Speaking Life Into Motherhood ~ Rhythms, Child Development, Homeschool, Special Needs, Speech Delay, Systems, Autism, ADHD, Neurodiversity, Disabilities

Speaking Life Into Motherhood ~ Rhythms, Child Development, Homeschool, Special Needs, Speech Delay, Systems, Autism, ADHD, Neurodiversity, Disabilities

By Elyse Scheeler MS CCC-SLP, Special Needs & Homeschool Strategy Coach, AdvocateReligion & SpiritualityChristianityEducationSelf-ImprovementParentingKids & Family
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Speaking Life Into Motherhood ~ Rhythms, Child Development, Homeschool, Special Needs, Speech Delay, Systems, Autism, ADHD, Neurodiversity, Disabilities episodes

  • 47// What 10 Months of Saying "Not Me, Lord" Taught Me About Motherhood

    Are you wondering if any of what you're doing is actually working? 

    Do you ever feel like you're just barely surviving instead of thriving? 

    What if the seeds you're planting are growing even when you can't see them yet?

    In this special episode, I get ready to celebrate ONE YEAR of Speaking Life Into Motherhood and share the story of how a "zinger from the Lord" in the shower led to 10 months of arguing with God before finally saying yes. I offers a pep talk reminding you that progress doesn't always look like progress—and that YOU are exactly who God chose for this motherhood journey.

    Plus, exciting announcements: the podcast is moving to TWO episodes per week, and you can enter to win a FREE 1:1 coaching session just by leaving a review this week! (Review the podcast and share a screenshot of it prior to 2/1/26 to be enteres)


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    10 min
  • 46// When You Know Something's Wrong But Don't Know Where to Start

    Are you stuck in analysis paralysis?

    How many tabs do you have open right now researching your child's symptoms? How many times have you Googled "is this normal?" this week? If you're nodding your head—if you KNOW something's off but don't know where to start—this episode is for you.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why exhausted moms don't need more information (they need clarity)
    • My story of fighting for answers when providers dismissed my concerns about my son's sleep
    • The 3-step CLARITY Framework you can use RIGHT NOW to get unstuck
    • How to know if the Priority Plan Clarity Coaching is right for you

    The CLARITY Framework:

    1. Collect the Data - Write down all symptoms, what you've tried, and your gut instinct
    2. Look for the Patterns - What keeps showing up? What's impacting daily life most? What's your gut screaming about?
    3. Commit to One Next Step - Choose ONE thing to move forward (not five, not ten—just one)

    Announcing: The Priority Plan Clarity Coaching

    60-minute one-on-one session where we systematically walk through your child's needs and create a personalized action plan—so you finally know what to do first.

    What's Included: ✅ Pre-session detailed questionnaire
    ✅ 60-minute strategic clarity call
    ✅ Written Priority Plan with specific next steps
    ✅ Provider scripts and advocacy tools
    ✅ 2 weeks of Voxer support

    Special Pricing for Podcast Listeners:

    • Normally $197, now $147
    • Limited spots available

    Enroll now: speakinglife.co/clarity


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    18 min
  • 45// Stop Playing Whack-a-Mole With Your Life: The ADHD Mom's 3-Step Planning System

    Are you exhausted from carrying every worry about your child AND every household task in your head at the same time? 

    Do you feel like you can only get one area of your life under control while everything else falls apart? 

    What if there was a system designed for the way YOUR brain actually works?

    In this episode, I share the Brain Dump, Batch, and Breathe method—a 3-step planning system specifically for moms carrying the mental load of advocating for their children on top of running a household.

    In This Episode You'll Learn:

    • Why traditional planners and productivity systems don't work for moms like us
    • The brain dump technique and how to get all your worries and tasks out of your head in just 10 minutes
    • How to batch your tasks (including separating advocacy tasks from everyday admin)
    • Why building in "breathe" time is the step everyone skips—and why it's the most important
    • How to give yourself grace when your plans fall apart

    Scripture Referenced:

    • Proverbs 3:5-6
    • Matthew 11:28-30

    Resources Mentioned:

    • FREE PEACE Framework: speakinglife.co/peace
    • Coaching program information releasing next week—email subscribers get first access!


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    22 min
  • 44// You're Not Crazy, Mama: Trusting Your Gut (and God) When Providers Won't Listen

    Are you drowning in research about your child's needs but still don't know where to start? Do providers keep dismissing your concerns when your mama gut is screaming that something's wrong?

    In this episode, I'm taking you back to one of the hardest seasons of my life—when my son wasn't sleeping through the night at 18 months old, and every provider told me to just get him a clock. I knew something was wrong. I knew he was stopping breathing at night. But no one would listen.

    After months of dead-end appointments and countless dollars spent, I finally found the answer: an airway-specializing dentist who confirmed everything I'd been saying—enlarged adenoids, tongue tie, and airway issues.

    Today, I'm sharing what that year taught me about trusting your gut, collecting data, and finding God's voice in the chaos. Plus, I'm giving you two simple reflection exercises to help you see patterns in your child's struggles and move forward with clarity instead of overwhelm.

    If you're stuck wondering "what do I do next?" this episode will meet you right where you are.

    Exciting news: I'm reopening my Special Needs Strategy Session coaching with exclusive New Year offers! This is a 60-minute personalized clarity call where we'll look at YOUR child's symptoms, YOUR capacity, and YOUR resources—and create a clear action plan so you know exactly what to do first. Spots are very  limited and email subscribers get first access. Head to www.speakinglife.co/peace to grab my free PEACE Framework and be the first to know when coaching opens!

    In this episode:

    • Why your mama gut knows something the experts don't
    • The two simple exercises to reflect on last year without regret
    • How to collect basic data about your child's symptoms
    • Finding gratitude and God's voice in the hardest seasons
    • Why you don't have to figure out the next steps alone

    Resources mentioned:

    • Free PEACE Framework: www.speakinglife.co/peace
    • Join the Facebook group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support

    Scripture: Lamentations 3:22-23


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    15 min
  • 43// Overwhelmed This Christmas? The Prince of Peace Came for the Chaos | Christian Motherhood

    Feeling overwhelmed in the beautiful, messy middle of the holidays? Need permission to breathe? Struggling with complicated feelings instead of picture-perfect joy?

    This short holiday episode is a gentle reminder that the Prince of Peace came to us in the chaos—not in perfection. I share permission to slow down, reflect, and rest as we close out 2025, and invites you to join an upcoming online gathering to work on your "motherhood business plan" for 2026 together.

    In This Episode:

    • Permission to have an imperfect holiday season
    • Remembering the real peace and joy Jesus brought us
    • How to slow down and reflect between Christmas and New Year's
    • Invitation to join our online 2026 Planning gathering

    Next Steps:

    • Join the Facebook Community for details on our upcoming online chat:
      • Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Sign up for emails at www.speakinglife.co/peace to get notified
    • Start your "Done List" and "What's Not Working" list

    Motherhood Business Plan Meet Ups!

    • In person 12/30/2025 11:00am Racine, WI - https://www.facebook.com/events/832366469627729
    • Virtual 1/2/2026 10:00am CST - https://www.facebook.com/share/1ATzfny1nn/


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    12 min
  • 42// From Chaos to Peace: Business Systems Every Special Needs Mom Needs | Energy for Exhausted Moms

    Are you drowning in chaos while managing work systems that actually function? What if the bedtime battles and morning meltdowns aren't about your kids—but about missing the same systems you'd never tolerate at work?

     What would change if you treated your home with the same intentionality you give your business?

    In this episode, I share my own journey from drowning in chaos (both at work and home) to discovering that simple, imperfect systems can create actual peace. I'm walking you through the exact five-step process to turn 2026 into your breakthrough year—not by adding more to your plate, but by bringing business-minded intentionality to the family that matters most.

    This isn't about perfection. It's about finally moving from survival mode to thriving through systems that actually work for exhausted moms managing therapies, IEPs, and all the additional needs your family requires.

    In This Episode:

    • The two lists that will change how you see 2025 (and set you up for 2026 success)
    • How to identify your 3-5 non-negotiables (because when everything is important, nothing gets done)
    • Creating 5-step systems that remove decision fatigue from your daily routines
    • Why planning in quarters instead of years prevents February burnout
    • The 30-minute monthly CEO appointment that keeps you thriving instead of surviving

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Download the FREE PEACE Framework at www.speakinglife.co/peace - your guide to making big parenting decisions with confidence instead of paralysis


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    18 min
  • 41// Anxious & Exhausted? 3 Five-Minute Ways Frankincense Can Help

    Are you curious about frankincense but not sure how to actually use it? In this episode, we're exploring the ancient oil that was precious enough to be gifted to baby Jesus—and discovering why modern science is now backing up what people have known for thousands of years.

    We'll dig into the biblical significance of frankincense (hint: it was a declaration of divinity, not just a fancy gift), plus the exciting research coming out about this powerful oil. From a Johns Hopkins study on anxiety relief to clinical trials on inflammation and even early cancer research, you'll walk away understanding why frankincense deserves a spot in your daily routine.

    But here's the best part—I'm giving you three practical strategies that take five minutes or less. No extra time required. These are ways to sneak frankincense into what you're already doing, whether it's your morning skincare routine, waiting in the pick-up line, or needing a quick reset in a stressful moment. Plus, I'm sharing my favorite calming roller recipe that you can take everywhere with you.

    If frankincense has been sitting unused in your cabinet—or you've been thinking about trying it—this episode is for you.


    Get Frankincense (and Adaptiv!) FREE this month with a $200 PV order! my.doterra.com/speakinglife

    Already a doTERRA member? Just order through your account!


    Wellness Wednesday Oils of the Bible on Zoom: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82494518470


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    13 min
  • 40 Dance Parties & Letting Go: An Anxious Mom's Guide to Surviving Special Needs Parenting

    Are you lying awake at night wondering if you're doing enough for your kids? Do you feel like you're constantly comparing your child's development to others? What if peace isn't found in perfection, but in presence?

    In this episode, I sit down with Jessica Schoettle, author of The Anxious Parent and mama of four (with a 20-year age gap between her oldest and youngest!). Jessica shares her incredible journey from young mom to daycare owner to foster parent, and how losing a foster son after three and a half years led her to writing as healing. We talk practical strategies for managing parental anxiety, why dance parties might be your secret weapon, and how to stop expecting perfection from yourself and your kids—especially during the holidays.

    Connect with Jessica:

    • Facebook: Jessica Schoettle Books
    • Website: jessica-schoettle.weebly.com
    • Books available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Goodreads

    Resources Mentioned:

    • The Anxious Parent by Jessica Schoettle
    • The Family Blueprint by Jessica Schoettle

    Ready to make confident decisions for your child? Download the free PEACE Framework at www.speakinglife.co/peace


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    25 min
  • 39 Gratitude When Motherhood Feels Impossible: Why Obedience Matters More Than Outcomes

    Are you grateful—or just exhausted? 

    Can you find thankfulness when motherhood feels impossible? 

    What would change if you gave yourself permission to celebrate small obedience instead of demanding perfection?

    In this Thanksgiving special, I'm sharing my heart about finding real, honest gratitude even when life feels overwhelming. I reflect on my the last year from autoimmune flares and job misery to launching this podcast and building a community of mothers who refuse to settle for survival mode. This short episode reminds you that obedience leads to purpose, self-care is stewardship, and you're doing better than you think.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Download my FREE PEACE Framework at www.speakinglife.co/peace


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    9 min
  • 38 Surviving the Holidays with a Neurodivergent Child: A Plan For Peace and Connection
    • Why are we always surprised when the holidays arrive—and when our kids (and us!) aren't at our best?
    • How can you protect your child's nervous system when literally everything about their routine is changing?

    Children who thrive on rhythms and routines can't suddenly keep it together when everything changes. In this episode, you'll learn practical strategies for transitioning to holiday rhythms, protecting your child's sensory needs, preparing for meltdowns, and navigating food challenges. Most importantly, you'll receive permission to do the holidays differently in a way that honors your family's values and preserves everyone's nervous system.

    IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN:*

    • Why our neurodivergent kids aren't being difficult—they're having difficulty when their entire world feels out of control

    • How to transition your rhythms BEFORE the chaos hits (your child's nervous system needs a runway, not a cliff)

    • The power of "sensory deposits"—heavy work and regulation strategies to use before and during holiday events

    • Why you need an exit strategy and code word with your spouse for when it's time to leave

    • How to handle the food dilemma without compromising your values or spending weeks dealing with the aftermath

    • The crucial strategy nobody talks about: building in recovery time after the holidays

    • What Scripture teaches us about carrying burdens Jesus never asked us to carry

    • Why protecting your child's needs isn't selfish—it's stewardship of what God has given you



    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    20 min

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