Rev. Patrick shares an excellent affirmative prayer: **If it is right, make it
easy. If it is wrong, make it obvious.** As we learn things intellectually and
speak to Source, we must open up to the deeper Love, and learn to love
ourselves. The beautiful and profound wisdom of John O'Donohue's book _[Anam
Cara](http://www.johnodonohue.com/books)_---which means "soul friend"---
reminds us of deep truths about love.
Excerpts from _Anam Cara_:
"You can never love another person unless you are equally involved in the
beautiful but difficult work of learning to love yourself."
"When love awakens in your life in the night of your heart, it is like the
dawn breaking within you. Where before there was anonymity, now there is
intimacy. Where before there was fear, now there is courage. Where before in
your life there was awkwardness, now there is a rhythm and grace. Where before
you used to be jagged, now you are elegant and in rhythm with yourself. When
love awakens in your life, it is like a rebirth, a new beginning."