author of "Purpose' and a transformational visibility teacher, encouraging people to breathe life into why they are here and helping them connect with their purpose.

In this episode, Jessica shares with us a very personal story of when her father was passing away... and the huge transformation that came out of his passing that also enabled a real death of the character that she once thought she was.

If you ever feel like you're stuck in the persona that's always striving, pushing, and relentlessly getting things done... the story of the birthing of who Jessica is today will guide you towards the path of deep authenticity and surrender.

Remember - surrender is not a weakness. In fact, it takes a lot of courage to surrender our picture of how we thought our life should be or who we thought we needed to be.

In other words - it takes courage to surrender to something even greater and deeper.

And at some point in your life, you will be invited to go through that transformational process.

So may this special episode help guide you through these challenges and point you in the right direction.

Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.

Episode Highlights:

- Surrender is not a weakness. In fact, it takes a lot of courage to surrender our picture of how we thought our life should be or who we thought we needed to be.

- Out of chaos comes order - our biggest transformation can often come from our greatest challenges.

- Giving up the persona that's always striving and pushing forward in order to unfold who you really are may be one of the most difficult tasks you will ever face but the rewards of authenticity and massive personal evolution are worth it.

- And at some point in your life, you will be invited to go through that transformational process. Because it is inevitable - it is a good idea to start peeling off the layers of who you thought you were meant to be and start connecting with your true purpose.

If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.

SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.

It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.

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Join us for a new episode of the Surrender Series with the amazing Zoe Blaskey, founder of the MOTHERKIND podcast. 

In this episode Zoe shares with us the huge process of surrender that she had to go through when she became pregnant with her first daughter.

We'll talk about the healing journey she went through when she was pregnant that led to her having the homebirth that she dreamed of, as well as the huge transformational process of actually learning how to be a mother.

And it wasn’t easy...

Perfectionism, obsession with routine, high expectations of self…  All these things can lead to struggle, relationship challenges, and loss of spiritual connection. Especially during challenging times such as moving to a new city or giving birth to a child.

The thing is - it's perfectly normal.

When we have babies it is the ultimate opening of love. It is the purest, most intense love that we experience.

And love is the trigger point for all the aspects that have been unhealed wounds in the past.

Suddenly all the demons of the past wake up inside of you and start screaming...

And when you're in it you can't see the wood for the trees.

But the good news is - deep healing is possible.

There's a moment when we are ready to say to ourselves: "I can't... I don't know how to do this"

And that it is the moment when healing begins. It's the beginning of the transformation.

It takes a certain amount of humility because we live in a society that perpetuates the idea that we should always have the answers.

Otherwise, our egos will try to protect the illusions of our fake identities and keep us from ascending in life.

But there are tremendous gifts at the other end if we can just put one foot in front of the other...

Because as soon as we surrender and let go - we open up the doors to living from the place of joy, authenticity, and true inner power.

So if you'd like to hear the inspirational surrender story of Zoe Blaskey, I warmly invite you to listen to our new Surrender Series podcast.

Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.

Episode Highlights  

If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.

SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.

It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.

Order SURRENDER here: 

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Welcome back to the Soul Surgery podcast and our brand new SURRENDER SERIES, where I interview some of the most influential voices in the industry and dive deeply into the biggest most transformational point of surrender in their personal lives.

In this special episode of my new “SURRENDER SERIES” I interview the amazing Mel Wells. We dive deeply into her untold story of when her ‘forever’ relationship came to a sudden & jolting end and show you how even the most traumatic events in our lives can become our greatest blessings. This is the first time ever Mel has shared the full story publicly and it is deeply inspiring to hear.

And if you've ever been through heartbreak, betrayal or loss... this special episode will help you navigate through it, heal the wounds, and find inner peace.

It's a reminder that every breakdown is an invitation to have a breakthrough - even though you can't see it yet.

Because even though we sometimes end up in the depths of despair, there can always be trust and knowing that it is leading us to somewhere magical - somewhere even better.

This episode of the SURRENDER SERIES will also show you how to cultivate that trust and hope and guide you through the process of letting go of your past - the transformational process of surrender.

I warmly invite you to join us for a powerful session of raw authenticity. You'll hear Mel's incredible journey and discover how to tell the difference between warning signs and opportunities to do inner work.

Episode Highlights:

Thank you for listening. If you have any aha moments from this episode, please do share them with me by leaving a review.

If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.

SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.

It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.

Order SURRENDER here.

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Welcome back to the Soul Surgery podcast and our brand new Surrender Series, where I interview some of the most influential voices in the industry and dive deeply into the biggest most transformational point of surrender in their personal lives. 

I find out what aspects of their own self they had to face and release, how they navigated through the change and phases of the unknown and the profound surprising gifts that came at the end.

In this special episode, the amazing Jaiya John comes in to interview me. I'll be sharing with you my journey and learnings - right from my birth to writing this book. Revealing my greatest points of surrender I have gone through - on every level: emotional, mental, physical and spiritual. 

You will hear what it really means to go through an ego death and experience a real rebirthing process. It is a true living testimony to what has actually worked in my life to transform it into a joyful adventure of authenticity and fulfilment.

Order my book SURRENDER

If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER. SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.

A book where I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.

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Welcome to the latest solo episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast where I focus on the topic of parenting ourselves.

If we want to change habits, change patterns and break cycles we will have to face the uncomfortable parts of ourselves that we have been hiding, resisting and running away from.

People who are able to navigate through these challenging phases of the transformational process are able to do it because they could hold themselves through the painful, the scary, and the unknown. They may not do it perfectly, it’s not without resistance but they are able to hold space for themselves which allowed a shift to occur.

Episode Highlights:

· You simply cannot allow the opening of a new possibility without simultaneously experiencing the ending of the old story or the old way of being.

· The ability to hold ourselves, show up for ourselves sacredly and unconditionally is founded on our relationship with our mother.

· Being our own mother is the key to healing and allowing change to occur.

· Self-parenting creates internal safety and allows us to grow out of the victim and into a mature, empowered adult.

· If we don't feel safe and trusting in our own internal home, our life becomes about surviving in safety rather than being about creating space for continuous expansion.

If you are you ready to be your own loving mother, the possibilities become limitless as you stop living in fear.

Those of you who want to dive deeper into this healing work with me can find The Homecoming Process on my website – an eight week transformational process that you can purchase to guide you on your healing journey.

Thank you for listening. If you have any aha moments from this episode, please do share them with me.

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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast where I sit with the inspiring Rebecca Campbell, world renowned writer, mystic, poet, mother, channel and creative.

Rebecca believes that we ARE nature and all her creations are in devotion to the beauty of nature and weaving the soul back into everyday life.

Rebecca and I have an inspiring conversation about life; how our souls have chosen to be here at this time of global upheaval and change, and the intensely beautiful, painful and almost other-worldly experience of childbirth that can be a direct comparison to life itself.

Episode Highlights

- The transcendental experience of birthing a child that can be both painful and mind-blowing at the same time, exactly like what we have been experiencing around the world in the last couple of years

- How childbirth invites the possibility of healing and transformation on a deep level

- Opening ourselves to the pure love of being a mother, also brings along the realisation that we need to simultaneously open ourselves to loss and an unimaginable depth of pain that has not been felt yet

- The moment we awaken to a new phase of our consciousness, something in us dies to make place for the new

- The birthing energy exists in life itself and one of the most courageous things we can do is to breathe through the agony and stay open to life and love

- Our souls have chosen to be here now and we all have our own purpose to be here during these difficult times that are so triggering and childhood traumas are coming up to be healed.

I’d appreciate if you’d drop us a review to share your feedback. I love hearing from you. Thank you for listening.

Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER

If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to pre-order my book SURRENDER. SURRENDER is a book that will walk you through a life changing process of maturation.  Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.  

You can pre-order my book here

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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast. In this solo episode I speak about forgiveness – about how the healing, transformational maturation process of forgiving requires full surrender into what we are suppressing, hiding or resisting around the thing or person we need to forgive.

We need to be willing to truly face and be with all that is present and dive into the complete unknown with the intention to forgive to come to a place of wholeness, freedom and peace.

Episode highlights:

- Forgiveness is not a place to get to – it’s the intention of bringing completion to something that is incomplete.

- What we’ve left behind may not be complete in our heart, mind and soul and if we don’t heal and release the pain within us, we start feeling stuck and our survival strategies get more intense.

- Forgiveness is so important because it allows us to fully and freely express ourselves in flow with our life force.

- Underneath all the resentment, anger and unmet expectations is heartbreak, which is the root cause of blame and powerlessness.

- I offer you a 4-step process to practice forgiveness to help you heal and create a feeling of wholeness and peace in your life.

- When we truly forgive and end the cycle, we don’t have to pass this pain and resentment to the future generation; we don’t have to take it out on our partners or on our bodies.

Forgiveness takes time and one thing to keep in mind is you may not be ready to love yet, but you can offer yourself compassion and understanding.

Thank you for listening. If you have any aha moments from this episode, please do share them with me. I love to hear about your healing experiences.

Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER

Have you heard my exciting news? I would like to invite you to check out my book SURRENDER which is currently available for pre-order. If you feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, SURRENDER is THE book for you. Through these pages, I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.

You can pre-order my book here: https://nickyclinch.com/book/

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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. Thank you for tuning in to listen to this episode where I sit with my husband Kevin to speak about communication in relationships.

We talk about all the areas which block our ability to communicate, to hear, to listen to each other and how to be able to have a certain kind of communication that creates life, love and feeds the relationship so it can thrive.

We tend to get into relationships with an expectation around communication based on our own personal childhood experiences. However, we discuss the possibility of communication with such peace, freedom and nourishment that there’s no need to hide any part of ourselves, including where we are coming from.

Episode Highlights:

· We speak about the different layers of communication in relationship

· How our childhood experiences create certain unconscious expectations in our communication as adults that affect the relationship

· How important it is to bring conscious awareness to our communication so that our partner feels safe enough to fully express themselves and disentangle the mechanical expectations of communication from what is actually being said in the present moment

· The polarity between masculine and feminine and the dance to navigate those dynamics in a relationship

· We all have our shadow sides but when we bring consciousness to our own and our partner’s programming, we can become so much more compassionate and considerate of the other person, instead of being judgmental

· How the commitment to be in a loving enquiry with the other being creates a spirit of partnership coming from conscious awareness

If we are able to suspend the idea that our partner is to blame for our unhappiness and realise that we are often looking at an intimate mirror that shows us where we need to heal, a relationship can actually offer a massive opportunity for growth.

I hope this episode has helped you. Please share with me any aha moments that you had as I love hearing from you. Thank you for listening.

Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER

If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to pre-order my book SURRENDER. SURRENDER is a book that will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.  

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Welcome to the latest episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. Today I’m speaking with Richard Good. Richard has studied the human condition through the acting, healing and martial arts. His relationship with, and love of nature unfolded alongside a deep resonance with the ancient ways carried by men and women from the East and the West who honoured the Earth and all of Life. He has worked at the educational charity called the Eden Project for the last 20 years, the largest rainforest in captivity, in Cornwall UK.

Richard has recently created a new project called the Imaginal Collective, a network that connects people who are doing work that is having an impact on shifting consciousness, healing the earth and creating a more beautiful world.

In this insightful episode we speak about the innate wisdom of nature and how most humans are so profoundly disconnected from nature, when in fact we are nature. Unfortunately the complete disconnect that most societies and cultures have from nature is directly reflected in the problem we have in the world today.

We go into how the design function of the mind is survival so it will hook onto information that is related to any source of threat, instead of realising that we are energetic flows and when we work and dance with plants and nature, we can embody the same aliveness and regeneration that happens in nature so naturally and majestically.

Episode highlights:

It is essential that we hold a state of love, joy, peace and unity. By merging this state of being with aligned action, our collective vision will have its own consciousness for us to create from.

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I would love to hear if this episode has resonated with you. I would truly appreciate if you would leave a review so that we can share these messages of wholeness and healing with the world.

Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER

Have you heard my exciting news? I would like to invite you to check out my book SURRENDER which is currently available for pre-order. If you feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, SURRENDER is THE book for you. Through these pages, I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.

You can pre-order my book here: https://nickyclinch.com/book/

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Welcome to the next solo episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast where I speak about a topic that affects every human being. I speak to you about fear – one of the most dominant aspects of human nature that has the ability to completely block and disempower us.

If we allow fear to make our decisions, we will be destabilised and disconnected from our truth. Fear can block any kind of change in our lives.

One of the biggest misconceptions that I’ve noticed is that many believe that if we do enough work on ourselves, enough meditations, breathwork, classes etc – then we won’t feel fear anymore. Well, that’s not true. The mindset that there is a magic cure to make fear disappear, that something outside of us can eradicate our fear, is so disempowering as there is a state of survival that accompanies this feeling of trying to find a fix for our fear.

Episode Highlights:

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I’d love to hear from you if you have any aha moments or shifts. I would also be so grateful if you could leave a review so that we can share this message with the world.

Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER

Have you heard my exciting news? I would like to invite you to check out my book SURRENDER which is currently available for pre-order. If you feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, SURRENDER is THE book for you. Through these pages, I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.

You can pre-order my book here: https://nickyclinch.com/book/

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