Who taught you how to drive a car? Barry shares heartfelt memories of learning to drive with his grandfather and reflects on the parallels between driving and fatherhood. He emphasizes three key characteristics that make the biggest difference.

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00:00 My First Driving Lesson

00:51 Lessons From Grandpa

03:48 Lessons From Driver's Ed Teacher

06:04 Reflecting on Driving Lessons

08:29 Fatherhood: The Ultimate Driving Lesson

10:40 The Importance of Spiritual Fathers

12:13 Taking Responsibility and Learning

14:32 Humility and Teachability in Fatherhood

19:08 fatherseekers.org

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In a world often dominated by misleading ideas about masculinity, we tackle the misconceptions of toxic masculinity. Barry and guest Mark Oleck delve into the attributes of biblical manhood, emphasizing servant leadership, emotional honesty, and strength under control. They address the cultural distortions and forgotten virtues that define true masculinity, encouraging men to reclaim their roles as leaders and protectors in a godly manner.

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00:00 The Myth of Masculinity

01:18 Guest Introduction: Mark Oleck

02:49 Cultural Perceptions of Masculinity

03:55 Historical Context and Feminism

06:33 The Role of Fathers and Family Dynamics

06:56 The Alpha Male Misconception

16:12 Toxic Masculinity Traits

21:45 The Importance of Biblical Manhood

23:49 Pseudo Confidence and Vices

24:25 The Garden of Eden and Adam's Passivity

26:42 Toxic Masculinity and Cultural Distractions

28:38 Humility and the Role of Pride

30:19 Biblical Masculinity vs. Toxic Masculinity

33:10 Elements of Biblical Masculinity

41:52 fatherseekers.org

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The seasons of life never stop. Today Barry reflects on recent season of depression and identifies practical steps to persist through whatever season you may be in. Barry emphasizes the importance of recognizing that no season—whether good or bad—lasts forever. He offers practical advice on assessing and analyzing our experiences during different seasons, and how to utilize those lessons for personal growth and resilience.

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00:00 Understanding Life's Seasons

00:22 Navigating Through Different Seasons

02:22 The Power of Seasons

04:51 Assessing and Analyzing Seasons

07:00 Learning from Seasons

08:37 Dealing with Difficult Seasons

12:45 How to Grow in Challenging Seasons

20:13 fatherseekers.org

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The young guns are teaching the old dogs new tricks. Barry sits down with Sam Cornelissen, a young entrepreneur who has had a profound impact on Barry himself. They discuss the importance of listening to the younger generation, preparing yourself to be a good husband and father while you're single, and what it takes to build a business in your 20s.

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00:00 Listening to the Younger Generation

01:27 Welcome Sam Cornelissen!

03:19 Seeking Fatherhood Wisdom

05:12 Navigating Social Media

06:37 The Role of Family

13:54 Returning to Faith

18:52 Selling on Amazon

21:45 Navigating Entrepreneurial Tensions

23:37 The Importance of Early Decisions

24:51 Building a Business in Your 20s

27:20 Learning from Failures

28:28 Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs

30:48 Balancing Business and Personal Life

32:45 Mentorship and Passing on Wisdom

36:02 Challenges of the Younger Generation

38:23 Advice for the Older Generation

40:28 Fatherseekers.org

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"If you knew what that man did to me..." Barry addresses the emotionally challenging (yet liberating) journey of forgiving your father. Tune in to discover what forgiveness truly is, what it is not, and why it is crucial for your personal and generational healing.

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00:00 How can I forgive HIM?

00:33 Because Christ forgave you

02:03 Misconceptions About Forgiveness

04:34 The True Meaning of Forgiveness

06:40 The Journey and Importance of Forgiveness

09:11 God's Requirement for Forgiveness

16:03 Practical Steps to Forgiveness

21:08 fatherseekers.org

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Do you find yourself grappling with unanswered questions and insecurities about fatherhood? Barry addresses the most pressing questions about fatherhood, offering insights and strategies to overcome the void left by an absent father. Learn how to become a good father, process pain and anger, avoid repeating past mistakes, and find positive role models and support.

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00:00 Unanswered Questions

01:27 Question 1: Becoming a Good Father Without a Father

05:21 Question 2: Processing Pain and Anger from Fatherlessness

08:55 Question 3: Providing What You Never Received

11:09 Question 4: Avoiding Your Father's Mistakes

14:22 Question 5: Impact of Father's Absence on Identity and Relationships

16:04 Question 6: Finding Positive Role Models and Support

19:47 Question 7: Forgiving and Honoring an Absent Father

24:31 fatherseekers.org

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In an age flooded with information, are you seeking the right knowledge for true transformation? Barry breaks down the Great Trifecta: wisdom, knowledge, and understanding, to help you filter, process, and apply life-changing information with precision and purpose.

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00:00 The Information Age

00:20 The Purpose of Seeking Information

00:34 The Difference Between Change and Transformation

01:02 The Ineffectiveness of Information Alone

02:25 The Importance of Purposeful Information Gathering

03:24 The Great Trifecta: Wisdom, Knowledge, and Understanding

04:48 The Pitfalls of Information Overload

08:02 Applying the Great Trifecta

09:52 The Role of Faith in Information Processing

16:34 Daily Practices for Wisdom and Understanding

19:25 Your Challenge...

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Barry sits down with his friend Mark Oleck to explore the essence of real manhood, the impact of a father's presence, and the journey to become a godly man. Mark shares his personal story, from his challenging upbringing and transformative experience in the Marine Corps to his successful career and fulfilling family life, offering valuable insights for men seeking to improve themselves and their relationships.

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00:00 What Makes a Real Man?

00:28 Meet Mark Alec: A Man's Man

01:19 Mark's Family and Early Life

02:17 Joining the Marine Corps

03:25 Confrontation with His Father

04:59 The Search for Mentorship and Identity

11:39 From Marine to Nurse Anesthetist

18:06 Family Legacy

19:03 Bootcamp and the Reality of Military Training

21:41 Bootcamp Lessons

24:09 Identify Your Strengths and Weaknesses

25:12 You Need a Coach

27:02 The Training Kicks In

28:31 Break the Cycle

32:15 Fatherhood and Personal Growth

39:07 Finding Forgiveness and Moving Forward

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How did Charlie Kirk's death effect you? Barry is joined by Tyler Gerfers, an on-campus missionary, to discuss the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk and its far-reaching impact on campus life and the Christian community. It's time to step up!

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00:00 A Watershed Moment...

00:12 The Assassination of Charlie Kirk

00:41 Welcome back Tyler Gerfers

02:14 Impact on Campus Life

03:48 The Role of Christianity in Politics

05:01 Reactions and Aftermath

08:52 Encouragement for Pastors and Leaders

30:16 Call to Action for Students

39:10 fatherseekers.org

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If you grew up without a dad, can you escape the past and find purpose? Tyler Gerfers from Louisiana Monroe's Chi Alpha Campus Ministries tells his story. Barry digs into the Tyler's incredible journey from troubled childhood, meeting Christ on campus and serving the same campus ministry.

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00:00 From Fatherlessness to Ministry

01:36 Tyler's Work and Mission

04:03 Early Life and Family Struggles

07:14 Reconnecting with His Father

08:53 Forgiveness and Trust

12:23 Impact of Fatherlessness

15:39 Journey to Powerlifting and College

16:49 Meeting His Wife and Ministry Beginnings

22:31 Current Ministry and Challenges

31:22 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

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