Surfing Lessons

Surfing Lessons

By Ryan P. LampeEducationSelf-Improvement
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Surfing Lessons episodes

  • Surfing Lesson #265: Evolving the Surfer and the MAN
    I got into surfing because it gave me a way out of the suffocating Los Angeles city life.
    It was a vision and a passion birthed from pain (this country boy stuck in a world of concrete).
    I didn't start out with intentions of surfing making me a greater man.
    But as I continued my journey and became more aware of my own impact as a man on my family and others,
    Surfing would ultimately increase my vision in life and expand my vision of the man who I must become to make that happen!
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    26 min
  • Surfing Lesson #264: The End Of A Season
    I don't know what I don't even know! πŸ’‘πŸ˜±
    Blind is the normal. It's what keeps status quo the status quo.
    I have been woken up to new truths in my life again and again, and moreso in the past 2 years than the first 31 years of my life combined.
    And again and again there have awoken to these new truths or levels of living life from one of two ways:
    Being inspired by someone else living a new possibility for me
    And
    The pain getting SO BIG in my life that I am all but forced to make a COMMITMENT to finding a new way of seeing and living.
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™ as I share with you a couple ways to actively hunt down these possibilities and live life to the fullest!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    30 min
  • Surfing Lesson #263: Never Stop Pushing the Envelope!
    So you want to MASTER the game of passion and desire inside your marriage?
    You want to MASTER the art and science of connection with your kids?
    You want to MASTER getting real and raw with God, chasing after him with your WHOLE heart?
    Whether it's building the body and health of your dreams, to your relationships, to business,
    There's only one way to MASTERY...
    You must be willing to FAIL more times than most people even TRY.
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    22 min
  • Surfing Lesson #262: Surfing With An Old Friend...
    Many say that it takes TWO committed people to make a marriage flourish.
    But what if it only took (or at least started with) ONE!
    The change and transformation that you want inside any relationship always starts and ends with you.
    I'll have you consider that there is a version of you as a man WAITING to be unlocked who can inspire what you want inside of any relationship.
    The issue is that we keep on failing to ACKNOWLEDGE where we missed the mark...
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    23 min
  • Surfing Lesson #261: Rocking My Wetsuit Half Down...
    Yeah, I love and feel great strutting down to the water with my surfboard under my arm
    And my wetsuit in its traditional half on/off fashion
    My hair down, big smile on my face, and my abs poppin!
    I feel so damn sexy, and I enjoy turning all the heads 😎
    And while I used to HIDE all my guilt and shame BEHIND all that ☝🏼️
    Now it's merely a reflection of my heart.
    All my life, I've just wanted to be seen.
    I figured the best way would be through having a dream body, dream family, dream social status, or dream success.
    But what I didn't know what that what I TRULY WANTED TO BE SEEN was my heart.
    ME.
    I wanted to be seen. Acknowledged. Loved. Accepted. Respected. For who I am.
    Not my body, performance, family, capabilities, etc.
    You and I are alike, know it or not πŸ˜‰
    We all just want to be seen.
    Whether it's my toddler acting out or my wife getting on stage in front of 10,000, we all just want to be seen.
    And I have news for you...
    Everyone is WAITING to see you! ❀️
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    28 min
  • Surfing Lesson #260: Exposing the Gaps In My Surfing Game!
    Community exposes integrity
    People love to hype themselves up and talk a big game HIDDEN behind their words and phones/computers.
    Reality is, we are completely unaware of our own lives and relationships until we expose it inside community.
    Community exposes our integrity, the "good", "bad", "beautiful", "ugly" and everything in between.
    Being vulnerable with other people exposes the GAP in our integrity as human beings.
    There's literally no way around it.
    We were built for community.
    You were created to be a LIGHT, not hidden!
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    28 min
  • Surfing Lesson #259: Borrowing Someone's Surfboard...NAKED! πŸ˜…
    It's crazy the amount of stories and fears that can get in my way and keep me from having the conversation I know I must have.
    From the conversation that I know I must have to get clear with sh*t inside my marriage,
    to the conversation I must have with one of my kids who seem like their struggling,
    to a prospective client who seems like they may be the type to resist me,
    to asking a naked guy if I can borrow his surfboard while I'm naked, myself...
    Sometimes the only way is to JUST HAVE THE FREAKING CONVERSATION!
    If only I would have known earlier in my life what the painful cost of NOT having those conversations would be for me, my family, and others....
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    20 min
  • Surfing Lesson #258: Do I NEED To Surf?...Both Yes AND No! 😎
    Truth is, we as human beings have very little actual "needs".
    I've gone without any time of food, consuming water only for weeks.
    So to a decent extent, I don't even "need" food...at least not 3x per day as we're taught to believe.
    I don't NEED healthy food and physical training.
    I don't NEED a family or connection with them.
    I don't NEED sex with Luci nor a relationship with my kids.
    I don't NEED to operate a business, nor do I NEED money...at least not to the extent that I think I "need"...
    I don't NEED to surf nor live in Ocean Beach, San Diego.
    The reality is I "want" these things ☝🏼️.
    And inside of wanting what I want, I make decisions and CHOOSE what I'm committed to.
    And inside my personal COMMITMENTS, there are literal requirements or NEEDS πŸ˜„
    And getting clear with these NEEDS are the ONLY WAY to connection!
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    18 min
  • Surfing Lesson #257: My Kids Not Surfing
    No matter how I want to justify it, my kids are a direct reflection of me and my commitment.
    Luci is a direct reflection of me and my commitment.
    My friends, my clients, my neighbors, my community...
    To a certain degree, they are all a direct reflection of what I stand for, who I am, and what I am committed to.
    They reflect my heart, the love and light in it, and the capacity to do so.
    And the gaps in my capacity to do so.
    We love to take credit for the things and relationships in our life that were excited about and proud of.
    And...
    We love to justify and make excuses for the sh*t that's not in alignment of our hearts.
    The impossible wife...
    The one "extra challenging" child...
    Friends and relationships that "have their issues that they are working on"...
    There's a power to be had inside our ability to see how our EVERY SINGLE RELATIONSHIP reflects our current commitment (who we are!)
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    18 min
  • Surfing Lesson #256: The Amazing Surfing Chicks
    Have you ever found yourself thinking that there's just no way your wife or kids will be, choose, or act differently today?
    I would often put them into these boxes.
    And the boxes would naturally dictate how I treated them.
    They would naturally live up to my expectations based upon my assumptions of YESTERDAY or last month or last YEAR'S behavior and decisions!
    Talk about going on circles through life.
    What if you could BREAK THE CYCLE....
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode πŸŽ™!
    Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    26 min

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This is your podcast for the family man looking to access and unlock more PASSION and CONNECTION across every area of life. Your host, Ryan P. Lampe, directly applies daily surfing lessons from the…