Stonecreek Church

If we can’t bring our doubts to church, where else are we supposed to take them? This past Sunday, we heard from Pastor Aaron Bennett as he taught on what Jesus meant when He asked Peter, “why do you doubt?” If we really believe in the power of God, then our doubts aren’t the place for deconstruction, but the questions that can finally unlock the move of God we long for. Addressing our doubts might just change our life.

Have you ever noticed that the right question can change your life?

Sometimes we don’t really like questions.

We see them as an intrusion.

What if we saw them as an invitation.

Jesus asked over 300+ questions in the Bible

It’s not because he needed info

It’s because He wants to invite us into the life he designed for us

Matthew 14:22-32

Immediately he made the disciples get into the boat and go before him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowds. And after he had dismissed the crowds, he went up on the mountain by himself to pray. When evening came, he was there alone, but the boat by this time was a long way from the land, beaten by the waves, for the wind was against them. And in the fourth watch of the night he came to them, walking on the sea. 26 But when the disciples saw him walking on the sea, they were terrified, and said, “It is a ghost!” and they cried out in fear. But immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, “Take heart; it is I. Do not be afraid.” And Peter answered him, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water.” He said, “Come.” So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid, and beginning to sink he cried out, “Lord, save me.” Jesus immediately reached out his hand and took hold of him, saying to him, “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?” And when they got into the boat, the wind ceased.

Why do you doubt?

Doubts of unbelievers:

1. If God is so good, then why is the world so bad?

2. If Christ is so kind, why can Christians be so cruel?

Doubts of believers:

God — I’m pretty sure that you can... I’m not sure that you will... for me.

Jude 1:21

keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. And have mercy on those who doubt

It takes a whole lot of faith, to be honest about your doubt.

1. Life gives us some pretty good reasons to doubt.

2. Jesus is the safest place to bring your doubts.

3. Doubt doesn’t have to be your destiny.

4. Dealing honestly with doubt can lead to the deepest faith.

What you think about Jesus is the most important thing about you. This past Sunday, Pastor Steven unpacked what it meant when Jesus asked His disciples, “who do YOU say that I am?” The questions that Jesus asked us are an invitation to life as it is supposed to be, and an invitation for a new identity. Are you pursuing a life that helps you hear God’s questions? Or are you pursuing a life that perpetuates bondage to the lies we’ve been told our whole lives?

Now when Jesus came into the district of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” And they said, “Some say John the Baptist, others say Elijah, and others Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” He said to them, “But who do you say that I am?” Simon Peter replied, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” And Jesus answered him, “Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in heaven. And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” Then he strictly charged the disciples to tell no one that he was the Christ.

Matthew 16:13 - 20

Questions from Jesus aren’t for information, but are an invitation to the life He wants for us.

This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.

Psalm 118:24

Appetite

Approval

Ambition

Am I pursuing a life that helps you hear God’s questions?

“I saw in the night visions,

and behold, with the clouds of heaven

there came one like a son of man,

and he came to the Ancient of Days

and was presented before him.

And to him was given dominion

and glory and a kingdom,

that all peoples, nations, and languages

should serve him;

his dominion is an everlasting dominion,

which shall not pass away,

and his kingdom one

that shall not be destroyed.”

Daniel 7:13-14

Where do I get my view of Jesus?

He said to them, “But who do you say that I am?”

Matthew 16:15

Must get Jesus right, or nothing is right.

Who do you say Jesus is?

Simon Peter replied, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” And Jesus answered him, “Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in heaven. And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” Then he strictly charged the disciples to tell no one that he was the Christ.

Matthew 16:16 - 20

For you formed my inward parts;

you knitted me together in my mother's womb.

I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.

Psalm 139:13-14

Am I pursuing a life that helps you hear God’s questions?

Where do I get my view of Jesus?

Who do I say Jesus is?

We all long for something deeper in our lives and relationships, and thankfully, there is Someone who satisfies that deep well of longing. This past Sunday, Pastor Steven Gibbs talked about what it means to have a real, living relationship with God Almighty. We learned about the real gospel, real Christianity, and what a real relationship with Jesus looks like. The invitation to know Him as our savior and friend is up to us – it just begins with us showing up.

“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. These things I command you, so that you will love one another.

John 15:12-17

Jesus came into Galilee, proclaiming the gospel of God, the time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel

Mark 1:14-15

I am astonished that you are so quickly deserting him who called you in the grace of Christ and are turning to a different gospel— not that there is another one, but there are some who trouble you and want to distort the gospel of Christ

Galatians 1:6-7

He has made everything beautiful in its time. Also, he has put eternity into man's heart, yet so that he cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end.

Ecclesiastes 3:11

Do I live a false gospel?

You are my friends if you do what I command you.

John 15:14

And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

Matthew 28:18-20

So Barnabas went to Tarsus to look for Saul, and when he had found him, he brought him to Antioch. For a whole year they met with the church and taught a great many people. And in Antioch the disciples were first called Christians.

Acts 11:25-26

Who would Jesus be if Jesus were me?

You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. These things I command you, so that you will love one another.

John 15:16-17

No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.

John 15:15

Do I know him?

And this is eternal life, that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.

John 17:3

DO YOU HAVE FRIENDS?

What work do you need to do to develop meaningful relationships? This past Sunday, Pastor Steven Gibbs taught us the necessity of having deep, meaningful friendships. Scripture tells us that friendship begins when we take off the masks that we wear in our everyday lives. Are you willing to be real with the people in your life? Are you ready to get in the trenches with the community that God has provided for you? You might just find that, in the mess, there is beauty.

“Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.”

Romans 12:9-13

“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.”

Romans 12:14-15

“The physical presence of other Christians is a source of incomparable joy and strength to the believer.”  - Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Real Friends Create Value

“Love from the center of who you are; don’t fake it. Run for dear life from evil; hold on for dear life to good. Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle.”

Romans 12:9-10 (MSG)

Transaction vs. Treasure

Who values me enough to make me better?

Real Friends Create Work

What work do you need to do to develop meaningful friendships?

What is your vision for your life? Does it align with God’s plan for your life? This past Sunday, Pastor Steven Gibbs was back with an awesome message about what it takes for us to live our best, real life. Life change begins when we become willing to sacrifice all that we have for the One who paid it all.

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

‭‭Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭1‬-‭2‬ ‭

The world has a vision for your life, do you?

Power in us is fueled by the patterns of Jesus.

The mercy of God is our motivation.

Have you considered how much mercy God gives you?

Sacrifices are serious business.

The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.

Psalm 51:17

Is your sacrifice bringing you the life you want?

How did you get here?

What are your inputs?

What systems are shaping you today?‬

God’s vision for your life is the person you are becoming.

Broken thoughts lead to broken beliefs;

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Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.

Colossians 3:2

Where is the joy of my salvation?

And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.

2 Corinthians 3:18

Death is inevitable, we have one life to live – life with Jesus gives us the purpose and meaning that our souls desperately crave. This past Sunday, Pastor Aaron Bennett reminded us that when we set our desires, our cravings, on the eternity of Heaven, we can trust that God will provide for us as a good Father. Real life is found in Jesus and it lasts forever. 

Is your marriage built on a foundation of real love? This past Sunday, Pastor Steven Gibbs gave us principles so that we can experience a marriage and love that lasts – a marriage that is defined by the definition of love that God’s Word provides us. Our culture might tell us that love is dependent on passion and performance, but Scripture tells us that our actions are what direct out emotions. After all, we don’t fall in real love – we grow into it. 

Why did Jesus come as a servant? This weekend was week 2 of our series Christmas Like Jesus where we’re exploring how we can pursue the hope of our Savior in the midst of the hype of the season. Jesus came so that we can know the kingdom that we were created for, the kingdom we long for, and we are welcomed home through Jesus’ servanthood. The things that we serve are proof of the things that own us, so we must ask ourselves are we slaves to the kingdom of heaven? Or are we slaves to sin?  For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many. - Jesus

This weekend we continued the conversation about God’s Good Design for Sex by tackling the topic of sexuality and identity. Pastor Steven reminded us that the LGBTQ+ community is not an issue to stand on, but a people to love. While God’s good design for sex and marriage is one man, one woman, one flesh, one lifetime, it is imperative for us to remember that singleness and celibacy is worthy to be celebrated. But so much more than that, our identity as royalty and the ability for transformation can be found in Jesus, and it is available to anyone who needs it here and now.   People to love and truth to tell.

This weekend was week 4 of our series What Everyone is Talking About! We heard from Pastor Steven as he dove into God’s good design for sex and marriage. We learned that God actually wants us to have a great sex life, but that this gift can only be experienced fully in the way that God created it: for pleasure and one-ness within the boundaries of marriage. Despite what our culture teaches us about sexual promiscuity, we don’t have to settle for anything less than what God created us for. We are royalty and we don’t have to eat the crumbs of our culture – we have a seat at the table with the King. 

God gave us the good gift of great sex.

Genesis 1:27-28

“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. And God blessed them. And God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

We can never separate God’s plan for sex from our identity as His blessed creation.

God’s intention for sex: 

Procreation

Intimate knowing

Protection

Comfort

Pleasure

One-ness

Pleasure

God is not anti-sex

Song of Solomon is a book of the Bible that celebrates the gift of sexual pleasure

Genesis 2:18-25

“Then the lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’ Now out of the round the Lord God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them. And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name. The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him. So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man, Then the man said, ‘This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.’ Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.”