This episode will change your entire outlook on sex in marriage.

We explain why your wife feels like the keeper of the sex...

Why you're not having as much sex as you want...

How to turn the tides and have as much frequency and freedom as you want in your sex life...

Why and how to decline low quality affection and set standards in your life...

Essentially, we take everything you've been learning from The Family Captain, and apply it VERY specifically to sex in the marriage bed.

The thing is, it works in the bedroom.

But you'll find pretty quickly that all of this actually improves your entire life.

Let's dive in.

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In This Episode:

0:00 Intro

0:58 Why does sex feel so high pressure in marriage?

4:14 What to do if things don't feel light, playful, and intimate

7:20 How to lead when life is heavy

13:20 The big thing to change to level up your sex life

20:45 When she's not really into it (but is a people pleaser)

29:33 Stop treating your bedroom like your office

36:20 Go find stuff to upgrade

42:42 Are you a man of high standards?

48:34 Decline low quality affection

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Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.