STOP! I've just been triggered

We are back today to chat about when our triggers cause us to feel sad :( 

"This is one I really struggle with for many, many, many years. Everything made me feel sad. I think it’s my default emotion." says Candice

And that not uncommon for empathetic people. 

Sadness is one of those things that we all feel from time to time and all sorts of things can trigger us to feel sad. 

Sadness often occurs at the same time as other feelings, such as anger, stress, guilt, grief, anxiety or hopelessness. 

Sometimes, the other feeling may be so strong that you don’t realise you are sad. Or the sadness masks those other feelings. So sadness is one that often needs a little investigating to get to the root cause. 

Tune in to hear us chat about navigating sadness....

It’s nice to be back after a little extended break! We thought we’d run a little series called Behind the Triggers to look into the emotions behind our triggers … 

A lot of us have that anxious feeling running through our bodies on a regular basis, and those feeling comes in a variety of states -

from intense alarm bells loudly ringing to fear running in the background of our thoughts. 

And when this happens, we may withdraw socially, rely on substances or get caught up in drama to escape this feeling of impending doom.

Truth is we end up walking through life fearful of looking at what causes this overwhelming worry & we begin to believe that we are just anxious because one or both of our parents were  worriers.

It’s amazing how quickly we accept this as truth, instead of we are in fear because we have been traumatized at one or more points in our lives. 

Tune in and listen to us chat about finding safety when triggered.

Nat and Candice have been chatting about how to make this podcast as impactful as possible, and have decided to, every now and then, include an episode that is a guided experience to help people navigate particular triggers or the impacts of triggers.

In this episode you will be guided on an experience to help remove the emotional charge of a history of not feeling heard.

This guided experiences are a combination of the modalities Nat and Candice use, influenced by narrative therapy, hypnotherapy, meditation, parts therapy and somatic release… We are going to go gently with these and encourage everyone to be gentle with themselves as they follow along.

Think of this as a self-help audio to be followed when it’s safe to do so, with your eyes closed and body relaxed. So maybe in bed, on the couch, somewhere

Relax in and allow yourself to fall into a dream like state.

All sorts of things can get passed down through families generationally, physical characteristics, personality traits, genetic conditions, and in some cases

Fascinating isn’t it. Now there is still a stack of research that needs to happen to really clarify exactly how this happens and how it all works. But at the moment there are theories around it occurring through in-utero exposure to things like stress hormones and also trauma being passed down and activated through

If you think of it from an evolutionary perspective, because our brains are hardwired to keep us safe, for our survival we are passing down what our brains/bodies think are essential survival traits, but is actually trauma… Humans are a very clever species, but we all still have these primitive survival instincts that happen on autopilot unless we do some work essentially rewire those instinctual responses and make changes in our life around the things that trigger those

Listen along to this fascinating and often forgotten part of the trauma experience.

In our latest episode we are chatting about Big T Trauma. It's a bit of a heavy on, just a heads up!

Big T Trauma is a reaction to a deeply disturbing, life-threatening event or situation — so for example, war, natural disasters, violent crimes, a school shooting, a serious car accident, or sexual abuse. In addition, the death of a parent or loved one can be a big T trauma. 

These are the types of trauma that can lead to PTSD.  For trauma to be considered PTSD, symptoms must last more than a month and be severe enough to interfere with daily functioning.

Acute big T trauma results from a single traumatic incident, while chronic big T trauma is the result of repeated, ongoing trauma, such as physical or sexual abuse or domestic violence. Bullying or cyberbullying can also qualify as chronic trauma, particularly if it is severe and ongoing.

Big T trauma and PTSD have serious mental, physical, and emotional impacts on people.

Nat and Candice are back after an extended silly season break!

In this episode we start a micro series on trauma. 

Trauma untreated can lead to all sorts of unhelpful habits and patterns in our lives. Unfortunately, there is so much confusion out there around trauma and trauma therapy so we thought we would help shed some light on it.

In this episode we explain briefly what trauma is and share two techniques we use with our clients to instil a safety resource within. This resource allows you to come back to a place of safety when the healing work feels like it is getting too much. 

Have a listen and let us know what you think. 

Blessings

Nat and Candice

Join us as we chat about the benefits, and how to, start releasing emotional blockages from the body! Be sure to tune into Episode 4 or Season 2 before listening to this one! They go hand in hand x

Join Nat and Candice as they chat about the impact that long term emotional triggers can have on our health. To avoid dis-ease it is so important to move through your triggers! Have a listen and find out how you can start!

It’s getting towards the end of the year and we can all start to feel a little drained, it’s been another big year and we are starting to think about and get organised for the silly season, so I am looking forward to chatting about emotional exhaustion.

I think it’s an important topic to chat about too. A little different than our usually episodes where we did into particular triggers, rather today we will chat and give examples around how ALL triggers, on top of day to day life can lead to exhaustion and it’s a real epidemic. We are an exhausted society!

Like we chatted about in our last episode, it can feel like there is so much pressure to keep going and keep getting ahead, it can feel like it never goes away.

But there is a big difference between daily stress and emotional exhaustion, it’s the constant stresses of life that keep going and going and going. And naturally, as we know all the things we do in life leave us vulnerable to any number of triggers that pile onto our mind and bodies stress loads.

Let's chat!