Barry interviews his friend Jeff, who shares his remarkable journey from building nightclubs to becoming a successful real estate mogul. The conversation delves into Jeff's experiences in martial arts, his venture into politics, and his spiritual transformation. Jeff offers valuable insights on achieving financial success, serving others, and the importance of seeking God's guidance in life.

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00:00 Introducing Jeff Goelz

01:11 Real Estate Journey and International Ventures

05:18 Martial Arts and Personal Transformation

07:29 Faith, Politics, and Personal Reflections

19:50 Embracing Change and Following Christ

22:00 Money Management and Career Wisdom

23:08 Insights from Successful People

30:46 End Times and Biblical Reflections

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Barry explores the legacies of Jonathan Edwards and Max Jukes, two men who's lives drastically affected their future generations in opposite ways. Discover how the decisions you make today can shape the future for generations to come. Are you ready to build a legacy worth leaving?

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00:00 Introduction to Legacy

00:34 The Story of Jonathan Edwards and Max Jukes

02:09 Jonathan Edwards' Legacy

07:51 Max Jukes' Legacy

09:11 Reflecting on Your Own Legacy

11:17 Understanding Identity and Resources

13:52 The Importance of Stewardship

18:36 Seeking Guidance and Mentorship

20:26 fatherseekers.org

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The most requested guest so far is... Barry's wife, Heather! Join Barry and Heather as they dive into their powerful journey from brokenness to healing. They discuss the challenges of rebuilding trust after divorce, overcoming depression with community, and what legacy for them looks like for empty nesters.

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00:00 The Most Requested Guest

01:06 Unpacking the Impact of Fatherlessness

02:35 Personal Stories and Reflections

04:28 Preventative Measures and Legacy Building

06:44 Heather's Spiritual Journey

07:44 Meeting and Early Interactions

09:16 Developing a Relationship

15:45 Heather's Struggles and Support System

21:26 The Power of Worship and Community

26:45 The Importance of a Faith Community

27:32 Trust and Healing

30:42 Finding Supportive Friends

33:00 Developing a Relationship

36:15 Sabbatical and Growing Closer

39:29 Advice for New Relationships

42:55 Unpacking Emotional Baggage

44:38 fatherseekers.org

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Everyone faces their own battles. But with God, a greater story awaits. Steve Burkes exemplifies that. Barry talks to his former college classmate, Pastor Steve Burkes today. Steve is a pastor and politician from Floyd County, Indiana. From overcoming a challenging childhood, being raised by a single mother in poverty to rising as a key influencer and a devoted father, Pastor Burkes' journey is a testament to resilience and faith. Hear firsthand about his formative years, pivotal moments in college, and his unexpected path into ministry and public service.

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00:00 The Pastor and the Politician

00:28 Meet Pastor Steve Burkes

00:52 Reminiscing College Days

02:39 Journey to Southeastern College

03:33 Memorable Moments at Southeastern

07:17 Spiritual Awakening

12:59 Early Life Struggles

24:04 Meeting His Wife

29:04 Early Ministry and Marriage

30:27 Transition to New Albany

32:29 Church Productions and Excellence

33:21 Heaven's Gates, Hell's Flames Ministry

36:46 Becoming the Next Pastor

40:48 Family and Ministry Involvement

44:58 Political Journey and Community Involvement

55:51 Encouragement for Fathers

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Who taught you how to drive a car? Barry shares heartfelt memories of learning to drive with his grandfather and reflects on the parallels between driving and fatherhood. He emphasizes three key characteristics that make the biggest difference.

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00:00 My First Driving Lesson

00:51 Lessons From Grandpa

03:48 Lessons From Driver's Ed Teacher

06:04 Reflecting on Driving Lessons

08:29 Fatherhood: The Ultimate Driving Lesson

10:40 The Importance of Spiritual Fathers

12:13 Taking Responsibility and Learning

14:32 Humility and Teachability in Fatherhood

19:08 fatherseekers.org

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In a world often dominated by misleading ideas about masculinity, we tackle the misconceptions of toxic masculinity. Barry and guest Mark Oleck delve into the attributes of biblical manhood, emphasizing servant leadership, emotional honesty, and strength under control. They address the cultural distortions and forgotten virtues that define true masculinity, encouraging men to reclaim their roles as leaders and protectors in a godly manner.

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00:00 The Myth of Masculinity

01:18 Guest Introduction: Mark Oleck

02:49 Cultural Perceptions of Masculinity

03:55 Historical Context and Feminism

06:33 The Role of Fathers and Family Dynamics

06:56 The Alpha Male Misconception

16:12 Toxic Masculinity Traits

21:45 The Importance of Biblical Manhood

23:49 Pseudo Confidence and Vices

24:25 The Garden of Eden and Adam's Passivity

26:42 Toxic Masculinity and Cultural Distractions

28:38 Humility and the Role of Pride

30:19 Biblical Masculinity vs. Toxic Masculinity

33:10 Elements of Biblical Masculinity

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The seasons of life never stop. Today Barry reflects on recent season of depression and identifies practical steps to persist through whatever season you may be in. Barry emphasizes the importance of recognizing that no season—whether good or bad—lasts forever. He offers practical advice on assessing and analyzing our experiences during different seasons, and how to utilize those lessons for personal growth and resilience.

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00:00 Understanding Life's Seasons

00:22 Navigating Through Different Seasons

02:22 The Power of Seasons

04:51 Assessing and Analyzing Seasons

07:00 Learning from Seasons

08:37 Dealing with Difficult Seasons

12:45 How to Grow in Challenging Seasons

20:13 fatherseekers.org

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The young guns are teaching the old dogs new tricks. Barry sits down with Sam Cornelissen, a young entrepreneur who has had a profound impact on Barry himself. They discuss the importance of listening to the younger generation, preparing yourself to be a good husband and father while you're single, and what it takes to build a business in your 20s.

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00:00 Listening to the Younger Generation

01:27 Welcome Sam Cornelissen!

03:19 Seeking Fatherhood Wisdom

05:12 Navigating Social Media

06:37 The Role of Family

13:54 Returning to Faith

18:52 Selling on Amazon

21:45 Navigating Entrepreneurial Tensions

23:37 The Importance of Early Decisions

24:51 Building a Business in Your 20s

27:20 Learning from Failures

28:28 Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs

30:48 Balancing Business and Personal Life

32:45 Mentorship and Passing on Wisdom

36:02 Challenges of the Younger Generation

38:23 Advice for the Older Generation

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"If you knew what that man did to me..." Barry addresses the emotionally challenging (yet liberating) journey of forgiving your father. Tune in to discover what forgiveness truly is, what it is not, and why it is crucial for your personal and generational healing.

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00:00 How can I forgive HIM?

00:33 Because Christ forgave you

02:03 Misconceptions About Forgiveness

04:34 The True Meaning of Forgiveness

06:40 The Journey and Importance of Forgiveness

09:11 God's Requirement for Forgiveness

16:03 Practical Steps to Forgiveness

21:08 fatherseekers.org

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Do you find yourself grappling with unanswered questions and insecurities about fatherhood? Barry addresses the most pressing questions about fatherhood, offering insights and strategies to overcome the void left by an absent father. Learn how to become a good father, process pain and anger, avoid repeating past mistakes, and find positive role models and support.

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00:00 Unanswered Questions

01:27 Question 1: Becoming a Good Father Without a Father

05:21 Question 2: Processing Pain and Anger from Fatherlessness

08:55 Question 3: Providing What You Never Received

11:09 Question 4: Avoiding Your Father's Mistakes

14:22 Question 5: Impact of Father's Absence on Identity and Relationships

16:04 Question 6: Finding Positive Role Models and Support

19:47 Question 7: Forgiving and Honoring an Absent Father

24:31 fatherseekers.org

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