Both embracing your silence and using your voice can be sources of power, but how do you know how to tell? In this soul-stirring episode of Space To Exhale: The Podcast, Lisa sits down with the brilliant Elaine Lin Hering—facilitator, keynote speaker, and author of the must-read book Unlearning Silence. Together, they explore the delicate dance between the silence imposed on us, and the silence we intentionally claim.
They speak honestly about both the cost and the value of staying quiet, how to know when our silence is harming us, and the courage it takes to unlearn that silence and reclaim our voices—especially as women of color navigating systems that often reward our invisibility. Elaine shares how she’s rewriting her relationship with voice, agency, self-love, and boundaries—and invites us to do the same.
This is not just a conversation. It is also a mirror and a meditation. Tune in and exhale as the two kindred spirits discuss:
💚 The difference between imposed silence and chosen stillness—and why that matters.
💚 How to recognize when your silence is self-protective vs. self-erasing.
💚 Practices for tuning into the “quiet within” even when the world is loud.
💚 What it means to reclaim your voice without betraying your peace.
💚 Why unlearning silence is an act of liberation.
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👸🏽Host & Executive Producer: Lisa Hurley, author of Space To Exhale and Founder of The Great Exhale
👸🏽Guest: Elaine Lin Hering, author of Unlearning Silence (Penguin, 2024)
👸🏽Producer: Latrice Torres, CEO of LeaderKeysConsulting
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Say no to hustle culture, and yes to a life of ease. In Space To Exhale, Lisa Hurley, Anthem Award-winning activist and founder of The Great Exhale, provides you with an inspiring and practical guide to help you beat burnout, embrace rest, and live a soft, fulfilling life.
Part memoir, part manifesto, part meditation manual, Space To Exhale is a self-help book that empowers you to put your mask on first, remove your superhero cape, and create lasting life-work balance.
Lisa draws on her experience as a Reiki Master, community builder, and burnout survivor, sharing anecdotes about her trials and triumphs―as well as the tools that have helped her transform. Through healing modalities like affirmations, meditations, and breathwork, as well as her powerful Exhalation Point framework, Lisa guides you on a life-changing journey to help you:
Know Yourself: Remember who you are, align with your values, and celebrate your strengths.
Love Yourself: Practice positive self-talk, select your close circle, and prioritize rest.
Be Yourself: Show up authentically, protect your energy, and live a soft, centered, serene life.
Filled with soft-life strategies and written with Lisa’s warmth, wit, and well-earned wisdom, Space To Exhale invites you to curate a life filled with joy, peace, and glimmers of delight.
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