Talk To Me Nice with Ayana Ellis

Domestic Violence Awareness Month means speaking on the hard things — and today, I’m sitting down with Sexpert Kimi Levadge @Kimilevadge to break open the connection between domestic violence and sexual abuse. These conversations save lives. These truths matter.We’re here to educate, empower, and make sure survivors know they’re not alone.

You can purchase my story of survival, Full Circle - A Renewed History on Byayanaellis.com or Amazon

DV has a cycle called Psychological Conditioning, meant to confuse you, isolate you, and make chaos feel normal. The four stages are:tension - you can feel it in the air!!! Its coming! You begin walking around on eggshellsincident - the abuse occursreconciliation - apologies, "love", being treated nicely and softcalm - everything settles down and seemingly goes back to normal When you recognize the cycle, you can disrupt it. When you name it, you can escape it.My novel Full Circle-A Renewed History, details the cycle all too well. Available on Byayanaellis.com and Amazon

This month on the podcast, I’m diving into the realities of domestic violence, relationships, mental health, sexual abuse and the conversations we don’t have enough. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and I’m using this space to spread knowledge, deepen understanding, and highlight the layers of this epidemic that often get overlooked — beyond just protecting our women.

Join me as we unpack the truths, the patterns, the healing, and the hard conversations that matter.

I wrote a book about my experience titled, Full Circle-A Renewed History. You can find it on Byayanaellis.com or Amazon

I don't know about you. But I don't want nor do I need any yes men in my life nor will I be in anyone's life that requires that of me. I'm too old for that nonsense.

what about you?

It's time to stop going back and forth with people thinking that they can disrespect you. Put an end to it.

Is it a scam or is it necessary? I guess it depends on what YOU need.

Let's discuss.

I posted a video about the man you're in a relationship with being the possible monitoring spirit that you can't identify and a friend mine had some things today. Ladies and gents, Sexpert Kimi Levadge lol

@kimilevadge

The topic of monitoring spirits always relates to friends and family, but what about that man that you share a bed, child, vows with... Why isn't he ever on the docket?

When I stopped making my own plans and demands, God stepped in in a major way for me. I hope that he does the same for you!

Ladies is it just me? What is it about getting closer to 50 or actually turning 50 that really takes away all of your fux to give? What is happening?

Whatever it is, I like it, what about you?