“You don’t need another strategy. You need surrender.”

In this episode, Spencer unpacks what the Word of God reveals about overcoming sin, walking by the Spirit, and living with power in a world designed to defeat you.

We start with a battle scene—one king, 580,000 soldiers… facing an army of over 1 million. And what unfolds becomes a divine blueprint for anyone locked in a fight they’re losing—especially the fight against porn, shame, guilt, and the flesh.

But this isn’t a sin-management strategy.

The 5 biblical steps to spiritual victory drawn from King Asa’s story

Why most men live powerless, defeated lives—and don’t even realize it

The subtle trap of chasing relief over relationship with Christ

Why “half-hearted” Christianity guarantees defeat

What it really means to “walk by the Spirit” in 2025

How success in God’s eyes has nothing to do with streaks, stats, or milestones

The most honest prayer you can pray as a man today

“Unless you are helpless before God, you will have no victory.”

“You can’t drag your flesh behind you and expect to walk by the Spirit.”

“Men will do anything—buy anything—except the one thing Scripture commands: surrender.”

“If you’re not giving God your whole heart… just be okay with defeat.”

Men battling porn or any other stronghold

Anyone who’s tired of temporary victory and longs for deep change

Believers who feel spiritually dry, weak, or stuck

Those who want to move from “flesh-driven” to Spirit-led living

2 Chronicles 14 & 15 (King Asa’s battle and covenant)

1 Corinthians 3 (Carnal vs. spiritual Christians)

Romans 8 (Life in the Spirit)

Luke 9 & Matthew 16 (Radical discipleship)