There are a lot of different things that are important to think about before you decide that you are going to play with someone (regardless of how well you know them). This week will cover what it means to have limits and boundaries, how you can begin to set them, and how to let your partner know that you are ready to cool things down in a scene by using a safeword. Play safe out there folks!

Do you remember what your first orgasm felt like? First time having sex? First time delving into a fetish?All about first’s guys, there is absolutely no way that this is not going to be awkward….like super awkward. Bear with us as we share all about those first times we did different things; and, enjoy the laugh.

Submissive, slave, brat, pet, switch, Domme, Master, Mistress, kajira, top, bottom, sadist, masochist, sadomasochist, kinkster, fetishist, hedonist, sensualist, exhibitionist, Daddy, Mommy, caregiver, baby girl, baby boy, little, middle, big, toy, cougar, cuckhold, sissy, furry, kitten, handler, pony, primal, rigger, rope bunny, bootblack, vanilla. Enough of a list there for y'all? We will go as far as we can to help explain what these mean; and how you can figure out where you want to identify or explore.

I’m pretty sure that my version of the “talk” involved far more metal options than are available out there today. It’s always totally awkward walking down the “personal care” aisle at the store right? I swear every time I end up there I see more and more options (mad props to the inventors out there); this time we will go over as many of those options as we can, and just a few of the ways to make sure that you are protecting yourself while enjoying all the things. Listen till the end while we open up condoms and other things and give your our initial thoughts.

First off, this is a loaded topic. And, what we say on this isn’t something that you should ever take as textbook; because it is going to be totally different for everyone. Truly, for this question there isn’t going to be a right or a wrong answer (aka-this isn’t Jeopardy and we didn’t memorize the dictionary). We will take it one letter at a time (and maybe add a few of our own along the way).