Cut the pride. Coachability is essential for leadership in family, work, and community. Barry warns that being uncoachable—often driven by pride, ego, insecurity, and poor decision-making—creates blind spots, resists feedback, and damages influence.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Why Coachability Matters

01:20 Leadership Starts With You

02:15 Downfalls of Being Uncoachable 04:33 Finding Coaches to Grow

05:19 Five C Feedback Loop

07:04 Correctable Without Defensiveness

11:04 Confrontable for Growth

15:08 Constancy Core Beliefs

17:11 Consistency and Habits

20:04 Practical Steps Listen Own Adjust

23:53 Final Challenge and Wrap Up

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New co-host dropping in! Meet Joel McKeefry, long time friend of Barry's, Green Bay community leader, outdoorsman, and father. Joel shares his story and what God has been teaching him lately.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Man Up

01:14 Introducing Joel McKeefry

02:18 DAG Outdoor Gear Story

04:59 Discover Green Bay and NFL Draft

08:33 Thrown Into the Fire

10:06 Faith and Support System

15:32 Rachel Love and Leadership

17:59 New Co-Host Announcement

19:05 Two Fathers Two Lessons

21:46 Work Ethic to Kingdom Purpose

24:37 People Have Different Drivers

26:52 Faithful Partnerships Approach

29:39 Praying at Partner Lunches

32:23 Open Broken Consistent

38:06 Retreat Moment of Change

40:08 Seeing Opportunity Ahead

43:45 Epitaph Love Like Christ

44:50 Call to Action for Men

47:58 Join the Father Seekers Community

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Worship and relationship with God cannot rise above a man’s understanding of God! Barry argues that your theology should determine doxology. He urges fathers to lead their homes spiritually by studying scripture.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Theology Shapes Worship

01:25 Dads Lead the Home

02:24 Emotion Over Doctrine

07:33 Test Worship by Scripture

08:20 Isaiah 6 Worship Pattern

10:05 Spotting Performance Worship

15:17 Strange Fire Warning

16:21 Manipulation and Idolatry

20:23 Feed Yourself Scripture!x

22:14 Strong Men Teach Truth

22:56 Legacy and Identity

24:25 Join FatherSeekers Community!

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Happy Father's Day! Aaron Archer joins Barry again to offer some new dad perspective, while Barry brings the sage wisdom of an aged father.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Fathers Day 26

01:37 Rapid Fire Questions

05:06 Origin of Father Seekers

09:53 Recap Aaron's Dad Story

13:13 Caretaking and Closure

22:37 Forgiveness Myths

28:24 Breaking the Cycle

33:39 Steps Toward Resolution

43:20 Faith for Skeptics

48:20 One Two Three With Jesus

53:23 New Dad Advice and Wrap

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There's a script written for your life, written from your childhood. Formed by your home, culture, church, mentors, or even abusers. Barry digs into how you CAN rewrite this script to be the father you were meant to be.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 The Manhood Script

00:45 Closing And Invitation

01:01 Barry’s Childhood Burden

02:13 Defining The Script

03:26 Where Scripts Come From

06:44 Culture And Control

08:41 When It Fits Or Hurts

09:42 Your Dad’s Script Too

11:05 How Scripts Shape Fathering

13:46 Becoming A Mentoring Father

15:03 Rewrite With Presence

16:30 Repent And Model Change

18:22 Homework And Community

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Barry challenges men to examine their “mirror routine,” warning that negative morning monologues of regret and rumination can set the pace for the day and become a key battleground in the mind. Instead, Barry offers a 5-minute liturgy to start your day in the right headspace.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Mirror Routine Mindset

01:29 Disclaimer On Theology

03:18 Affirmations Versus Scripture

07:51 Renewing The Mind

09:37 Spiritual Warfare In Thoughts

11:38 Regret And Rumination

15:21 Confession And Repentance

19:45 Five Minute Morning Liturgy

24:50 Free Community for Men!

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SEAL Your Day. Barry shares a framework to help men stop carrying mistakes, regret, and stress into the night and next morning. To end the loop of bad days, start your tomorrow every night.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Rough Mornings

01:49 Why Close the Day

05:31 Groundhog Day Trap

06:52 Three Ways to Learn

08:48 Modeling for Your Kids

10:40 SEAL Framework Intro

12:44 Question One Alignment

14:05 Question Two Kingdom Fruit

15:33 Question Three Release Failures

17:02 Question Four One Change

19:42 Make Time and Journal

20:26 Wrap Up and Community Invite

22:43 Join the Community!

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Barry offers a challenge to men stuck in directionless wandering to confront and name their wounded hearts. There's no move from confusion to purpose without healing. He describes wandering as a pattern fueled by five father wounds.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Wounded Heart Wakeup

01:40 Healing Ends Wandering

03:17 Why Men Wander

04:36 Name The Wound

05:53 Get Help Not Alone

08:07 Replace False Identity

09:28 Wonder With God

15:06 Hidden Hurt Fallout

17:59 Take Responsibility

19:44 Marks Of Healing

22:56 Reform With Truth

25:00 Join the Community!

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Barry contrasts two kinds of men: the “wanderer,” who lives misaligned and internally lost, and the “wonderer,” who lives with expectancy and is led by God as Father. What are you?

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Wanderer vs Wonderer

01:54 Why Wandering Happens

03:03 Marks of a Wandering Man

04:21 The Hidden Cost of Loss

05:12 Seeing God as Father

07:11 Invitation to Wondering

08:40 From Self to Father Dependence

10:25 Life of a Fathered Man

11:42 Formed Through Every Season

14:33 Recap and Self Check

17:59 Join the Community

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Mother’s Day isn’t easy for everyone. It can bring up painful memories. Barry and Heather share their stories to help you find healing and honor your mom at the end of it all.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Mothers Day Honor

00:42 Why Honoring Hurts

01:41 Redesigning The Questions

02:24 Mom Or Dad Wounds

07:52 Moms Voice In Your Head

09:05 Healing Journey Together

11:18 Wisdom From The Storm

14:45 Barrys Parents Reframed

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26:58 God Filling The Gaps

27:50 God as Loving Father

30:25 Healing Parents Wounds

32:30 Life Church Breakthrough

34:51 Unlearning Lies Renewed Mind

35:35 Father Wounds and Humility

41:22 Pain into Wisdom

42:54 Motherhood Do Overs

44:58 Gods Design for Family

50:18 Mothers Day Closing

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