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59 - Can Nice People Get Ahead

I talk about the book “Barking Up the Wrong Tree” by Eric Barker and I have to say, it really got me thinking. As a nice person, I often wonder if it’s possible to get ahead in life and work without being a jerk. And according to Barker, it is! Sure, appearance and making a good impression on bosses are important, but in the long run, it’s the givers who are more successful. By practicing generous tit-for-tat and forgiving after being betrayed, we build a reputation as trustworthy and kind people. So let’s focus on reciprocity and being the best versions of ourselves because that’s what really pays off in the end.

Links

https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2785

https://www.bakadesuyo.com/

https://www.amazon.com/Barking-Wrong-Tree-Surprising-Everything/dp/0062416049

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58 - Be a Leader With or Without Filters

Today I am thrilled to review an amazing book “Barking Up the Wrong Tree” by Eric Barker which is a game-changing read for anyone who wants to understand the science behind success and leadership. This book will challenge your assumptions about what makes a great leader and will inspire you to embrace your own unique qualities. Barker’s insights are both surprising and enlightening, and he presents his ideas in a way that is both accessible and engaging. If you’re looking for a book that will help you unlock your full potential, then “Barking Up the Wrong Tree” is a must-read!

Links

https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2785

https://www.bakadesuyo.com/

https://www.amazon.com/Barking-Wrong-Tree-Surprising-Everything/dp/0062416049

Jill’s Links
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57 - Pick the Full or Half Ikigai

I'm excited to talk about a book that's all about finding your life's purpose and achieving happiness - How to Ikigai by Tim Tamashiro. In this book, Tamashiro takes us on a journey of self-discovery and helps us overcome our fears of failure, success, and judgment from others. He suggests experimenting with different things and interviewing people to help you discover your strengths and interests.

What I love about this book is that it's not just about finding what you love and what you're good at, but also finding what the world needs and how you can be rewarded for it. Tamashiro also talks about the benefits of having a growth mindset and taking a gap year to find your ikigai.

If you're feeling stuck in life or just want to find more purpose and happiness, I highly recommend checking out How to Ikigai. And to really put these concepts into action, Tamashiro even suggests doing a 30-day project to find your half Ikigai. So what are you waiting for?

https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2773

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42301139-how-to-ikigai

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pk-PcJS2QaU

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56 – Improve to Improve

Today’s episode is about how improv comedy can revolutionize various aspects of your life, including parenting, relationships, and work. I dive into how improv encourages being present in the moment, taking risks, and working as a team while helping with communication skills and adaptability. You won’t want to miss examples of fun improv exercises and techniques, like the infamous “yes and” and the rule of threes. Plus, I share insights from other professionals in the field and resources for further learning. Get ready to laugh and learn as we explore the world of improv comedy!

https://medium.com/inside-the-mind-of-an-improviser/improv-in-everyday-life-d2c266a73dac

https://stanfordmag.org/contents/8-life-lessons-you-can-learn-from-improv-without-ever-stepping-into-a-class

https://www.playyourwaysane.com/blog/lessons-for-life-inspired-by-improv

https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/91689/5-ways-doing-improv-can-help-your-professional-life

https://fullylived.com/improv/

https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2768

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55 - Have a Great Day

Today, we're going to be talking about something that we all strive for - making the most out of our day. So, what can we do to ensure that we're having a productive and fulfilling day?

Well, first things first - let's talk about arriving early to appointments. It might seem like a small thing, but trust me, it can make a huge difference in how you approach your day. By getting to your appointments early, you're avoiding unnecessary stress and anxiety.

Setting small tasks for yourself throughout the day can be incredibly helpful. By doing so, you'll feel accomplished and productive throughout the day, even if you're not tackling big projects.

But it's not just about being productive - it's also about taking care of yourself. That means organizing your space, learning software shortcuts, and avoiding social media when you need to buckle down and focus. And of course, eating well and doing things you enjoy are also important for mental and physical well-being. In other words, focus on the present and don't dwell on the past. With a bit of planning and prioritizing self-care and enjoyment, you can have a great day every day.

https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2761

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54 - Best Tomorrow Starts The Night Before

n this episode, we're diving into the secrets of making the most out of each day by preparing the night before. I share several strategies to set you up for success, such as reviewing your past day, visualizing a perfect tomorrow, developing routines, cleaning up before bed, setting out breakfast ahead of time, preparing for the next day, and reflecting on your achievements.

Tackle anything that prevents you from getting a good night's sleep and celebrating your successes to ensure future success. Try out these amazing recommendations and find the strategies that work best for you. By being prepared and consistent, you can make each day the best possible day and achieve all your goals.

https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2754

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53 - Anniversary Episode With My Best Advice

Welcome to the first anniversary episode of the podcast, where I share our best advice with you. Today, we discuss important life lessons such as not being in a cult, not believing you can change others, and not being selfish or self-centered. We also emphasize the importance of enhancing your strengths, living an experimental life, and learning from everywhere. Remember to have perspective, get help when needed, and improve a little every day. Lastly, we discuss the importance of being a role model, balancing everything, and allowing for failure and forgiveness. Thank you for listening to the podcast, and I look forward to sharing more advice with you.

Don’t Be In a Cult

Don’t Be a Mind Reader

Don’t Believe You Can Change Others

Don’t Be Lazy

Don’t Do Everything

• https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2223

Don’t Be Selfish

Don’t Be Self-Centered

Don’t Ignore The Future You

• https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2564

Don’t Cross Fences Without Knowing About It

How You Do One Thing Is How You Do Everything

• https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2334

The Serenity Prayer

• https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2297

Focus on Enhancing Your Strengths

Live the Experimental life

• https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2278

Bikes Only Go When You Pedal

Have Bandwidth

Do the Next Logical Step

Have Perspective

Get Help

Improve A Little Every Day

Learn From Everywhere

• https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2559

Look At Everything Like a Newcomer

Over Communicate

Keep Learning and Then Teach

• https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2478

Allow for Failure and Forgiveness

• https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2318

Be a Role Model

Be Balanced in Everything

52 - Grow Your Income with Facts

Hey there, in today’s episode, we’re diving into the world of personal finance with the book “Get Good with Money” by Tiffany Aliche. You’ll discover practical tips on increasing your income, including ways to ask for a raise and find side hustles. Plus, you’ll learn how to assess your skills and monetize them. And remember, no matter who you are, you can make your dreams come true!

https://thebudgetnista.com/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIT8TaVZg5VVxj94ycoJzPA

 https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2731

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51 - Savings for Peace and Fun

I share a book that completely changed my perspective on money. It's called Get Good with Money by Tiffany Aliche.

Aliche talks about the importance of saving money for emergencies and achieving our dreams in her book. But what I love most about her approach is how she encourages us to think like squirrels - saving during good times, automating our savings, and listing our expected abundant times to save for. It's such a simple but effective way to approach our finances.

Aliche also emphasizes the importance of having an emergency fund and calculating one’s noodle budget. And let's be real, we all need a noodle budget! Finally, she advises listeners only to buy things they need or love and to think of money as time.

If you're looking to get good with money (and, let’s be honest, who isn’t?), I highly recommend reading this book. It's packed with practical tips and advice to help you control your finances and achieve your goals.

Links

https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2731

https://thebudgetnista.com/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIT8TaVZg5VVxj94ycoJzPA

Jill’s Links
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/startwithsmallsteps

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50 – Budget Money the Easy Way

I chat about a book that will change the way you managing your finances. Tiffany Aliche’s Get Good with Money is a must-read for anyone who wants to finally take control of their finances. In this book, Tiffany shares her personal experiences and tips on budgeting, all while emphasizing the importance of understanding your finances and categorizing your expenses. She even suggests separating your funds into different accounts and automating your bill payments. Trust me, after reading this book, you’ll have all the tools you need to gain control over your money and improve your financial well-being.

Links

https://startwithsmallsteps.com/?p=2726

https://thebudgetnista.com/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIT8TaVZg5VVxj94ycoJzPA

Jill’s Links
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/startwithsmallsteps

Twitter startwithsmallsteps

Email the podcast at [email protected]