Fear doesn’t exist in the present moment — it lives in memory and anticipation. In this episode, I break down how time itself functions as a control structure in the Matrix, and why fear needs past and future to survive. When you’re pulled out of presence, fear gains leverage. When you stay here, it loses its grip.

We explore how nervous system regulation isn’t about avoiding fear or calming yourself down, but about staying present inside activation. Presence stabilizes the nervous system, and a regulated nervous system dissolves fear — not by suppressing it, but by removing the time-based stories that keep it alive. This isn’t about bypassing reality. It’s about learning how to remain present so fear has nowhere left to operate.

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It's the portal of awakening 1.11.

For years we’ve been told Earth is a “school.” That suffering is growth. That reincarnation is just part of the lesson plan.

But what if that story only works if you don’t know there’s another option?

In this episode, I unpack why—after years of research, direct astral experiences, and channeled insight that *predated* my exposure to Gnosticism—I no longer see Earth as a classroom, or reincarnation as an automatic loop we’re meant to accept.

We’ll talk about:

* What **gnosis** actually is (and why it’s not belief)

* The Gnostic and Eastern view of **samsara**—and why it only functions as a trap when there’s ignorance

* How reincarnation keeps consciousness cycling *until* recognition occurs

* Why distraction, emotional overwhelm, and identity fixation keep people from seeing the “door”

* How awakening doesn’t break the system—it reveals the exit

* And why “New Earth” may not be new at all, but simply reality without the veil.

This isn’t about fear.

It’s about awareness.

And awareness changes everything.

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2025 wasn’t a punishment year — it was a preparation year.
In this episode of Spiritual Shit, I break down why so many people felt cracked open, exhausted, and stripped of old identities in 2025 — and why that breakdown was necessary for what comes next.

This year forced a shedding: people-pleasing, fear of being judged, silencing yourself to belong, and waiting for permission to speak. Not because you were doing it wrong — but because the version of you that hides can’t carry the light you’re meant to bring forward.

We talk about:

• Why fear of being seen is the biggest block to intuition

• How your external voice and inner voice are directly connected

• Why intuition doesn’t get louder when you think more — but when you express more

• How losing approval rewires self-trust

• Why the people who struggled most in 2025 are often the ones meant to lead, create, speak, and illuminate next

This episode is for anyone who feels like they’ve stopped caring what others think — not because they’re numb, but because something truer is finally emerging.

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🎙️ Are you tired of attracting narcissists and emotional vampires who drain your energy and distort your sense of self? Use and abuse your kindness and leave you feeling drained and rejected? This podcast pulls back the curtain on the “Chosen Myth” — the false belief that being endlessly empathetic, forgiving, or spiritually evolved somehow will get you the love you desire, but instead makes you a magnet for broken people. Spoiler: it’s not divine selection; it’s conditioning.

Hosted by Alea Lovely, spiritual teacher and author of Meaningful Manifestation, this series breaks down the energetic and psychological patterns that keep you locked in these cycles. This episode unpacks how narcissists and adjacent types sense and exploit emotional gaps — and how you can close them by reclaiming your boundaries, your intuition, and your power.

Raw. Insightful. Liberating. This isn’t about blaming or shaming — it’s about waking up. It’s time to stop being the chosen one for chaos and start being the chooser of peace.

Find this workshop ( November 8th + 15th 1:00pm CST Replay available ) at thelovelyalea.com/workshop

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What if life isn’t a cosmic classroom full of tests, but a multidimensional game of vibration, resonance, and self-mastery? In this episode of Spiritual Shit we flip the old “Earth school” narrative on its head and explore a radical new paradigm: you’re not here to pass exams or prove your worth — you’re here to play with frequency. We’ll break down how the universe mirrors your energetic broadcast, why recurring “life lessons” are really vibrational echoes, and how to stop living like you’re being graded. If you’ve ever felt stuck in endless karmic cycles, wondering why the same struggles repeat, this conversation reframes the entire journey into one of conscious choice and freedom.

Together we’ll unpack the myth of worthiness tests, the Hermetic Principle of Vibration, and how to re-author your personal frequency so you can level up — or level out — by design. Expect practical tools like story audits, somatic release, boundary setting, and frequency casting to shift your reality without waiting for “graduation day.” We’ll also explore relationships as resonance fields, energy dynamics that drain creatives and empaths, and how to step out of the old matrix rules to create a life driven by self-sovereignty. Perfect for seekers, spiritual entrepreneurs, and anyone ready to stop proving and start playing the game of life on their own terms.

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In this episode, Intuition vs. Proof: Why We Struggle to Trust Ourselves, we explore why intuition can’t—and shouldn’t—be forced into the realm of proof. Intuition isn’t a genie that delivers evidence on demand; it’s a language of resonance, guidance, and embodied truth. When we pressure it to “perform” under the rules of science and logic, it goes quiet.

We’ll uncover the deeper roots of this struggle: how colonization dismissed indigenous and earth-based ways of knowing, how patriarchy suppressed embodied and intuitive wisdom, and how the modern obsession with data and evidence narrowed our definition of truth. Along the way, you’ll learn why so many of us second-guess ourselves, outsource decisions, and feel shame when we can’t “prove” our inner voice.

This conversation is a call to shift from proof-based living to trust-based living—where intuition guides and evidence follows in its own time. By reclaiming intuition as your birthright, you can step into greater freedom, authenticity, and alignment, and remember what your soul has known all along: proof always follows intuition, but it never leads.

This lesson was first shared inside Love Society, my private spiritual community where we explore intuition, healing, and soul growth together every month. If you’ve been curious about joining, now’s the perfect time—you can get half off your first month with the code HALFOFF at hellolovesociety.com. And if you’re ready to go even deeper, I’ve just launched a brand-new coaching program all about developing your intuition, designed to help you move from doubt to clarity and truly hear your inner voice. You can learn more and apply at thelovelyalea.com/coaching.

In this soul-deep episode, we explore the difference between the pain event and the pain story—the narrative we carry long after the moment has passed. Through spiritual insight and reflective prompts, you’ll learn how to identify the looping beliefs keeping you stuck, uncover the hidden emotional payoffs, and begin the process of releasing the story so your energy can flow freely again. This is an invitation to step out of survival mode and reclaim your wholeness, one truth at a time. Please share this episode with anyone you believe it can help.

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“We need to be witnessed to know we exist — it’s not vanity, it’s survival.”

In this deeply resonant episode, we explore one of the most overlooked but soul-wounding experiences: the pain of feeling unseen. From the emotional toll it takes on our mental health to the spiritual void it creates, Alia dives into why the soul longs to be witnessed and how our relationships, upbringing, and society often fail to meet that need.

We unpack the psychological and spiritual consequences of invisibility — including chronic loneliness, suppressed authenticity, and relational breakdown — backed by research showing how this experience impacts depression, anxiety, and even suicidal ideation. You’ll hear about the societal forces that push us to mask our true selves and how patriarchal norms often exacerbate this pain.

Then, we journey into the sacred practice of witnessing — why being seen is a spiritual act, how ancient wisdom traditions honor this need, and what it means to live in full expression. Alia shares personal stories, practical tools for reclaiming your visibility, and examples of people who’ve courageously allowed themselves to be seen — and found liberation on the other side.

🧠 You’ll Learn:

• Why feeling unseen is a spiritual and emotional injury
• How to recognize the hidden cost of masking yourself
• Techniques to embrace vulnerability and authenticity
• How witnessing others can become a form of healing magic

✨ Whether you’ve felt invisible in love, family, or society — this episode will help you name that wound, tend to it, and begin the process of reemergence.

🔮 Plus: A special invitation to book a personalized astrology reading — use code ASTRO for 40% off. Please share this episode .

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What if the most meaningful relationship of your life wasn’t romantic—but platonic? In this powerful conversation, we dive deep into the evolving landscape of love, partnership, and emotional intimacy with the magnetic Karam Nwilati—better known online as Karam in the World.

Karam is a Syrian-Canadian adventure filmmaker, photographer, and soulful storyteller whose life has been anything but conventional. Born in France, raised in Syria, and now based in Berlin by way of Montreal, Karam has captured the hearts of thousands with his breathtaking visual content and heartfelt narratives shared across platforms like Instagram and TikTok. His work, often a love letter to nature and human connection, explores what it means to truly live and belong.

In this episode, Karam opens up about the transformative journey of choosing a platonic life partner—a decision that challenges societal norms and redefines how we value companionship. Together, we explore themes of emotional safety, chosen family, and the beauty of creating a life built on shared values rather than romantic convention.

Whether you're seeking new ways to experience love, questioning the traditional relationship escalator, or simply yearning for deeper connection, this episode will leave you inspired to reimagine what partnership can look like.

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What if the world you see isn’t real—but a carefully crafted illusion designed to keep you distracted, disconnected, and disempowered? In this episode, we dive deep into the Cult(ure) Trap—how society systematically conditions us out of empathy, turns us into consumers instead of creators, and uses money as a type of spiritual enslavement.

Through a powerful channeled message from Erasmus, we uncover the hidden forces behind this grand deception and explore how to break free from the energetic grip of greed, fear, and manipulation. How do we reclaim our sovereignty? How do we shift from programmed survival mode to true abundance and soul-led living?

It’s time to unplug from the matrix of money and control, awaken to the truth, and step fully into your divine power. Are you ready? Let’s rise.

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