Table & Well Podcast

Enemy Mode:  We have all heard this phrase.  This is what happens when you are trying to win or feel that everyone is against you.  Most of us have ventured into this territory.  However, did you know that there are 2 types of enemy mode, Simple and Peditory. 
Join Tennison & Ginelle as they discuss and dissect these two very different ways to operate in enemy mode, the effects of each, and what is happening in your brain and the brain of the narcissist while this is happening. 

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support
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To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Self Justification is the go to response when corrected for people who have narcissistic tendencies.  Since they cannot metabolize shame relationally and their need to feel special is driving them, deflection is key.  Self justification can come in many forms, everything from, "You'll never understand in a million years!" to, "How dare you question me!" to " God told me to do this." 
Listen in as Tennison and Ginelle look at this narcissistic tendency and continue to dissect this relational infection of narcissism

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support
To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

In this episode, join Tennison as he takes a pause on the series, The Half Brain Church to let you know what Table and well Will look like in 2022.  

Join Tennison and Ginelle as they continue to unpack the relational infection known as narcissism.  What are the effects on the people who are under the leadership of a narcissist?


This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support
To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Would you be able to identify narcissist behavior?  Most people believe that they can.  If so, why are there so many narcissist people leading churches, businesses  and communities?  Believe it or not we actually look for, find,  put in leadership, and hire people with major narcissist tendencies and call them strong leaders and follow them blindly.  All while there is a wake of destruction behind them.   

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support
To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

How does shame and narcissism intersect?  What happens when people are not taught how to metabolize shame?  Join Tennison and Ginelle as they continue their conversation on the relational infection.  In this episode they will continue to unpack this disease and the motivations behind the actions and motive of the narcissist.

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support
To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Narcissism: The relational infection.  Narcissism may not be what you think is actually very easy to overlook and encourage. Sometimes it is hard to recognize until it is too late.  The church, in its current structure, is the perfect breeding ground for narcissism to grow, thrive and return if the relational connection of its people is not strong.  Join Tennison and Ginelle as they begin to unpack this insidious disease.

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support
To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Healthy correction is an important factor in character development and shame is an important part of healthy correction.  We have talked about the differences between healthy shame and toxic shame and how each of them can be and have been used and how God has designed shame to be used and felt.
In this episode Tennison and Ginelle finish their conversation on healthy correction by taking a good look at toxic shame and why it must be rejected at all cost!  The power of shame was never meant to be welded the way most commonly do.  But until God's way becomes the norm, we must recognize and reject shame and correction that is toxic in its nature.

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support
To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Tennison and Ginelle continue their conversation on healthy correction.  In this episode they discuss a topic that is rarely ever talked about in a positive light. It's avoided, and has been used to abuse and manipulate, but used correctly, is actually very powerful and needed for healthy correction.  Shame!  Shame is an emotion that God has hardwired into in our brain, so we must learn how to use it.  Join us as we unpack this controversial thought and see how God has designed us to feel shame but not wear it.  

This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support
To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

Correction is a word that carries a negative feeling whenever you hear otr think about it. Correction is necessary to shape and mold character.  However if it is not done in a healthy way, it will cause more hurt, and division in your relationships.  Join Tennison and Ginelle and they begin to unpack what healthy correction looks like and why it is so important. 


This series is an adaptation of the book "The Other Half of Church" by Jim Wilder & Michel Hendricks

If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support
To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call
To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org
To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co