In this episode of Swapping Secrets, we explore people, policy and pleasure podcast conversations with Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller, unpacking the hidden history of sex-on-premises venues in Sydney and how thoughtful legislation has shaped safer adult communities.

From the legacy of the Disorderly Houses Act to the Bodyline precedent, police discretion, planning reform, and the role of local councils, this conversation explores how rules and boundaries can actually create safer, more expressive spaces. The episode also draws powerful parallels between policy, consent, communication, and freedom — both inside adult venues and across society more broadly.

If you’ve ever wondered how sex-positive spaces are protected, why policy matters, or what Sydney can teach the wider world about safety, autonomy and respect, this one’s for you.

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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Dr. Leigh Barlow for a candid conversation about sex stigma, sexual health, STI testing, condoms, herpes, BV, and the choices that help people stay safe without shame.

Together, they unpack why stigma around sex still exists, where sex education still falls short, and how open, informed conversations can reshape the way we think about sexual health in modern relationships and communities.

Dr. Leigh shares practical insight into common STI myths, the importance of barrier protection, why testing should be based on risk, and how better education can help people make more confident decisions about their bodies and sexual wellbeing.

If you’ve ever felt awkward talking about testing, disclosure, or sexual health, this episode is a powerful reminder that information, communication, and care should always come before shame.

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Dr. Leigh Barlow’s Links:

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Hey Fella

Roid Safe

Stigma Health

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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over.

We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away.

From cocky behaviour, poor communication, ignoring boundaries, and unsafe sex practices, to the difference between dating vs the lifestyle, this episode dives deep into the psychology of desire and decision-making.

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In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps, Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon encounters and orgy room chaos to hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, these real lifestyle stories reveal what actually happens inside a swingers club.

From a school-themed party that started with a wardrobe malfunction… to a hilariously mismatched dungeon scene where one guy looked completely bored while the other was having the time of his life — this episode is full of unforgettable moments from behind the scenes at Our Secret Spot.

Lifestyle clubs are often misunderstood. While movies portray them as chaotic or purely sexual environments, the reality is usually far more social, respectful, and community-driven.

At Our Secret Spot, every night brings unexpected moments — from hilarious misunderstandings to unforgettable connections.

In this episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack several real swingers club stories including:

– A school-themed party that started with a wardrobe malfunction

– A dungeon scene where one participant was wildly enthusiastic and the other looked completely bored

– A five-person shower scene in the orgy room

– An influencer couple who seemed to turn their night into a performance

These swingers club stories are just a small glimpse into the unexpected moments that happen behind the scenes at lifestyle venues like Our Secret Spot. If you enjoy real, uncensored conversations about relationships, sexuality, and community, Swapping Secrets delivers stories you won’t hear anywhere else.

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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women.

With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can explore sexuality, identity, and desire without pressure or judgement.

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Genevieve’s link:

Website

Instagram (Skirt Club)

Instagram (Genevieve)

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“Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

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Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS

Want to connect with other open-minded folks?
Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

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In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play.

We unpack:

• What to do when another couple changes the rules during sex
• How to handle boundaries being crossed in non-monogamy
• Tips for anal and DP (double penetration) done safely
• The biggest regrets (if any) about joining the lifestyle
• Parenting while owning a sex club
• Managing jealousy, reputation and daycare drop-offs
• Working with your ex while building a lifestyle business

Plus, voice messages and video questions from our extended community — including familiar faces from the lifestyle podcast space.

This episode is raw, honest and unfiltered — but always rooted in consent, communication and curiosity.

If you’re exploring non-monogamy, swinging, open relationships, or just curious about how real people navigate sex-positive spaces — this one’s for you.

Sponsors:

“Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

“Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20)

New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere.

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Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS

Want to connect with other open-minded folks?
Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

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What happens when curiosity turns into lived experience — and desire reshapes your identity, relationships, and sense of self?

In Part 1 of this raw and reflective episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack how sexual desire can both liberate and destabilise. From early curiosity and boundary-blurring moments to the emotional hangovers no one prepares you for, this conversation dives into the grey areas between empowerment, regret, growth, and self-awareness.

They explore how desire evolves, the difference between fantasy and reality, and why some experiences leave us feeling more confused than fulfilled — especially when communication, emotional readiness, or self-understanding lag behind sexual exploration.

This is an honest, nuanced look at what desire can unlock… and what it can quietly undo.

Sponsors:

“Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

“Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20)

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Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

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Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark.

But what if that story is completely wrong?

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance — a powerful phase where confidence deepens, communication sharpens, and pleasure expands in ways younger generations rarely expect.

Together, they explore how desire actually evolves with age, why libido isn’t meant to be constant, and how understanding arousal as a ladder (not a switch) changes everything. Susan breaks down the science behind expanding orgasmic capacity, the role of blood flow, hormones, and nervous system health, and why many people report the best sex of their lives in their 40s, 50s, and beyond.

Susan Bratton Links

Website: https://betterlover.com Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton

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Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

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From the team behind Australia’s hottest lifestyle club comes Swapping Secrets — the podcast where nothing is off the table.

Join Jess & Lawrence for raw stories, cheeky confessions, and smart conversations about s*x, relationships, and the lifestyle.

This teaser is just a taste of what’s to come.

Subscribe now and don’t miss the launch.

New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere.

Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox

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Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

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Want to connect with other open-minded folks?
Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

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The post We’re Telling All… Swapping Secrets | Official Teaser appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

From the team behind Australia’s hottest lifestyle club comes Swapping Secrets — the podcast where nothing is off the table.

Join Jess & Lawrence for raw stories, cheeky confessions, and smart conversations about s*x, relationships, and the lifestyle.

This teaser is just a taste of what’s to come.

Subscribe now and don’t miss the launch.

New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere.

Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox

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Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS

Want to connect with other open-minded folks?
Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

Get in touch with us:
Email | Phone – 0478 131 769

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