David didn’t set out to become a draftsman. For more than a decade he built custom cabinetry, prizing precision and client satisfaction. Then interest rates spiked, the phone stopped ringing, and he faced a hard pivot—first into commercial sales, then into drafting and building design. What he discovered along the way: the strengths that made him excellent in custom work (detail obsession, perfectionism) could become liabilities when the job required speed, trade-offs, and submission to new authority.

In this candid conversation with host Teko Bailey, David traces a deeper journey beneath the career shift: learning to value presence over accolades, stewardship over status, and quiet obedience over external affirmation. He shares a defining season from his late teens—months of spiritual dryness where he chose to keep praying and reading Scripture with no feelings at all—and how those “deposits in the bank” sustained him years later when his wife passed away.

If you’re a husband, father, or leader navigating career pressure, identity, and faith, this episode offers clear, hard-won principles for staying present at home, resisting the lure of affirmation at work, and building a reservoir that can carry you through crisis.

Chapters

00:00 – Family First, Not Income

01:27 – Meet David: Carpenter to Designer

03:03 – Market Crash & Career Pivot

04:24 – When Detail Becomes Drag

06:26 – Learning Under Authority

15:49 – Fatherhood Lessons from Home

24:29 – Parenting: Don’t Major on Minors

27:03 – Dry Faith: Keep the Basics

39:36 – Success Reframed: Stewardship

43:10 – Choosing Presence Over Pay

48:15 – Not Asking “Why” in Grief

52:34 – Deposits in the Spiritual Bank

1:01:05 – Guard Your Heart & Mind

1:05:51 – A Prayer for the Journey

About Teko Bailey

Teko Bailey is a husband, father, coach, and guide for men walking the path of faith and purpose. Through The Climb, he’s building a brotherhood of men committed to living fully, leading boldly, and climbing with intention.

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@IamTekoBailey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tekobailey.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Production, Distribution, and Marketing:

Massif Studio & Production

The Tallawah Group

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