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Oh this week’s episode is a good one! I am joined by my husband to discuss and talk about all things weddings. I mean in this episode we seriously share it all. We talk about our engagement story, how that lead to an elopement and me walking down the aisle no more than 24 hrs later.  I have wanted to share this story since the moment it happened, and its finally time! Listen for the deets on marriage, eloping, first year drama, all things weddings. 

In this weeks episode I talk about something that I have wanted to talk about for a long time. It is hard to learn how to celebrate your own wins. As we grow older, we learn that no one else is responsible for our happiness and success. We have to be the ones to believe in ourselves. You have to be the one to clap for yourself and celebrate your own wins. This has been one of the most important lessons that I’ve learned in my 20’s!

On today's episode I answer my best Ask Arlee (aka me) questions. Let's catch up and discuss your burning questions. This episode gives you a little bit of everything. We cover topics like burn out and ways that I've learned to prevent it. I discuss where I'm at with wedding planning  and give some advice on military relationships and big life transitions in a small period of time. 

Nothing a little chat with your virtual besties can't fix. In this weeks episode I dive in to all of the things I learned on my 26th year on this earth. I share the secret behind feeling like a bad bitch and how to found the inner confidence at 27 to spend my birthday alone. 

This episode is all about toxic relationships, boundaries, and how to handle someone you may know that is going through a toxic relationship. 

Pour yourself a tequila floater and strap in because this weeks episode is a crazy a** ride. This episode is all about ONE of my FAVORITE topics: dating culture in your 20’s! And holy moly do I GO IN.  From college dating, to my own personal dating history, we are all over the place in this one. From a very real and honest perspective, I share my own experiences and thoughts on the crazy f*cking ride that is DATING IN YOUR 20’s.

This week is all about going back to why I started this podcast in the first place. YOUR 20’S ARE HARD! If you are in this period of your life, you know what I am talking about. Part of why this decade of our lives is so difficult is because we are constantly comparing. THE COMPARISON MONSTER WILL EAT YOU ALIVE!! This time of you life cannot be compared to anyone else’s because they are not you. Make mistakes, fail, try new things, push yourself outside of your comfort zone, date a lot of people, or date no one, find yourself, and about all else STAY IN YOUR LANE. 

Listen up ladies (and gents) you are THE main character. You are that bitch. You are dare I say THAT GIRL. And you know what THAT GIRL does? She vibrates on a higher frequency. She sets healthy boundaries, she lives her life like she is THE GIRL (even on the days she doesn’t feel like it). In this weeks episode I dive into what it takes to be the main character of your life. 

I think everyone needs to hear this (including myself). STOP GLORIFYING BURNOUT! We do it in our careers, our relationships, to ourselves. It is awful when we constantly push ourselves  to our breaking point. We are not meant to live like that. We need to rejuvenate. We need to take the time to give back to ourselves. Never underestimate the power of refilling your cup. It is so important to prioritize our health and sanity. In this episode I dive in to specifically what I do to prevent my burnouts. 

This one is taking me back to my roots! In this episode I break down and get in to the nitty gritty of all the things that I wish I knew in my early 20’s. Honestly, everything I discuss in this episode can be applied to any stage of life. This episode is FULL of tips, tricks, and (unsolicited) advice. I wish I had this episode YEARS AGO!