Tales From The Lane

Welcome to Episode 16 of the Tales from The Lane podcast, where we talk about how to thrive in your creative life, find creative and artistic fulfillment, and leave a legacy you can be proud of. In a world where societal expectations and the fear of judgment often hold us back from pursuing our dreams, Today we are going to dive deep into the universal struggle of worrying about what other people think. In this episode, we'll address the fundamental question that plagues all artists and individuals alike: Why do we let the opinions of others dictate our actions, and how can we break free from this pattern? Let's explore the psychological underpinnings of this phenomenon and go over some practical strategies to overcome it.

Topics Discussed:

• The evolutionary origins of the fear of judgment
• The psychological impact of worrying about what others think
• Strategies for shifting focus from external validation to internal fulfillment
• Overcoming the fear of criticism and rejection
• Embracing authenticity and pursuing personal passions despite external pressures

This episode is for anyone seeking to liberate themselves from the shackles of external validation. Whether you're an artist grappling with creative self-doubt or simply someone navigating life's myriad choices, this episode offers a roadmap to reclaiming your autonomy and living authentically. Tune in to discover how to silence the noise of external judgment and embrace the freedom to pursue your passions unapologetically.

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Hey there, friend, and welcome back to another episode of the Tales from The Lane podcast. I'm your host Kate Kayaian, a former cellist turned mindset and career coach for Creatives. I help Creatives of all kinds—Artists, Musicians, Dancers, Writers, etc. turn their ideas into reality, crafting a career and lifestyle that brings both artistic fulfillment and financial reward and is fully aligned with their values and dreams.

Here on the Tales from The Lane podcast we talk about what those things look like, and how we can inch ourselves closer to them each and every day. The doors to both of my coaching programs, Profit Pivot and Creatives Leadership Academy are closed right now, but I do have 2 1:1 spots opening up this spring. If you're interested in working together or curious about working together, go ahead and book a 30-minute discovery call for the next couple of weeks, and we can discuss all the things!

Today, we're going to talk about how to find more EASE in our work, and how that can help dig us out from underneath the burden of overwhelm, and make even the most stress-inducing tasks a little bit enjoyable.

If you enjoyed today's episode, please don't forget to subscribe, rate, review, and share it with your friends!

If you resonate with the themes discussed in this episode and are ready to explore how to align your creative aspirations with financial success, consider booking a discovery call with Kate HERE. Together, let's chart a course toward creative fulfillment and financial reward.

Also! Be sure to download your free Journaling Prompts to get your project ideas going!

You might also be interested in 10 Habits of Successful Artists

or the Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide

Want more Tales From The Lane content? Check out the TFTL Blog, with 6+ years of past articles and interviews!

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Hi and welcome back to The Tales From The Lane Podcast. I'm your host, Kate Kayaian– a former cellist, and now a writer and coach for high-performing creatives. This is the show where we talk about how to create a life and career that you love– Ones that bring both creative fulfillment and financial reward.

Today, in Episode 14, we're talking about Doing Less to Get More Done–How to decide what to do less of, and how to determine what, exactly, we should be getting done.

By the end of this episode, you'll uncover the art of intentional productivity and unlock the keys to a more fulfilling and balanced creative life. Through practical strategies and insightful anecdotes, we'll unravel the myths of perpetual busyness and unveil the path to sustainable success. Join me as we redefine the metrics of achievement and embark on a journey toward greater clarity, purpose, and artistic fulfillment.

Key Topics Covered:

• Rethinking productivity: Challenging the myth of perpetual busyness and embracing the power of intentional action.
• The case for quality over quantity: Exploring how doing less can lead to greater artistic fulfillment and financial security.
• Strategies for streamlining your creative process: From identifying key areas for improvement to maximizing your impact with minimal effort.
• Navigating financial constraints: Practical tips for cutting expenses, charging more for your work, and leveraging your unique value proposition.
• Embracing specialization: Unveiling the benefits of niche expertise and finding the unifying factor in your creative pursuits.
• Crafting your vision with intentionality: Mapping out your path to success and prioritizing activities that align with your long-term goals.

If you enjoyed today's episode, please don't forget to subscribe, rate, review, and share it with your friends!

If you resonate with the themes discussed in this episode and are ready to explore how to align your creative aspirations with financial success, consider booking a discovery call with Kate HERE. Together, let's chart a course toward creative fulfillment and financial reward.

Also! Be sure to download your free Journaling Prompts to get your project ideas going!

You might also be interested in 10 Habits of Successful Artists

or the Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide

Want more Tales From The Lane content? Check out the TFTL Blog, with 6+ years of past articles and interviews!

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Welcome to Episode 13 of Tales From The Lane, where we explore the intersection of creativity, growth, and fulfillment. I'm Kate Kayaian, your host and fellow journeyer through the artistic landscape. In this episode, we delve into the ever-relatable experience of finding yourself in a funk, that peculiar state where motivation seems elusive and progress feels stagnant. But fear not, because today, we're uncovering the hidden potential within these moments of discomfort and inertia. Join me as we explore how to turn your funk into your next breakthrough.

By the end of this episode, you'll gain valuable insights into navigating the lows of creative expression and emerge with a renewed sense of purpose and direction. Together, we'll uncover the transformative power of embracing discomfort and leveraging it as a catalyst for growth. So grab your favorite beverage, settle into your favorite spot, and let's embark on this journey of self-discovery and artistic renewal.

• Understanding the nature of artistic funk: Recognizing the signs and symptoms of creative inertia.
• Embracing discomfort: The role of acceptance and self-compassion in navigating challenging periods.
• Finding clarity through introspection: Practical strategies for reconnecting with your creative essence.
• Leveraging envy as a guide: Exploring the transformative potential of jealousy in uncovering unmet desires.
• The Artist's Way: Unpacking the wisdom of Julia Cameron's seminal work and its relevance in times of transition.
• Cultivating resilience: Five actionable steps for transforming your funk into your next breakthrough.
• Embracing the journey: Celebrating the process of creative evolution and the unexpected gifts that emerge along the way.

Join me as we embark on a journey of self-discovery and artistic renewal in Episode 13 of Tales From The Lane. Your next breakthrough awaits.

If you resonate with the themes discussed in this episode and are ready to explore how to align your creative aspirations with financial success, consider booking a discovery call with Kate HERE. Together, let's chart a course toward creative fulfillment and financial reward.

Also! Be sure to download your free Journaling Prompts to get your project ideas going!

You might also be interested in 10 Habits of Successful Artists

or the Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide

If you enjoyed today's episode, please don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review, and share it with your friends!

Want more Tales From The Lane content? Check out the TFTL Blog, with 6+ years of past articles and interviews!

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Welcome back to The Tales From The Lane Podcast with your host, Kate Kayaian. In Episode 12, Kate delves into the often complex and nuanced world of seeking and providing help, particularly within the creative sphere. Through personal anecdotes and keen observations, Kate explores the dynamics of asking for assistance, giving support, and the underlying desire for connection that often accompanies these interactions.

In this episode, Kate Kayaian tackles the theme of "Help" from various angles, shedding light on the challenges and opportunities inherent in seeking and offering assistance within the creative community. Drawing from her own experiences as a former cellist turned writer and coach, Kate invites listeners to reflect on their own relationship with help and the societal expectations that shape it.

Key Topics Covered:

• Debunking the myth of the solitary artist: Kate challenges the notion that creative success is achieved in isolation, emphasizing the role of support networks and collaborative endeavors.

• The art of asking for help: Kate explores the discomfort and vulnerability often associated with seeking assistance, highlighting the importance of clarity and authenticity in communication.

• Navigating help etiquette: From distinguishing between asking for help and asking for a favor to setting boundaries around response times, Kate offers practical insights into effective help-seeking behaviors.

• Recognizing the deeper need for connection: Beyond practical assistance, Kate reflects on the underlying desire for human connection that underpins many requests for help, urging listeners to embrace vulnerability and foster meaningful relationships.

Conclusion:

As the episode draws to a close, Kate leaves listeners with a set of guiding principles for navigating the terrain of help with authenticity and grace. Encouraging a spirit of reciprocity and mutual support, Kate invites listeners to reflect on their own patterns of help-seeking and offering, ultimately fostering a culture of collaboration and connection within the creative community.

Don't miss out on the opportunity to deepen your understanding of the dynamics of help and connection in Episode 12 of The Tales From The Lane Podcast.

If you resonate with the themes discussed in this episode and are ready to explore how to align your creative aspirations with financial success, consider booking a discovery call with Kate at KateKayaian.com. Together, let's chart a course toward creative fulfillment and financial reward.

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Profit Pivot is open for enrollment! If you are ready to stop making excuses and get your artistic project created and launched, join us for this 6-month hybrid experience. Find more details HERE.

Welcome to Episode 11 of the Tales from The Lane podcast. Today, we are joined by violinist Jessica Stinson, and we're talking about taking back control of our careers and making it look the way WE want it to look.

In Jessica's case, that was to play the Atlanta-based gigs that she loved the most, to teach at the university level, and to be a part of a string quartet that was making an actual difference in both the music industry, and in larger, more important arenas as well.

Hailed by both The State and Free Times as a "thrilling and spectacular" performer with "remarkably mature musicianship." Jessica currently serves as Acting Assistant Principal Second Violin of the Atlanta Opera Orchestra and also performs with the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra, and the Atlanta Ballet Orchestra. A graduate of The University of South Carolina and Rice University, Jessica is a co-founder of Mosaic Quartet, an ensemble devoted to representing those who are marginalized in the classical music field, and serves on the faculty of the Georgia State University School of Music.

Jessica has been working with me since February 2022, when she knew her heart would burst if she didn't get this dream chamber ensemble off the ground.

She did just that, and then some!

So go ahead and grab your favorite beverage, find a cozy spot, and let's dive in!

Follow Jessica on IG @jstinsonviolin and Learn more about Mosaic Quartet at https://www.mosaicquartet.org/

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Doors are open for my 6-Month Guided Program, Profit Pivot! This program is perfect for any creative with an idea for an artistic project–a workshop, class, festival, ensemble, chamber music series, or artists retreat... Anything at all!

We take you step-by-step to get that project out of your head, and into the world

Enrollment in Profit Pivot closes on Friday, February 23rd, so get in there ASAP and check it out. Head over to KateKayaian.com for all of the details!

Hello, friend, and welcome back to another episode of the Tales From The Lane Podcast. I hope you have had an incredible week. This is your host, Kate Kayaian, and this is the show where we talk about how Artists and Creatives can thrive instead of merely survive. We cover mindset obstacles like imposter syndrome and resistance, and we talk about tactics like time-blocking and how to create artistic projects.

Mostly though, this is a place where, as a creative, you can gain the confidence to craft your career in the most fulfilling and aligned way. You can choose to ignore the old and now aged-out advice that you have to be a slave to your art at all costs, and that you MUST live in NYC, or London, or Berlin, and that you MUST do things a certain tried and true way. There is just too much evidence to the contrary. This is a place where you get to do your craft at the highest possible level and do it on your terms.

Often, getting from a tired-out career to this new, amazing career of your dreams requires working towards certain goals. And here we are in mid-February when we're looking in the rear-view mirror at our New Year's resolutions….sitting there on the dusty road, waving goodbye to us.

Today we're talking about how we can keep ourselves from bailing on our goals. And the 3 things that you can do to stay the course and get to that Point B.

So go ahead and grab your favorite beverage, find a cozy spot, and let's dive in.

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Profit Pivot is almost open for enrollment! If you are ready to stop making excuses and get your artistic project created and launched, join us for this 6-month hybrid experience. Find more details HERE.

Welcome to Episode 9 of the Tales from The Lane podcast. Today, we have the fabulous Laura Sinclair joining us to talk about her road from maxed-out public school music teacher to her present life, thriving as an active performer, business coach, speaker, and Suzuki teacher.

The main catalyst for this career transformation has been her signature program, The Stress-Free Studio, where she helps other private lesson teachers create thriving studios that allow them to live their own lives to the fullest.

Laura can be found on the concert stage with ensembles like the Naples Philharmonic, Atlantic Classical Orchestra, and Boca Symphonia, in the pit with National Broadway tours, and at private events around the globe with Elan Artists.

She is passionate about helping other teachers develop smart business practices, and shares this not only through her program, The Stress-Free Studio, but at speaking engagements with arts organizations and higher education institutions.

Laura has been working with me since April 2020, when the pandemic shutdown helped her see that she needed to make some big changes to her life and career.

We're covering all of the messy topics, from smashing the starving artist's mentality to the adverse effects of working 24/7. Finding alignment and artistic fulfillment in our work, and making a bigger impact in our careers. How she put together her Stress-Free Studio Program, and how the whole transformation has affected her and her family.

So go ahead and grab your favorite beverage, find a cozy spot, and let's dive in!

Follow Laura on IG at @viola_maverick and Learn more about her programs at https://linktr.ee/lauraksinclair

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Join us this week for Kate's 5-day Challenge, register for "Launch Your Legacy" and get going on that artistic project that has been gathering dust–waiting to be launched into the world.

Welcome back to another inspiring episode of "Tales from The Lane," where creatives thrive, with your host, Kate Kayaian. In this more personal episode, Kate talks about her own path from languishing in depression to thriving in success and the 4 Crucial Truths she learned along the way. Join us as we unravel the wisdom gained through years of experience, unveiling the keys to unlocking personal growth, overcoming challenges, and embracing a life of purpose and fulfillment.

• How she discovered the "right" kind of schedule for her.
• How she learned to use her scheduling to beat overwhelm.
• How she shifted from a mindset of limitations to one of possibilities–and the doors that opened for her.
• How to recognize the root cause of overwhelm in daunting tasks.
• Strategies for breaking down complex projects into manageable steps.
• What it took for her to find her courage and start overcoming her fears and self-doubt.
• How harnessing the power of courage will help you in pursuing goals and realizing aspirations.

Join us this week for Kate's 5-day Challenge, register for "Launch Your Legacy" and get going on that artistic project that has been gathering dust–waiting to be launched into the world.

And If you enjoyed today's episode, don't forget to rate and review Tales from The Lane!––it's a quick and easy way to show support for the show!

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"The No-Yes Spectrum" as mentioned in Episode 8

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Welcome back to another inspiring episode of "Tales from The Lane," where creatives flourish under the guidance of your host, Kate Kayaian. In this episode, we heard from Cellist, Michal Shein about her path from insecure freelancer to a courageous force for change in her industry.

You'll hear about:

The 1 important thing she did to get herself unstuck

How she came up with the idea and format for her amazing cello festival, Cellisimo.

What she does to balance her work as a performer, a pedagogue, a festival director, and a mother.

The environment that she put herself in so that she could truly thrive.

The thing she wants all of you to know about your ability to make your artistic dreams come true.

Be sure to register for next week's 5-Day Challenge, "Launch Your Legacy"

In 5 days, you'll get that artistic project idea out of your head and onto the calendar, with everything you need to launch it into the world.

Save your spot right here: https://mailchi.mp/katekayaian/launch-your-legacy

About Michal:

Israeli-Mexican-American cellist Michal Shein is a performer and master educator focused on curating cross-cultural performance projects and intensive educational initiatives. She is the Artistic Director of Cellisimo, a high level cello festival for Spanish speaking cellists with limited resources which includes masterclasses with world-class faculty, wellness sessions and community building. The festival, which is run in Spanish, has been described as "...one of the most important and unique festivals of its kind in Latin America''(- Álvaro Bitrán, cellist of the Grammy award-winning Cuarteto Latinoamericano). Michal is recognized for her pedagogical style that nurtures her students with effective pedagogical methods for holistic and high musical advancement.

Michal's cello students have been winners in competitions, and have received admission to top festivals such as BUTI Tanglewood, Brevard, YOLA Festival, Greenwood, NSO, as well as the BEAM program. Currently, she is on faculty at the Boston String Academy (an award-winning El Sistema-inspired string program), the New England Conservatory, and the University of Rhode Island. In addition to her diverse educational work, Michal maintains a career as a soloist, orchestral cellist, and chamber musician.

From 2008-2013 she was Principal Cellist of the chamber orchestra Discovery Ensemble, while also immersing in baroque playing and appearing with several baroque ensembles. She currently appears with many orchestras and ensembles in the Boston area including the Rhode Island Philharmonic, and Portland Symphony, among others. Some highlights of this past season were collaborations with Celebrity Series of Boston, as well as a new recording of arrangements of the Vivaldi sonatas with guitarist Adam Levin, which will be released in early 2024. Michal received her B.A. in Music from U.C. Berkeley and Master's in Music M.A. at New England Conservatory. Michal lives in an intentional cohousing community in Jamaica Plain, with her husband Jonas, an outdoor educator, and her young children Noam and Hadas.

Instagram: @michal.shein

Facebook, Cellisimo Facebook Group, www.cellisimo.com

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