In this powerful episode, I sit down with Jake to talk openly about addiction, rock bottom, and what it really takes to rebuild your life. Jake shares his journey from spiralling into drug addiction and reaching over 29 stone, to the moment he realised he was losing control and had to make a change.

We talk about the reality behind addiction, the impact it had on his mental health and relationships, and how recovery helped him become the husband, father, and person he wanted to be. This is an honest conversation about struggle, accountability, and hope and a reminder that change is possible, even when it feels impossible.

If you or someone you know is struggling, you’re not alone.

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In this powerful and deeply moving episode, Jonny shares what it’s really like to wake up paralysed at 28 after a sudden stroke and how losing his body, career, and future plans forced him to rebuild his life from the ground up.

He opens up about the shock of disability, the uncertainty of recovery, and the emotional toll of watching the life you expected disappear overnight. Alongside this, Jonny speaks candidly about the mental health battles that followed his physical recovery, including depression, identity loss, and learning how to live in a body that no longer worked the way it once did.

He reflects on discipline, endurance, and the mindset shift that helped him move from survival to purpose, ultimately becoming the first disabled person to ski solo and unsupported to the South Pole. This episode explores resilience, trauma, identity, and what it truly means to rebuild when everything familiar is gone. If you’ve experienced illness, injury, life-altering change, or are navigating grief for the person you used to be, this conversation will resonate deeply.

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In this deeply honest and emotional episode, Becky shares what it’s really like to be married to an alcoholic and the hidden trauma that comes with loving someone who is struggling with alcoholism. She opens up about living in constant uncertainty, the emotional toll of addiction on a marriage, and the strength it takes to keep going when you feel invisible, exhausted, and alone.

Alongside this, Becky speaks candidly about her own past trauma, including her experience with cancer, and how those unresolved experiences shaped the way she coped, survived, and ultimately began to heal. This conversation explores the reality of being the “strong one,” the impact addiction has on partners, and the difficult but necessary journey of recovering yourself, not just hoping the addict will change.

This episode is about resilience, boundaries, self-worth, and learning how to rebuild after years of emotional survival mode. If you’ve loved an addict, supported someone through illness, or are trying to heal from trauma that was never yours to carry alone, this conversation will resonate deeply.

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Christmas can be one of the hardest times to co-parent, especially when your ex thrives on control, conflict, or last-minute chaos. As a family lawyer, at this time of year I get asked the same questions every year, around various Christmas disputes separated parents face. From sudden plan changes and silence tactics to withheld handovers, gift battles, excessive FaceTiming, and emotional manipulation through the children.

Using real-life examples and years of court experience, this guide explains what the law actually expects at Christmas, how judges view “high-conflict” behaviour, and how to protect your children emotionally while staying calm, child-focused, and legally safe. You’ll learn what to do if your ex refuses contact, won’t confirm plans, uses Christmas as leverage, bad-mouths you to your child, or tries to control the narrative, and why your response matters more than their actions.

If you’re dreading Christmas because of a narcissistic or high-conflict ex, this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and practical steps to get through the holidays with your dignity intact and your children protected.

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Matt spent over two decades trapped by gambling, losing money, trust and years of his life, until a string of physical symptoms, panic and shame forced him to confront it.

In this episode, Matt traces the roots of his addiction, the relapses, the bankruptcy, and the moment he chose recovery. Now sober and building a recovery community online, Matt explains the tools, meetings and routines that saved him, and why he believes gambling addiction is one of the biggest problems society faces in the next few years.

If you or someone you love is struggling, this episode offers hope, practical steps and the real-life cost of staying silent.

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⌚️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Intro

01:07 - Matt’s Early Life & First Signs of Addiction

10:15 - The Start of the Gambling Addiction

16:55 - Lying, Deception & Hiding the Problem

21:25 - How Addiction Consumes the Mind

24:45 - The Spiral: Debt, Bankruptcy & Failed Attempts to Quit

38:55 - Relapse Cycles: Why Willpower Alone Doesn’t Work

52:24 - The Link Between Addiction and Neurodivergence

1:01:20 - Breaking Point: Health Issues, Rock Bottom & Asking for Help

1:09:48 - Launching “Addicted to Growth” & Helping Others Online

1:11:30 - The Truth About Gambling Addiction Today

1:14:40 - Matt’s Advice for Anyone Who Feels Trapped

1:23:05 - Final Thoughts: Hope, Recovery & What Comes Next

From a rising young golf talent to the depths of addiction, loss and rebuilding, this is Ross’s powerful and brutally honest story.

In this episode, Ross opens up about his childhood, falling in love young, supporting his wife through cancer, becoming a father, and chasing his dream of becoming a professional golfer. But behind the success was a growing dependence on alcohol that slowly took everything from him — his marriage, his career, his confidence, and his sense of self. Ross shares the moment he hit rock bottom, the painful reality of addiction, the therapy that changed his life, and the long road to sobriety.

Today, he’s a father, business owner, and a man rebuilding with purpose, discipline and gratitude. This conversation is raw, uplifting, and full of lessons for anyone facing their own struggles. If you’ve ever battled addiction, trauma, or the pressure to hold everything together, Ross’s story will stay with you.

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⌚️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Intro

02:15 - Early life in Scotland & moving to England

03:27 - First discovering golf

05:25 - Meeting my wife

07:45 - Becky’s cancer diagnosis

10:50 - Miracle pregnancy and becoming a father

13:27 - Returning to golf

15:30 - Starting PGA training

18:19 - Life as a young pro golfer

20:40 - Early signs of alcohol addiction

24:10 - Drinking escalates & the pressures build

27:20 - The breaking point and being kicked out

29:36 - Trying to quit alone & relapsing

31:20 - Losing everything & confronting rock bottom

32:35 - Therapy, forgiveness & the breakthrough moment

35:27 - Starting Cash Fore Clubs

39:10 - Lessons learned: discipline, honesty & self-care

45:27 - Advice for anyone struggling with addiction

47:08 - The return to professional golf?

48:00 - What does happiness looks like today?

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In this powerful episode, former Royal Marine and Special Boat Service operator James Hill takes us deep inside the world of the UK’s most elite military unit. From a tough childhood and finding purpose in the Marines, to surviving brutal commando training, multiple Afghanistan tours, piracy missions at sea, and the gruelling Special Forces selection process, James reveals the reality behind the uniform.

He opens up about firefights, IED blasts, live combat, the mental toll of constant danger, and the moment he was shot five times during a daring operation. James also shares rare insight into SBS culture, selection, evasion training, and what civilians never truly understand about the people who protect the country in complete silence. This is a raw, honest and emotional conversation about courage, brotherhood, trauma, sacrifice and the price paid by the few who stand between danger and the rest of us.

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⌚️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Introduction: Inside the UK’s elite SBS

02:08 - Childhood and early struggles

04:37 - Discovering the Royal Marines

08:54 - Joining the Marines: first shocks & toughest lessons

12:22 - Commando training

21:26 - The military brotherhood

28:30 - Qualifying and the first tour

36:54 - The Afghanistan tour

45:20 - The brutal reality of the UK Special Forces

56:34 - The mission that ended my military career

01:10:30 - The aftermath: recovery, identity & trauma

01:18:45 - Leaving the military and finding purpose again

01:34:40 - Final reflections: what civilians should know

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In this powerful and emotional episode, we sit down with a father who has spent five years fighting to see his daughter. Despite multiple court orders granting him contact, repeated enforcement failures and inconsistent judges he is in the same place as he was five years ago. This is a raw look into how the UK family court system is failing this father, and many other father's up and down the country.

We talk about the impact on mental health, the feeling of “living bereavement,” and why so many parents feel powerless and broken by a process that should deliver fairness. If you’re navigating family court, supporting a loved one through it, or want to understand why real change is urgently needed, this episode is a must-watch.

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⌚️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Introduction

02:05 - How it feels to have no contact with your daughter

04:30 - What were your expectations of family court?

05:46 - The first court order

10:30 - Breaching of the court order

17:57 - How did this impact on the child?

23:40 - What is missing from the court system?

28:10 - What is a barring order?

31:15 - Why do you carry on?

36:30 - Regrets and reflection

40:18 - Mental health struggles and the breaking point

43:38 - Mental health realisation and recovery

51:25 - The lack of empathy in the family court

58:27 - Advice for those still in the fight

01:01:00 - Final reflections: hope, healing, and moving forward

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Helen Villiers, psychotherapist and narcissist expert, joins me to unpack the hidden dynamics of narcissism. From love bombing and gaslighting to the trauma bond that keeps victims trapped, we explore why it’s so hard to leave, how narcissists use empathy as a weapon, and the powerful steps to reclaiming your identity and self-worth.

Helen Villiers is a psychotherapist, coach, and author specializing in narcissism, emotional abuse, neurodivergence, and recovery. She is the co-author of the Sunday Times bestseller 'You're Not the Problem: The Impact of Narcissism and Emotional Abuse', hosts the popular podcast 'The Liberation Effect', and has been featured on BBC Radio 4’s Woman’s Hour and in publications including The Independent, The Telegraph, The Mirror, and Hello! Magazine.

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⌚️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Introduction

04:15 - The Most Surprising Thing About Narcissism

05:50 - The Five Core Traits of Narcissism

08:53 - Narcissism: Personality Type, Disorder, or Both?

10:15 - When Self-Absorption Becomes Harmful

10:55 - Love Bombing and Early Red Flags

14:14 - The Science Behind Trauma Bonds

17:00 - Do Narcissists Know What They Are Doing?

18:10 - Do Narcissists Target Empaths?

21:01 - Confidence vs Control: How to Tell the Difference

22:48 - The Narcissistic Abuse Cycle Explained

28:15 - The Emotional Fallout After The Discard

31:06 - The “Gray Rock” Method: How To Escape a Narcissist

32:45 - Rebuilding Identity After Narcissistic Abuse

38:00 - Overcoming the Fear of Being “Selfish”

39:30 - Perfectionism and the Fear of Judgment

45:30 - How Therapy and Community Help Recovery

47:16 - Choosing the Right Therapist (and Avoiding the Wrong One)

50:28 - How to Begin Healing After Narcissistic Abuse

51:58 - How Long Healing Takes (and What It Looks Like)

54:45 - Why People-Pleasing is Toxic

56:35 - Can You Heal Without a Therapist?

59:04 - What a Healthy Relationship Really Looks Like

01:01:15 - Final Message: It’s Not You.

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From being £730,000 in debt to building a million-pound law firm, this is my story.

In this first episode of Tea with the Queen, I open up about how I went from a young mum in Australia to a family law barrister, and later rebuilt my entire career after losing everything. I share the lessons learned from failure, resilience, and starting over at 50 and how that journey led to becoming The Legal Queen, with over 1.8 million followers on social media and a law firm that earns over £1 million every year. If you’ve ever faced setbacks, self-doubt, or felt like giving up, this episode is proof that it’s never too late to rebuild your life and thrive.

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⌚️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Introduction

02:23 - Early life and moving to Australia

04:45 - My early law career

09:06 - Returning to the UK

10:55 - Taking on my first law firm

12:05 - The moment everything fell apart

15:45 - The hardest time of my life

23:50 - Taking on a business partner

25:14 - Being betrayed by my partner

27:40 - Closing down my first law firm

30:08 - My new full-time job

33:48 - Starting social media

38:18 - The beginning of a new law firm

40:55 - The biggest lessons I have learned

45:14 - The goal of this podcast

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