At the start, divorce can feels like a win/lose situation. Without a full understanding of all the legal terminology, separated parents can quickly find themselves battling over what they perceive to be the ultimate divorce trophy: custody. Whether or not this example speaks to your situation, many points outside of custody must be considered when crafting the parenting plan that will work best for your family. Today we break down the differences between custody and access and provide tips for how to construct a parenting plan that considers all of the day to day aspects of co-parenting (like school/work schedules, extracurriculars, holidays, finances and communication) and how to make any necessary changes to that plan without conflict.