Talks with a TCK Friend

Our guest today talks about his experience of feeling loneliness growing up as a TCK. Join us as we peel away the different layers of how the feeling othered affect us and how we were able to take a step back from our situation and made sense of the different chapters of our lives.

Today we talk about intense situations that in our environment that we cannot control and how it affects our mental health. Our guest today share her experience of what it was like in her country to go through uncertainty and how she began to heal in layers.

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Join us today with another fellow Diplomat kid and author discussing her experience growing up as a TCK along with her journey writing her book: Girl Uprooted.

Today's episode features fellow author Megan Norton on her book "Belonging Beyond Borders: How Adult Third Culture Kids Can Cultivate a Sense of Belonging". We talk about what it means to belong as she shares the different topics on her book.

Megan Norton is an author, Third Culture Kid (TCK) consultant, intercultural trainer, podcast

Check out her book bellow!

https://www.amazon.com/Belonging-Beyond-Borders-Culture-Cultivate/dp/B0BQ9LM382

If you would like to be a guest on the podcast as well, feel free to reach out at ⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠ or send us a message on Instagram!

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Music: Savour The Moment by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com

One thing all TCKs can relate to is loneliness and often times we don't even know how to begin to work through the emotions and the thoughts we have when we are going through it. Join me and my high school friend Kinzi as we talk about what loneliness looked like for us and how we walked through that season.

If you would like to be a guest on the podcast as well, feel free to reach out at ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ or send us a message on Instagram!

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Music: Savour The Moment by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com

Today's episode we are joined by Miggy, a fellow diplomat kid. Join us as we spend some time talking about the Filipino local communities that we encountered in different countries. We talk about the struggles as well as the joys that come from being able to connect with Filipinos like us who have grown up in a different countries their whole lives.

Miggy is a Third Culture Kid, Fellow Diplomat Kid, 4th Year Undergraduate Student Double Major Economics and Politics, Writer and Head of Social Media for Roots and Wing Online Magazine (www.rawmags.com), Aspiring to be a Diplomat, went to International schools, Singer/Performer/Guitarist, enjoys playing chess and basketball

If you would like to be a guest on the podcast as well, feel free to reach out at ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ or send us a message on Instagram!

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Music: Savour The Moment by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com

Join us today as we continue to talk about Love and Relationships this time taking a deeper dive in what dating looks like for TCKs.

If you want to know more about Sam check out her Instagram: @

If you would like to be a guest on the podcast as well, feel free to reach out at ⁠[email protected]⁠ or send us a message on Instagram!

If you have any questions of just want to reach out follow me on the following:

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Music: Savour The Moment by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com

Relationships month of July is almost over and we hope you have been enjoying this series! Join us with Inga as she talks about 30+ years of marriage as a TCK.

The whole month of July is Relationship Month, where we’ll cover topics surrounding different kinds of relationships through the eyes of TCK friends. This week we’re joined by a very special friend, a listener of Talks with a Third Culture Kid Friend, Carmel Valencia Indrawan. Carmel has lived in 5 different cities throughout her life; she moved to Singapore with her family when she was younger and lived there for six years. She then moved back to Manila to finish high school and college, and her first few years as a young professional. Then she spent some time in Shanghai and Paris for work. After getting married in the Philippines, she moved to Jakarta with her husband where she resides now.

She’s joined the podcast today to talk about her experiences as a TCK and her married life, like how she got together with her husband and some of the things they have in common like cultural curiosity and understanding. She shares some advice about her relationship and how she took her time growing as an individual before her marriage.

We take some time to discuss some common questions about marriage life, like “how did you know when you were ready” or “how to handle long distance relationships.” We talk about Carmel’s individual pursuits and passions and her thoughts on her marriage and how her relationship has grown over the years.  We also discuss the importance of communication and how it plays a huge role in being able to identify your wants and needs as someone in a relationship or seeking one.

It’s important to know yourself and that might mean taking time to learn about yourself as an individual, to know your attachment styles and tendencies so that you can work on them and grow to become more whole before you commit yourself to another person. Balancing your independent spirit and intentionally making time and space for growth is part of your journey too.

Join us as we talk about relationships, being an individual and being together in a partnership and some tips and tricks for TCKs who might be looking for partners in the future.

If you’re interested in learning how to tell your story, be sure to check out Carmel’s website here. Every story is about connecting the dots. Find out where yours begins. 

If you would like to be a guest on the podcast as well, feel free to reach out at [email protected] or send us a message on Instagram!

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Music: Savour The Moment by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com

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The whole month of July is Relationship Month, where we’ll cover topics surrounding different kinds of relationships through the eyes of TCK friends. This episode, we are joined by an old friend of mine (who i've never met in person!), Falyn Matsudaira. She was born in the US and moved to Russia due to her parent’s job as missionaries. 

After some time, her family moved to Poland during her middle school and high school years, then she moved back to the US to attend college and where still lives now. We take some time to catch up and talk about her perspective on relationships, as a person who married another TCK. 

Falyn shares some of her thoughts about being married to a fellow TCK and while they share some similarities in their journeys, their experiences are ultimately completely different and she talks about how these comparisons have added layers to their relationships as they grew closer in their partnership. 

As we discuss, we talk about how some TCKs may not want to have a partner who is also a TCK because we understand the complex emotions that come with moving around so frequently. However, Falyn talks about how these similarities have contributed to their initial connection as they began to date.  She also touches on some of the different personality traits she and her husband have and how these things complement their relationship.

It’s impossible to predict the what kind of people we will meet around the world and who we will connect with, but it’s important to learn about yourself and the way that you communicate with other people to establish those strong bonds. Don’t forget to work on yourself and give yourself some grace and kindness as you grow in your individual journey.

Tune into this episode where we talk about marriage relationships, and reconnect and reflect on topics from our teenage years, with the perspectives shaped by our experiences as adults. 

Be sure to check out Falyn’s book “Spooky the Scaredy-Cat” available on Amazon. 

If you have any questions of just want to reach out follow me on the following: Instagram: @mariesuazoauthor FB: mariesuazoauthor Email: [email protected]

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Music: Savour The Moment by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com

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