Soul Surgery with Nicky Clinch

Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. I am honoured to have you here. This week’s guest is the extraordinary Regan Hillyer. Regan is a quantum transformation coach, an MLP Therapist, counsellor, entrepreneur, CEO, philanthropist and an incredibly inspiring conscious human being as well as one of my mentors.

Regan challenges the conditioning which we identify with that is limiting our immense potential. She just knows that who we are is infinite possibility. She teaches that when we are brave enough to go in and shift internally and expand our field to greater capacities, we are able to start receiving more than we’ve ever imagined.

Regan is THE most expansive human being I have ever had the honour to learn from. She runs 15 businesses and brings in a revenue of multiple millions of dollars every year. And I promise you this, she does it with the utmost ease, grace, relaxation and peace. I am constantly learning from her about what abundance and service truly is. She teaches me how to expand to these levels from the purest space of love and alignment more than anyone else.

Regan also uses this abundance to do infinite good in the world and is teaching me to do the same.

Regan and I dive into a very deep beautiful conversation about how much our ability to stay centered in an energetic, emotional storm is the key to unlocking our biggest gifts.  Can we be in that place of stillness while everything is spinning in perceived madness around us?

Episode Highlights:

· In trying to escape, fix, hide from the storm, instead of sitting with it in stillness, we create more suffering and disconnect from our power

· 80% of creating our life is in our mindset, our energy and our frequency

· How our unconscious conditioning can block our potential to grow and expand as our subconscious is programmed to keep us safe and alive

· We speak about Regan’s journey and how her ability to listen to and act on her intuition has set her on the path of deep fulfilment, success and wealth

· The power of trust and surrender when it’s time for us to follow our calling

· 5 steps to begin shifting your internal reality about money to start creating the abundance that you desire

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I would love to hear if this episode has resonated with you. I would truly appreciate if you would leave a review so that we can share these messages of wholeness and healing with the world.

Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER

Have you heard my exciting news? I would like to invite you to check out my book SURRENDER which is currently available for pre-order. If you feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, SURRENDER is THE book for you. Through these pages, I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.

You can pre-order my book here: https://nickyclinch.com/book/

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The next episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast is now live! In this solo episode I address the subject of blindspots – something that every human being will be able to relate to as we have all created stories of who we are in the world based on our childhood experiences.

Some key questions that I speak about are: What is a blind spot? How does it impact our lives? How does it rob us of our power? What creates a blindspot? How to start actually disentangling a blindspot?

A blindspot is where we are unconscious to how our past is entangled with our present,

and therefore having a significant impact into how we experience our life, how we know ourselves in life, how we identify who we are in life and how life shows up for us in relation to that identification.

As long as a blindspot stays unconscious, it will continue to have the power over our life. As our blindspot robs us of our power to create our lives, we don't have the ability to make conscious change or conscious choices; to create a new reality. We will be unable to create a life aligned with what is true for us, what is authentic, nourishing, abundant and feeds our soul.

True power is where we get to have a conscious, alive relationship with our ability to relate and dance with life. Real power is our ability to impact the unfolding of our life in a way that is aligned and authentic to who we truly are. It's led from a place of wholeness, not fear. It stems from a place of healing, wholeness, authenticity and truth, not fear, pain, lack and unworthiness.

We can't see what's generating how we experience what we're seeing. The person seeing the piece of truth that is being revealed is getting the experience filtered through the blind spot. The present experience then gets entangled with that person's past and that’s creating their perception of what they are seeing as real and true.

Episode highlights:

If this episode has resonated with you, I invite you to pre-order my book Surrender here: https://nickyclinch.com/book/ If you feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, SURRENDER is THE book for you.

Please do share with me any moments of insight that has come up for you. You can share it in the comments or on my Instagram page. I always value hearing from you.

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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. I am so happy you are here. In this episode I speak about a three major blindspots that are rarely talked about that occur within relationships and if left unconscious, can create conflict and suffering where we really want to be creating more love.

Gaining awareness over these blind spots shifts how you see the ‘problems’ that show up for you in relationship. We cannot heal what we cannot see and so uncovering these blind spots opens up the possibility to heal and transform.

The first blind spot is our tendency to believe core life incidents from our childhood are in the past, all gone now and no longer get in our way. But actually our brains cannot distinguish between our past and our present. So we repeat experiences and patterns from the past around intimacy right here in our present.

The second blind spot is our experience of ourselves in adult relationships directly mirrors our original childhood experience and understanding of intimacy with our mothers. As adults, if we haven’t done the work on our past wounds and stories, the imprint of our childhood relationship with our mother can be living our lives.

The third blind spot is the relationship itself is its own entity. There are the two people plus the relationship itself, which is happening simultaneously. The relationship is evolving and moving in unity with how each person is reacting to the other person’s trigger within the relationship. Each partner cannot help but show up exactly how the other experiences intimacy.

As Eckhart Tolle says, the purpose of a relationship is not to make each other happy – it’s for spiritual transformation. If we are able to bring consciousness to our relationship and use it as a tool for our evolution and maturation, we will experience the greatest gift of love and intimacy.

Episode Highlights:

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I would love to hear if this episode has resonated with you. I would truly appreciate if you would leave a review so that we can share these messages of wholeness and healing with the world.

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Welcome back to our intimacy series with Michaela Boehm, the founder of The Non-Linear Movement Method® and expert embodiment & intimacy coach and therapist.

This is a really juicy episode where we talk about love. We come into adulthood with mixed messages and expectations for love that we have to unlearn to really open to love. We look at the misconceptions around romantic love, the meaning of love and how it differs for everyone; embodiment and its impact on our ability to allow love in.

Love can be described as the ability to be open, feel and connect to your heart and another's heart. This openness is not an easy thing to practice, because our experiences happen during the course of our individuation and we decide that it is too painful. Most of us will close our hearts to avoid pain and reduce our ability to welcome love in.

When we allow love in, we become vulnerable to pain, loss and grief. If we can fully feel all our feelings, then with the exalted positive feeling of love comes the reciprocal shadow side where the feelings might not be so pleasant to experience. Because of this tendency that many people close themselves to the possibility of pain and grief, when we actually get the love that we want, we can't accept it because we are not a big enough vessel for the abundance of love that we receive.

Episode highlights:

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I would truly appreciate if you would leave a review on iTunes so that we can share these messages of healing with the world.

Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER

Have you heard my exciting news? I would like to invite you to check out my book SURRENDER which is currently available for pre-order. If you feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to pre-order SURRENDER.

You can pre-order my book here: https://nickyclinch.com/book/

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I am so excited to share this conversation with you where I sit with Michaela Boehm for two consecutive episodes in which we are releasing an intimacy series this month. In this episode, we dive deeply into allowing in sensuality by creating internal safety within ourselves. Michaela is an expert in her field as an embodiment and intimacy coach and therapist. She is the founder of the Non-Linear Movement Method® and has been featured on some well-known platforms such as Red Table Talk with Jada Pinkett and on Netflix series ‘Unwell’.

We talk about the difference between sensuality and sexuality and how according to Michaela, sensuality means complete engagement with life through all our senses. This intimate relationship that we have with life internally then allows us to be more alive in our external world.

Michaela explains how through the activation of the multiple layers of positive engagement through all our senses in our daily life experiences, our body fully opens and how that sensual openness is the prerequisite and amplifier for sexual pleasure.

We speak about how sensuality and embodiment are intricately connected because in embodiment we are listening to the messages of our five senses that our internal landscape sends us. And so, when we engage with our senses, life is so much more pleasurable.

We go into how the practice of embodiment exercises and how connecting, working with and caring for the body in natural ways enables the body to release stress and the nervous system gets regulated with the release of old emotions and stories that got stuck in the memory of the body.

Episode Highlights:

· How creating a landscape of internal safety allows us to be more alive and engaged with life.

· The importance of creating internal safety to develop trust within ourselves.

· The ability to trust in our internal self opens up so much more possibility to make the choices to create an externally safe environment for ourselves if we have those choices.

· We delve into how if we want to feel safe in receiving all the good that life has to offer, we also need to learn how to be with our own pain so that when the goodness comes we can allow it in because numbing out pain will also numb out pleasure.

· We go profoundly into the positive benefits on the nervous system of having our environment set up in a way that our body is relaxed on an ongoing basis, which makes a huge difference relationally as well as sexually, sensually and in our personal development.

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I would love to hear of any aha moments you had after listening to this. I would truly appreciate if you would leave a review on my social media pages, website or iTunes so that we can share these messages of wholeness and healing with the world.

Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER

Have you heard about my exciting news? I would like to invite you to check out my book SURRENDER which is currently available for pre-order. This book will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.  

You can pre-order my book here: https://nickyclinch.com/book/

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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. I am so happy that you tuned in to listen to this very special episode that is so close to my heart and aligns with the personal journey I write about in my new book “SURRENDER: Break Free of Your Past, Realise Your Power, Live Beyond Your Story”.

I feel that this is an ideal time for us to share this episode with you considering the kind of immense pressure people have been feeling in their relationships because of the lockdown. The last year of lockdown has intensified frustrations within relationships to such an extent that it has felt like a crash course in intense isolated relationship.

We speak about how all this creates blocks to truly giving and receiving love. And how the unhealed wounds of our childhood are contaminating our experience of our partners here in the present and how to heal this

And the enormous act of SURRENDER that was required for us to truly allow a rebirth of our marriage to become possible.

This story is a taste of the deeper writing I share with you in my new book SURRENDER.

Episode Highlights:

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I would love to hear of any aha moments you had after listening to this. I would truly appreciate if you would leave a review on my social media pages, website or iTunes so that we can share with the world how these messages of wholeness and healing can change people’s lives.

Pre-order my new book SURRENDER 

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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast. I am so thrilled to share this beautiful episode with you where I speak with the amazing teacher, authentic being and modern day shaman, Ya'Acov Darling. If you are remotely interested in learning how to invoke the power and the shaman within you, then please listen to this episode.

Ya'Acov is someone who has been in my world since I came into recovery from my addictions around 20 years ago. He is the founder of Movement Medicine and is the best selling author of Jaguar in the Body, Butterfly in the Heart and the brilliant new book Shaman Invoking Power, Purpose and Presence in the Core of Who You Are.

Ya'Acov is absolutely committed to the embodiment and integration of the wisdom and teachings from shamanism and how we can bring this into our everyday lives.

In this episode, Ya'Acov and I dive deeply into the practice of initiation, the process and commitment to bringing shamanism, its teachings and wisdom into our everyday lives and how that can serve us right now.

Episode Highlights:

You can check out Ya’Acov’s resources on www.21gratitudes.com where him and his wife have created a number of free courses for self-study to deal with the feelings coming up during the pandemic. He is also offering a membership at a very low cost where teachings and live online workshops are on offer during this time.

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I always love to hear from you so please do let me know if this subject has resonated with you and provided you with some valuable information. You can also connect with me directly on Instagram or my website if this episode has raised any questions for you about Shamanism.

I would be grateful if you could leave a review on iTunes, and we can share this message of healing and wholeness with as many people as possible.

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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. I am so excited to share this week’s episode with you. I’m speaking with Rebecca Dennis, an international author, coach and workshop leader who provides formidable space for transformation.

She is on a mission to teach as many people as possible the absolute power within each one of us that comes with our ability to breathe consciously and with awareness in a connected, aligned and integrated way.

In this episode, Rebecca and I focus on healing trauma through the breath, and we speak about how fundamentally important it is right now, in such challenging times, to be able to learn how to breathe.

The breath is something that is already available in every single one of us. Unfortunately, more often than not, we do not know how to breathe properly, certainly not consciously and in an empowered way.

In this episode, Rebecca and I speak about how we can use the breath in order to empower ourselves, and also to heal trauma triggers and old wounds that are coming up.

If there was ever something to discover at this time in people's lives, it's to discover that they have this gift, which is their breath, that is available all the time and it's right here.

Episode Highlights:

You can check out Rebecca’s audible book titled Breathe to help you on your breathwork journey. This beautiful book is a guide packed with the very foundations of Rebecca’s teachings to support you with your breathwork practice.

Keep an eye out for Rebecca’s published book that is coming out in June 2021 called Let it Go, which is a book about the human experience.

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I always love to hear from you so please do let me know if this subject has resonated with you and provided you with a new insight into the gift of your breath.

I would be so grateful if you could leave a review on iTunes, and we can share this message of healing and wholeness with as many people as possible.

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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. I am so happy that you are here. In this solo episode I am diving deep into a very fundamental topic that everybody will identify with – our triggers and how sometimes, when we are unconscious, we tend to live our lives from this place of unhealed wound from the past instead of actually living in our present.

Any human being experiences triggers. We may not be conscious of it and it has nothing to do with whether we are good or bad or whether we have done the work or not - as part of being human we will have experiences where we are triggered.

A trigger is when something in the present (it can be anything from a smell, a look, a word etc) has any kind of similarities to a point in your past that is unhealed and inside of you. The sameness triggers what’s already inside of you and you will find yourself having an absolute identical repetition of the unhealed wound from my past. It often feels like it is about the person or current situation but what is happening has already been there waiting to be reactivated.

I want to show you how to eradicate any stigmas about triggers and highlight that there’s nothing wrong about being triggered. The only distinction is whether we are aware of the triggers or whether we are unconscious about them, which means that we are being lived by our triggers.

As Carl Jung says, Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.

I am here to guide you to become conscious of your triggers and when they are activated, to consciously remove yourself from the situation to gift yourself the time and attention that your unhealed wound is needing from you. This is the process of healing and maturation.

I offer you a 5 question process to give you an opportunity to break out of the grip of the  past and start coming home to who you truly are:

1) What am I actually seeing right now

2) Where am I seeing from right now. How old am I?

3) Is what I am seeing true or is my sight contaminated right now?

4) What do I truly want and need in this wound?

5) Can I be with what is moving through me right now?

If you are willing to make these 2 commitments:

1) You have to really want to heal – not to win, not to be right, not to fight

2) You have to be willing to be 100% responsible and acknowledge that your trigger is yours and what was coming up was always already there,

I promise you that you will go through profound growth and healing with this conscious exercise that offers you the chance to sit with your triggers, heal them and allow you to come back to the present to see clearly without the veil of the unhealed wound.

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I would love to hear of any breakthroughs you had after listening to this. I would truly appreciate if you would leave a review on my social media pages, website or iTunes so that we can share with the world how these messages of wholeness and healing can change people’s lives.

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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. I am so excited to share this week’s episode with you – I am talking to my business coach, the amazing and inspirational Suzy Ashworth. Suzy is an incredible business mentor and quantum transformation coach who truly embodies and lives all that she teaches.

Suzy has been an integral part of the expansion of my business and the most important thing she has taught me is to always remember who I am. This week we will be looking at why so many of us constantly feel the need to prove ourselves. This is a topic that EVERYONE will be able to relate to and I’d love to know what you think and whether you have any insights or aha moments.

The energy of not feeling enough and wanting to manipulate the way others see us is such a common concern. How often have you been in a situation when you feel “less than’ the people around you? Wanting so much for people to know who you are, what you are about and that what you have to say is important. But then not recognising or feeling aligned with this version of yourself that you are presenting?

These personas that we create in order to feel as if we belong are coming from a place of survival; they drain our energy and life force. Because when we come from a place of needing to prove ourselves, we are actually creating a separation rather than a connection. This separation is a mirror of the separation between your true, authentic self and what you are presenting to the world.

Individually and as a collective we are going through a realisation that these versions of ourselves that we are presenting to the world no longer fit. We are beginning to see that there is another way for us to be.

Highlights

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I always love to hear from you so please do let me know if this subject has resonated with you and provided a sense of possibility of a new of being. healing is accessible to you.

I would be so grateful if you could leave a review on iTunes, and we can share this message of healing and wholeness with as many people as possible.

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