Speaking Life Into Motherhood ~ Rhythms, Child Development, Homeschool, Special Needs, Speech Delay, Systems, Autism, ADHD, Neurodiversity, Disabilities

Speaking Life Into Motherhood ~ Rhythms, Child Development, Homeschool, Special Needs, Speech Delay, Systems, Autism, ADHD, Neurodiversity, Disabilities

By Elyse Scheeler MS CCC-SLP, Special Needs & Homeschool Strategy Coach, AdvocateReligion & SpiritualityChristianityEducationSelf-ImprovementParentingKids & Family
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Speaking Life Into Motherhood ~ Rhythms, Child Development, Homeschool, Special Needs, Speech Delay, Systems, Autism, ADHD, Neurodiversity, Disabilities episodes

  • 27 Lost Your Identity in Special Needs Motherhood? How to Find Your Spark Again with Aubree Felderhoff of Mom Intentional

    Do you feel so buried under the responsibilities of motherhood that you've lost touch with who you are?

    Are you constantly dropping the ball and feeling like you can't keep up, no matter how hard you try?


    Episode Overview

    Aubree Felderhoff, SPARK coach for moms and host of the top-ranked Mom Intentional podcast, shares her incredible journey from a seven-year battle with mystery illness to helping overwhelmed moms rediscover their identity. After being bedridden and completely disconnected from herself, Aubree faced a hard truth: she had spent so long taking care of everyone else, she no longer recognized herself. Her story of surrender, miraculous healing, and rebuilding will encourage every mom who feels lost in the chaos of daily life.


    About Our Guest

    Aubree Felderhoff is a spark coach for moms, mother of three spirited boys, and host of the Mom Intentional podcast. Through her coaching, she helps overwhelmed moms move from burnout to purpose, so they can stop running on empty and finally feel alive again. As she says, "You're not broken, you're buried. Let's uncover you."


    Scripture Foundation

    "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." - Proverbs 3:5-6


    Resources Mentioned

    • Time estimation strategy for to-do lists
    • Portable folder system for managing paperwork on-the-go
    • The SPARK method coaching program


    Connect with Aubree

    • Website: www.momintentional.com
    • Podcast: Mom Intentional
    • Instagram: @momintentional
    • Free Facebook group (linked on website)
    • Find Your Spark coaching program: momintentional.com/coaching


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    30 min
  • 26 Overwhelmed & Over Stimulated By Summer Meltdowns? This Hack Can Save your Summer Routine As A Special Needs Family

    Does the lack of summer structure leave you feeling overwhelmed and your child struggling with transitions?

    Are you tired of repeating the same directions over and over while your child seems to tune you out?

    Summer can feel chaotic when familiar routines disappear. In this episode, Elyse shares three game-changing ways to use visual supports in your home that will help reduce stress, improve communication, and bring calm to your daily rhythms. Drawing from her experience as a speech-language pathologist and mom, she provides practical strategies that work for children with and without special needs.

    "Write the vision and make it plain on tablets, that he may run who reads it." - Habakkuk 2:2


    Resources Mentioned

    • Homeschool rhythms and visual schedules- FREE Download
    • Calm-down poster - FREE Download
    • Free 15-minute coaching call with Elyse

    Remember: Visual supports aren't just strategies—they're acts of love that show your child you see their needs and want to help them succeed.



    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    15 min
  • 25 Stuttering in Children: Why You Shouldn't Wait and See (Christian Mom's Guide)

    Are you wondering if your child's speech disfluencies are normal or something to be concerned about?

    Do you feel like your doctor keeps telling you to "wait and see" while your mama heart is telling you to seek help now?

    Are you struggling to know how to support your older child who continues to stutter despite receiving speech therapy?

    In this encouraging episode, I sit down with Briann Morbitzer (Ms. Bri), a speech-language pathologist who specializes in stuttering therapy for all ages. As a mama of four little ones under four and owner of Superior Speech Therapy in St. Paul, Minnesota, Briann brings both professional expertise and heart-centered wisdom to our conversation about supporting children who stutter.

    We dive deep into early warning signs, when to seek help (spoiler: don't wait!), and holistic approaches that support the whole child - including sensory regulation, sleep, and even the spiritual aspects of being present with our children in their difficult moments.


    Connect with Briann:

    • Superior Speech Therapy - St. Paul, Minnesota
    • Services: In-home and virtual stuttering therapy for all ages
    • Free consultations available - Call for parent coaching and guidance
    • Minneapolis St. Paul Stuttering Group - Adult conversation group (not therapy)


    Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

    • Sensory integration occupational therapy
    • Craniosacral therapy
    • Chiropractic care
    • Hippotherapy (equine therapy)
    • Mindful breathing techniques
    • Myofunctional therapy and tethered oral tissue evaluation
    • Natural allergy management (saline sprays)
    • Sleep hygiene importance


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    33 min
  • 24 Against All Odds: How One Micro Preemie Survivor Found Her God-Given Purpose
    • Are you sitting in the NICU wondering if your micro preemie will not just survive, but actually thrive and live independently?
    • Do you have an older child with special needs struggling to find their purpose?
    • Have medical professionals told you to "prepare for the worst" and you're searching for hope that God's plans are bigger?

    Episode Overview: Meet Bethany Bacon who defied every medical prediction when she was born at just 24.5 weeks in 1983 after her mother endured 14 miscarriages. Today, Bethany is a thriving, independent adult who runs her own purpose coaching business. Her story is a powerful reminder that God makes no mistakes and every life has divine purpose.

    Key Takeaways:

    • "God chooses and He doesn't make mistakes. He makes no mistakes at all whatsoever."
    • Every person is created with a divine purpose, regardless of their birth story
    • Don't give up, no matter how hard it gets
    • Medical predictions don't determine God's plans for your child's life

    Connect with Bethany Bacon:

    • Website: Created-In-His-Image.com
    • 12-week coaching program and condensed course available



    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    18 min
  • 23 Summer Burnout Is Killing Your Energy: 5 Strategies Exhausted Special Needs Moms Need Now

    Does summer feel overwhelming when the structure of school disappears and you're suddenly trying to keep everyone happy and regulated for three whole months? 

    Are you struggling to find the balance between maintaining some routine while still allowing for the flexibility and fun that summer should bring? 

    Do you find yourself depleted and reactive because you're focusing so much on your child's needs that you forget to nourish yourself?


    Episode Overview

    In this episode, I share five practical strategies that you can implement right away to not only support your special needs child but also care for yourself during the summer season. From creating flexible rhythms and natural wellness approaches to building your support network and prioritizing rest, these tips will help you move from surviving to thriving this summer. Because when mama is thriving, the whole family benefits.


    What You'll Learn in This Episode

    • How to create flexible "anchor points" throughout your day that provide structure without feeling rigid
    • Natural wellness approaches including essential oils, nutrition, and detox baths that support your family's regulation
    • The importance of building and maintaining your summer support network
    • Practical tips for preparing sensory survival kits for outings
    • Why intentional rest is biblical and essential for your family's wellbeing
    • How proper nutrition for mom directly impacts your patience and ability to connect with your children

    Resources Mentioned

    • Visual schedules for daily rhythms
    • doTERRA essential oils (Adaptiv, Lavender, Peppermint, Frankincense, Serenity)
    • doTERRA VMG supplements for mom's nutrition
    • Magnesium supplements and homemade magnesium lotion
    • Epsom salt and magnesium flakes for detox baths
    • Episode 22 with Debbie Simmons on staying calm as parents


    Scripture References

    • Proverbs 27:17 - "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."
    • Mark 6:31 - Jesus said to his disciples, "Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest."


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    16 min
  • 22 Trauma-Informed Parenting: How to Move from Triggered to Thriving Using Faith-Based Strategies For Special Needs Parents

    How do you respond when your child is having a meltdown and you feel yourself getting triggered? Do you find yourself asking "Why?" or do you shift to asking "How do I survive this moment?"

    When you're in your "shark waters" - those moments when your own past wounds get activated by your child's behavior - what physical sensations do you notice in your body?

    Are you more focused on correcting your child's behavior or connecting with their heart? How might shifting this focus change your family dynamics?


    In this powerful conversation, Debbie Simmons shares her journey from devastating loss to purposeful legacy-building. After losing quadruplets and walking through infertility struggles, Debbie discovered life-changing questions that transformed how she navigates challenges. Now a mother of nine through adoption and founder of AnchorPoint ministry, she teaches the revolutionary "BEST" strategy that helps families move from survival to thriving, especially when dealing with trauma and special needs.


    Connect with Debbie:

    • AnchorPoint Ministry: anchorpoint.us (Check out Pathway to Hope Camps under Events)
    • Personal Website: thedebbiesimmons.com
    • Book: The Heart of Legacy
    • Download: FREE BEST Strategy tools available on her website


    Resources Mentioned:

    • Trust-Based Relational Intervention (Dr. Karen Purvis, TCU)
    • Pathway to Hope Therapeutic Camps
    • The BEST Strategy (Breathe, Evaluate, Step back, Take action)
    • AnchorPoint Ministry - faith-based nonprofit supporting families in crisis


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    42 min
  • 21 Developmental Milestone Regret: How to Find Peace When You Feel Like You Failed Your Special Needs Child

    Have you ever thought "If only I had known sooner" about your child's needs?

    Do you struggle with guilt over past decisions made before you had all the information?

    Are you worried that early unaddressed issues like tongue ties are affecting your child's sleep, breathing, or attention now?

    In this short solo episode, we tackle the heavy burden of "mom guilt" - specifically the pain of realizing your child needed interventions earlier than they received them. Drawing from personal experience with my son's undiagnosed tongue tie and its ongoing effects on his breathing, sleep, and potential ADHD risk, I share how to transform backward-looking guilt into forward-moving purpose.

    Action Steps to Address Mom Guilt:

    1. Practice Compassionate Self-Talk

    2. Transform Regret into Advocacy

    3. Focus on "Now What?" Instead of "What If?"

    4. Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection

    5. Find Community That Gets It


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    13 min
  • 20 Stop Losing Your Mind in the Chaos: Energy-Saving Connection Tools for Overwhelmed Christian Special Needs Moms
    • Are you struggling to connect with your uniquely wired child?
    • Do you feel exhausted trying strategies that don't seem to work?
    • Would you like practical, faith-aligned tools to better understand and advocate for your child?

    In this episode, I welcome back my friend Jamie Kirkbride to discuss how parents can better understand, connect with, and advocate for their uniquely wired children. Jamie shares invaluable insights about meeting children where they are, understanding their emotional needs, and fostering stronger connections. Whether your child has special needs, is highly sensitive, or emotionally intense, Jamie's practical strategies can help transform your parenting approach.

    Jamie is a speaker, author, licensed counselor, parenting coach, and host of the Calm Connection parenting podcast. As a mother of seven, she brings both professional expertise and personal experience to her work helping families build calm, confident connections that last.

    Connect with Jamie:

    • Website: parentingwithpersonality.com
    • Coaching Program: calmconnectionparent.com
    • Free Calm Connection Parenting Summit: calmconnectionparent.com/summit

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Calm Connection Parenting Summit (FREE) - featuring 16 parenting experts
    • The You Zoo- children's personality tool (https://www.amazon.com/You-Zoo-Jami-Kirkbride/dp/0983548102)
    • Calm Connection Parenting Coaching Program

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Seek clarity about your child's wiring - Understand their personality, sensory needs, and emotional requirements
    2. Use empathy as your most powerful tool - A child won't move from where they are until they know you understand them
    3. Advocate effectively - Once you understand your child, help others understand them too
    4. The power of the pause - Sometimes the most effective response is silence and listening

    Note: The Calm Connection Parenting Summit is available for free during the week of the event. Recordings can be purchased for $37 for lifetime access, including transcripts, session summaries, and bonus materials.

    *I'm not associated at all with this summit.*


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    29 min
  • 19 The Mother's Day Depression No One Talks About: Finding Joy When You're Just Surviving
    • Do you struggle with disappointment when your Mother's Day doesn't match the picture-perfect celebrations on social media?
    • Have you found yourself navigating the gap between your expectations of motherhood and your actual journey parenting a child with special needs?
    • Are you looking for ways to find genuine joy and peace in the beautiful, messy reality of your unique motherhood experience?

    In this episode, we explore how to embrace Mother's Day with realistic expectations, authentic joy, and deep peace as Christian moms of children with special needs. We'll discuss how God's grace meets us in our disappointments and how we can reframe our perspective to celebrate the beautiful journey we're on, even when it looks different than we expected.



    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    12 min
  • 18 The Medication Alternative Your Doctor Won't Tell You About: Amino Acid Therapy for Christian Families to address ADHD, Autism, & Anxiety

    Is your brain constantly on fire? 

    Do you feel depleted trying to manage your child's needs while neglecting your own?

     Are you interested in natural approaches to help both you and your special needs child find calm?

    Does your child have and ADHD, Autism, or other diagnosis? Are you unhappy with what traditional therapies are offering? This episode brings info for a holistic approach you probably haven't heard of. 

    In this transformative conversation with Laurie Hammer, functional nutritional therapist and neuro nutrient specialist, we explore how amino acid therapy can literally change your brain chemistry and help you find the calm you've been missing as a special needs mom.

    Connect with Laurie:

    • Podcast: Take Back My Brain (YouTube, Apple, Spotify
    • Website: https://www.lauriehammer.com
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecalmmomcommunity/
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/takebackmybrain


    While you're here, please leave a quick rating or review! I pray this episode blesses you! Remember, you don't just have to survive mama- you can thrive!

    Connect with the host: Elyse Scheeler

    • Subscribe: Speaking Life Into Motherhood
    • Website: www.speakinglife.co/motherhood
    • Email: [email protected]
    • Facebook Group: Christian Special Needs Moms: Simple Systems, Energy & Natural Support
    • Email Newsletter: https://speakinglife.co/subscribe/
    • Foundational Wellness Bundle + Freebies! https://link.doterra.com/VfA_h5
    • Speaking Life Into Homeschool Group Coaching Program: http://www.speakinglife.co/homeschoolplan

    Disclaimer
    The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guests and hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Speaking Life Into Motherhood. None of the advice or discussion on the podcast is medical advice. Always consult with your medical provider before using any supplements, essential oils, or therapy methods. 

    30 min

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