Southern Gentlemen

In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dive into the importance of prioritizing overnight dates with their wives. They share how taking time away - just the two of them - helps strengthen their marriages, deepen their connection, and keep the spark alive.

Chris and Winston also explore some of their favorite spots for the perfect overnight date in Nashville and Franklin, TN, from cozy boutique hotels and hidden gem restaurants to unforgettable experiences that make for a meaningful getaway. Whether you're looking for inspiration for your next date night or just want to hear some good conversation about love, commitment, and southern hospitality, this episode is for you.

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In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris Thomas shares the story of changing the oil in his wife's car - something he hadn't done in over 30 years! He and Winston Cruze dive into the lost art of basic car maintenance, swapping stories and sharing practical tips for handling the essentials. From the must-have tools to the mindset shift that comes with taking on a hands-on task, this conversation is all about self-sufficiency, learning new (old) skills, and embracing the satisfaction of a job well done.

They also take a moment to talk about a big setback—the Southern Gentlemen YouTube channel was deleted. Yep, gone. And now, they're starting completely from scratch. Chris and Winston share what happened, what they've learned from the experience, and how you can help them rebuild.

Whether you're a seasoned DIYer or someone who's never popped the hood, this episode will inspire you to roll up your sleeves and tackle something new. Grab a glass of sweet tea (or a shop rag), and join us for a fun and insightful discussion!

🔧 Topics Covered:

• Why Chris decided to change his own oil after 30+ years
• Essential tools for basic car maintenance
• Tips for first-timers (and what NOT to do!)
• The value of learning hands-on skills in today's world
• What happened to the Southern Gentlemen YouTube channel—and how you can help us rebuild!

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In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze share the daily and weekly rituals that bring value and joy to their lives. From the perfect morning coffee routine to weekly chiropractor visits and even the best way to wash a truck, they discuss the small traditions that make a big difference. Plus, they dive into the Male Bag to answer a listener's question: What are the best trucks to buy without breaking the bank? 🚛💰

🔹 Simple rituals that add meaning to everyday life 🔹 Chris & Winston's go-to habits for well-being 🔹 Practical truck-buying advice for budget-conscious buyers

What's a ritual that makes your life better? Drop it in the comments!

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Valentine's Day is around the corner, and Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze are here to help you navigate it like a true Southern Gentleman. In this episode, they share how they approach Valentine's Day with their wives, from meaningful traditions to thoughtful gift ideas. They also cover some major Valentine's Day pitfalls - like gifts you should definitely avoid! Whether you're planning something special or need a last-minute save, this episode has you covered.

Hit play and make this Valentine's Day one to remember (for the right reasons)! And don't forget to subscribe for more episodes of Southern Gentlemen.

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In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dip their toes into the art of Everyday Carry (EDC) for the modern Southern man. From timeless tools to practical accessories, they explore the essentials every gentleman should have on hand to stay prepared and polished. What makes a true Southern gentleman's EDC unique? How can your everyday items reflect your values and style? Chris and Winston share their personal favorites, discuss how to balance functionality and tradition, and offer tips for curating your own perfect carry setup. Whether you're a seasoned EDC enthusiast or looking to elevate your daily essentials, this episode is packed with thoughtful insights and a touch of Southern charm.

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In this special episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dive into Winston's recent whirlwind trip to Washington, D.C., where he and his wife Rachel attended the Inauguration of President Trump and the exclusive Liberty Ball. Winston shares how a last-minute invitation led to a flurry of preparation, including their fashion choices for the historic events. The conversation explores everything from navigating D.C.'s vibrant food scene to the energy of the massive crowds at the Inauguration. Winston also recounts the heightened security measures and what it was like to be in the heart of such a monumental occasion. Tune in for a mix of southern charm, humor, and reflections on an unforgettable trip to the nation's capital.

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What would you tell your newlywed self if you could go back in time? Cue Huey Lewis & The News! In this heartfelt episode of Southern Gentlemen, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze reflect on their years of marriage - 23 and 15 years, respectively - and share the wisdom, lessons, and advice they wish they had known as newlyweds. From navigating challenges to cultivating deeper connections, Chris and Winston dive into the joys and struggles of building a lasting marriage. They discuss the importance of communication, the value of patience, and the simple acts of love that make all the difference. Whether you're newly married, married for 50+, years, or just looking for timeless relationship wisdom, this episode offers honest insights and plenty of Southern charm. Don't forget to subscribe to the Southern Gentlemen podcast for more inspiring conversations on thriving as a man in today's world—mind, body, and spirit. And leave us a five-star rating and review. We love hearing from y'all!

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In this episode, Chris and Winston are joined by New York Times bestselling author Stephen Mansfield for a conversation on the importance of male friendships, and why building your band of brothers is so important for the health of a man's soul. To learn more about Stephen Mansfield, visit https://stephenmansfield.tv, or connect with Stephen on Instagram at https://instagram.com/mansfieldwrites.

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In this episode, Chris and Winston comment on the talent of Eminem, recap their Christmases, discuss the value of a midnight run to Waffle House, and talk about how they approach New Year's resolutions.

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What's your favorite cocktail to sip on during the colder months?

In this episode, Chris and Winston recap a quail hunting trip they took together, then Chris tells a very interesting story about his buddy's recent vasectomy. Finally, Chris makes three of his favorite cold-weather cocktails to share with Winston. After trying them all, Winston rates each cocktail on a 1-10 scale.

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Black Manhattan Recipe: 2oz rye whiskey, 1oz Amaro, 2 dashes Angostura bitters, 2 dashes orange bitters. Stir over ice and strain into a coupe glass over an Eli Mason cocktail cherry.

Negroni Recipe: 1.5oz London dry gin, 1.5oz sweet vermouth, 1.5oz Campari, 2 dashes orange bitters. Stir over ice and strain into a rocks glass with fresh ice and an orange peel.

El Presidente Recipe: 1.5oz aged dark rum, 1.5oz sweet white vermouth, .25oz dry curacao, 1 barspoon Eli Mason grenadine, 2 dashes Angostura bitters. Stir over ice and strain into a fancy glass with an orange peel.

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