Sparked!

One of the bravest things you can do every day is spend a few minutes being nobody. I've been playing with this for the last couple of years, and it keeps opening up more room than I expected — room to hear myself underneath all the noise.

In this episode I talk about what it means to drop the costume of you, why nature makes it easier to let go, and why becoming nobody is actually how I keep finding my way back to everything.

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Every few months I ask myself one question for two weeks straight: What am I avoiding? I write it at the top of my journal every morning and let the answers come, gently, without judgment. In this episode I talk about why avoidance becomes a habit, why kindness is the way in, not more self-criticism, and what happens when we finally give the truth some air time. Try it for ten days and see what surfaces.

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I believe one of the greatest gifts we can give the world is to get over ourselves: to put down the backpack of stories, roles, and identities we carry every day. In this episode, I share three simple practices I use daily to loosen that grip: time in nature, rhythmic music, and grounding chores. None of it is complicated. It just takes trust.

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What's left for me to do? That question shows up in my journal almost every morning. In this episode, I share where I've landed: be the example. I walk through the three practices that keep me grounded in that: being kind, starting with how I talk to myself; being grounded, using a simple finding your feet practice to slow down; and being happy, through a real gratitude practice that shifts how I show up for everyone else.

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Most people quit meditation because they start in the wrong place, eyes closed, focused inward, fighting distraction from the first minute. In this episode, Cara shares how she actually built a daily meditation practice: not through breathwork or apps, but by anchoring her attention on ordinary things, two trees outside her porch, the silence of a drive, the process of chopping vegetables. She unpacks the real meaning of meditation (the Tibetan word gom, "to become familiar with") and offers a simple way to start your own practice today, no cushion required.

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There's something you already know about your life, and you're working hard not to look at it. The conversation you keep avoiding. The habit that's costing you. The person who no longer fits. In this episode, Cara Bradley shares the truth she spent years pretending not to know, what it cost her, and the simple practice she uses to stop looking away. It stings at first. But the lie always hurts more.

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You set your bags down right next to you and forget you're still carrying them. The old stories. The grudges. The roles you outgrew years ago. Even the wins you can't stop replaying. All of it follows you around and quietly keeps you stuck, hiding the clearer, calmer, more honest version of you that's been there the whole time.

In this one I walk through the four steps I use to start putting the baggage down:

Be willing to face it

Name it, out loud or on paper

Commit to yourself to let it go

Stay vigilant, and stay kind while you do it

You don't have to empty the whole suitcase today. Name one thing you've been carrying, and start there.

Watch my last video - They Feel Your Energy Before You Say Hello - https://youtu.be/XoD2HxM3U3E

New Sparks twice a week.

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Before you say hello, people already feel your energy. Your speed, your stress, your mood, your openness. They read all of it, with strangers in traffic and with the people you love most at home.

So here's what to do before you speak: check your state, and shift it.

In this episode, Cara talks about becoming aware of how you're showing up and learning to change it on purpose, so you walk into any room as the person you want to be. She shares the quick, common sense resets she's used for almost 30 years as a yoga teacher: stillness, breath, nature, music, cold water. Small interrupts that re-regulate your nervous system in seconds.

Check in. Shift what needs shifting. Show up strong, calm, and clear.

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You don't have to live in the crazy busy state. In this Spark, you'll learn why busyness is a state of mind, not a fact of your schedule, and what it's actually costing you in your health, your relationships, and your attention.

You'll meet "busy me," the speedy, scattered version of you that knocks things over and talks too fast, and "best me," the grounded, clear version that gets just as much done. Then you'll get simple mini wins you can use today to shift states: stop, notice, take five breaths, get outside for two minutes.

If you don't choose your state, the world will choose it for you.

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Four words carved into a cobblestone stopped me decades ago and I've never forgotten them. It goes by fast. Someone chose not to put their name on that stone. They used it to remind us. This episode is me passing that on to you.

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